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by on May 8, 2015
What do all you spankees think about during a spanking? Do you think about anything? Do you think about the pain and wonder when it will be over? Are you so overwhelmed by the pain that you can't think about anything? Do you get lost in the pain? Are you thinking about anything else to escape the pain? Personally, I wonder when the spanking will end in the beginning. But as my spanking gets more intense, I just get lost in the continual pain and just float on the waves of pain. Eventually, I feel calm as my endorphins kick in. Please give me honest, candid answers! I'm curious whether others feel the same things that I do.
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by on October 15, 2020
Hello everybody, I hope you are all well during this crazy time that is upon us all.  Not only are we dealing with this pandemic, but we have a presidential election and of course we are coming up on holiday season.  I have a lot to tell you, and I am pretty excited about it.  Now before I get into it all, I do have to talk about the subject I dread the most, site funding.  Its always a source of embarrassment for me personally, and its something I would much rather avoid.  That said, I have learned the hard way, the longer I put it off, the worse the situation becomes. Previously I have simply pulled out the begging bowl and I do not want to do that anymore, so I am going to try something different.  I have created a new membership group called “Community Supporter”.  Everyone can choose to upgrade to this group by making a one-time payment of a minimum of $25, and that will last for as long as the site does.  You will get a small icon on your profile page together with the text ‘Community Supporter’, this is done automatically. Somethings I want to point out: You can upgrade by clicking on the upgrade button on the menu bar. When you upgrade, the charge will show as Arizoy LLC – the site will not be mentioned on your statement.  This is of course to protect your privacy. I am working on different payment gateways but for now Pay-Pal is the only option.  You do not need a Pay-Pal account though and can simply checkout as guest. If you have made a donation ever to the site of $25 or more, you will be upgraded.  I will do this manually, but it will take a bit of time.  Once I have finished, I will post as such and anyone I missed can then get in touch with me and I will fix it for them. You can choose the minimum of $25, or more, but there is no difference or additional benefits, if you choose to go higher.  I am keeping it simple.  When you think about $25 for life is pretty good value, when some sites charge around that or higher for just one month. It is a onetime payment, there is no reoccurring charge and the options will no longer appear under the upgrade button. I am hoping, this will allow the site to become self-sufficient, as we would only need a percentage of future members to upgrade their memberships in order to do so.  If we need to encourage further, we do have options such as restricting the videos, either by number or minutes to non-supporting members.  This would really be a last resort though, as I seriously want to keep the site free for everybody. With Black Friday and Cyber Monday, coming in the next few months, I would love to see enough upgrades so we can take advantage of the deals, possibly even snagging a server for a year, that would be awesome! Okay, I am so glad that’s over with …. now onto the good stuff! (dang I sounded boring in all of that)! Right you are, we are going for a major upgrade, which is currently in the testing phase on our backup server.  I will be inviting some of you to trial it for me and help identify any bugs etc.  I am funding the upgrade out of my own pocket, but this will be the last time I can do so.  This is by order of hubby whom wields the hairbrush. So here are some highlights: Its going to be faster. It will have a progressive web app, for those using tablets, cell phones etc. Again, with those using mobile devices, you will be able to download a generic app for both Android and Apple, though the respective stores. We will be using HTML 5 for videos. Chat system will be new and improved. Groups are getting a huge overall. You will be able to have password resets by email, but this will be constrained to only password resets. Photos and Albums are being revamped and will be much easier to navigate. You will have a favorite system, where you can mark any items you choose as a ‘favorite’ and then access the all from a new tab page. A few other surprises
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by on June 26, 2015
I have wondered why corner time is so common in the U.K. and parts of Europe. Spankers: Why do you chose to have your spankee stand facing a wall or corner for varying times and forbid rubbing their bottoms? Corner time is rarely used in the United States, although it was used in the 1940s and 1950s. Also, how much corner time is enough and how much is too long?
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by on January 23, 2018
Hi, in this new blog I send here a tipicals pics of schoolboys in Spain, a old dress used,and punishment
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by on June 16, 2017
WORDS can be an essential part of the interaction between a spanker and his bad boy. They can be a last warning or simply describe what will happen right now as you finally have crossed the line. In any case, they can give colour (no pun intended) to a scene. Some Daddies are naturally verbal. Others perhaps need some extra help.What expressions do you use or would you like to include in a future spanking encounter?
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by on June 19, 2021
Folks, So I am just going to come out and say this, we are an all-inclusive site, period. Do we have Gay members, YES, do we have straight members YES, do we have transgender members YES and do we have Female members YES. If you do not like a photo or a video or a comment, then you can personally choose not to watch it or view it and can block content from members you do not wish to see.   It really is that simple. If you want to be an banned word .. then leave .. just go, because you are not wanted here. What possible pleasure can you get from disrespectful and abusive behavior huh?   Get a life .. and so you know there is zero tolerance for this, and why?  Because I said so and as I own the site, that is the way it is, period.  If you don't like my explanation, well too bad for you. I do not often get angry but tonight I am pissed, just think about tolerance, think about inclusion and think very, very, hard on what being a 'bigot' means.  Those with such short-sighted minds, well God help you. Enough Said James AND Denis
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by on April 19, 2015
Always wondered about couples who live in a Domestic Discipline relationship. I understand its obvious advantages for guys like us (either in one role or the other one), but at the same time I'm not sure I could enjoy that all the time. Being in charge 24/7 could be quite tiring at the end, and the same could be said for the other part. Also, I think there are moments or situations that demand equality. Do you think it's possible to live like this fully or DD is kept as only a part of the game? Really interested in personal experiences, here or by private message. Thanks!
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by on August 20, 2013
Let me know if you'd like to become a member of my private blog. It has 100's of nude, uncensored photos of me. You need an invitation so send me a message with your email and I'll add you to the list.
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by on August 9, 2015
I haven't seen my boyfriend "R" in some time, he's been busy working extra shifts and days at the bar. FINALLY yesterday I was able to get him to myself for the morning and asked if he would be willing to go with me to a spanking session with the "Daddy" I met a couple weeks ago (Sam). The theme for this session was a "Break in" so I told him all about it during the drive over there. Originally I planned to trick R into going by saying this dom guy wanted to buy his dirt bike - but R seemed perfectly happy going just to see my ass beat. When we arrived at Sam's house, we checked in with him and I introduced him to R. We discussed that I would go to the garage, wait a few minutes and Sam would then walk in and catch me as a thief. R joined me in the garage and we hung out for a while waiting for the "show" to start. I told R I was nervous and asked him to hug me while we waited. This gave me the perfect opportunity to betray him... To betray him big time. You see, R has been too neglectful lately, grumpy, and cocky and this trip was REALLY to get him spanked by Sam. While we stood there in the dark garage hugging, I slipped a credit card Sam had given me into R's back pocket........ Like 10 mins later, Sam walked in and did the whole scenario "WTF do you think you're doing?" thing and said he would call the cops unless I submitted to a spanking. R was smirking and obviously was ready to see my ass get beaten. This is the point where I threw him under the bus. I spun around, pointed at my boyfriend and told Sam that I was just a lookout and that HE was actually the one stealing. R got very white and stuttered his way through trying to say he wasn't part of the role play, and he was just there to watch. He walked toward the exit of the garage, the whole time saying that this wasn't happening, and that he wasn't here to play along. Sam snagged R by the ear as he walked past and directed him to a work bench on the far side of the garage. R has some muscle, but so does Sam, plus he just oozes fatherly power and he has the experience to back it up. There was no resisting as Sam started searching my boyfriend and checking each pocket. Sam eventually came across the credit card I had planted earlier, and displayed his finding to R just in front of his face. R was speechless, literally speechless, and shot me a look of death as he realized I had set up the whole thing. Sam took a rag and zip ties and secured R's wrists together, then pulled him across the work table and secured his wrists to a vice that was bolted to the edge of the table on the other side. He removed R's black leather Dickie's belt and laid into the seat of his jeans while lecturing him the whole time. Sam gives a lecture like I've never heard before, trying to beat and guilt the poor guy into "changing his ways". Of course the whole scenario was bogus, but it was fun to watch just the same. R started to grunt and shuffle around as the sting of the belt grew stronger, but he didn't protest or beg or threaten. He must have been too proud for that. Eventually his crazy sexy Fox Grease Monkey jeans were pulled down and his white boxer briefs got to say "hello" to the belt as well. Sam kept spanking away like a robot, the belt making a weird S pattern in the air since he didn't stop between smacks. By the time the briefs came down, R wasn't grunting anymore, he was shouting, and bucking around trying to roll out from under each lick of the belt. This didn't phase Sam though, he just adjusted his stance and each stroke hit its mark no matter where R's ass was. The shade of red on R's ass by the time Sam stopped reminded me of a stop sign, which I remember thinking was ironic. I walked over to R, still tied across the table and asked if he was OK. He didn't say anything to me, I could tell he had been crying and didn't want to show his face. He looked away as I came closer and tried to hide his puffy eyes. Instantly, I felt Sam's hands on both of my shoulders as he steered me to one of the shelving units against the wall. He stood behind me and wrapped a rag around my wrists, then secured them together with zip ties, just like he did with R. He said something like "look outs get spanked too" or something similar. He zipped my wrists to one of the higher shelves on the rack, so I had to stand on tip toes just to keep from hanging there by the wrists. He rolled up my shirt and tucked it into its self around my shoulders and made some kind of snarky comment when he saw the brand of my jeans was "Rude". He tried to remove my boots, but the straps and buckles were taking too long to figure out so he ended up giving up in frustration and giving my ass several angry smacks with his hand. He then grabbed the belt he had just used to break R and proceeded to strap away at my own ass. The pattern was pretty much the same for me as it had been for R. I got a long lecture on how stealing was wrong and anti social and banned word. He strapped away at my jeans, then underwear, then my bare ass, however he didn't put nearly as much effort into the strokes as he had with R. I could tell he was getting tired from the energy he had been putting into it, and his breathing was kinda heavy. Pretty quick he stopped and sat down to rest a bit. He took a pair of clippers or something and unhooked R from the vice which for a second scared the F-U-C-K out of me. Was he going to let him loose on me while I was restrained??? No, actually he was unhooked so Sam could lay my poor boyfriend over his lap and smack away at his bare ass while Sam "rested". There was a lot of soft sobbing, and R was seriously trying to control himself, wiping his face against his shoulder and pounding his linked fists against the ground. After that, Sam lifted R off his lap and directed him out of the garage and to the house. They were gone for about 5 minutes before Sam walked back in and told me that R was cooling down in his guest room. He gave me a few hard smacks on the ass with his hand, then cut me down and released my wrists. I had to drive us home, R could barely sit and ended up laying his seat all the way back to help take the weight off his butt. He was totally adorable laying there, all pouty with his eyes still a little swollen. He pulled his spiked baseball cap over his face trying to hide it from me, but I could see. I pulled up his T-shirt and rubbed his tummy muscles for a while trying to calm him down. When we finally got back to his place... Well, anyway I left 3-4hrs later. The poor guy still had work that night from 4-midnight, don't know HOW he did that.
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by on April 22, 2021
So an update on what has been going on. I did a server rebuild and moved us over to a better web server, Litespeed as opposed to Apache.  This had to be done for several reasons, speed being an obvious one but also because the server had some faults, including its networking.  It takes a long time to do this, because I have to move the data from the server to a backup VPS and then back again.  When we do the copy back to the server, given the large amount of data, it is a six-hour process.  That said, this will be the last build for the next 18 months, unless the hardware fails. On the networking, it proved to be extremely frustrating and I am pissed about it.  We used Enom as our domain host, because the interface is easy to use and because propagation is virtually instant.  Enom sold out to Hover and I have never seen a more useless control panel in my life.  I was unable to edit name servers or glue records with it constantly giving me ‘auth’ errors.  I did create a ticket and I am still waiting and that was over 24 hours ago.  Part of the networking issue was that guys could not get to the site from some locations, there was a problem with DNS. Given that Hover screwed me right up the middle, I signed up for a month’s trial with a DNS hosting provider, which seems to be going well.  At the very least it gives me a month to move to another domain registrar, because hover can go f*** themselves.  Do let me know if you are experiencing problems, but I will have our own private nameservers back up again soon. I had hoped to run upgrades and fix some other issues, but again I struck out of luck as the script installer and upgrade routine constantly failed.  To that end, I have duplicated the site on the same server and will work on refreshing the database from scratch.  What that means in practice, is I install the script fresh with no data.  I then using a copy of our database strip all the extra modules out and all the core components and export to a file.  On the fresh database, I simply drop all the tables that are populated on our live database, and then merge the two together.  It is time consuming, but I will get it done. So you guys now we are still moving away from the scrip to social engine, I just need to figure a lot of bits and pieces on that.  It’s a totally different can of worms, but again I will get it done.  As I have said before once we get over onto social engine, everything will run smoother and nicer, including progressive web apps. So that’s it from me, and I am considering having a large southern comfort.   Hugs   James
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by on July 16, 2021
Well guys, as much as I hate doing it and I try very hard not to, it is time for a fundraiser for the site.  At the moment thanks to some recent donations, we are funded for at least the next two months, but I am conscious of the fact, I do not want to leave it to the last minute.  In addition, I would love to generate enough revenue to hire a professional to help fix the server side and get our performance issues fixed. I am able to do most of the server configuration myself, but I am not a jack of all trades, and in this case, I need expert help.  The good thing is this will be a one-off cost as all the tweaks etc. will be documented.  It will solve our frustrations. Now please, only donate if you can afford to do so, I mean that.  Right now, with the pandemic everyone is in a difference place, financially, Healthwise and Career Wise.  It is important to concentrate on what matters the most and this site should not be a top priority. If you want to donate, please click on the donate button, or if you have not sone so already consider updating your membership.   Hugs and many thanks   James
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by on November 14, 2013
How many of you other bad boys know what I am talking about. Your either over the knee or bending over a desk or chair...A paddle, brush, belt, cane or strap has taken over your bottom checks...Yes the at first the dreadful feeling of JUST how much it hurts comes over you, but as men we can take it...well the first swats or minute but then THE PANIC moment, the bottom has warmed up it is close to fire now and the discipline is not letting up....and BOOM the high pitch plea for mery, maybe some lads try to take a hand to cover the buttocks from the next swat (NEVER A GOOD IDEA) Or the dreaded tears come to your eyes (DAMN IT I AM A MAN, MEN DO NOT CRY AT SPANKINGS! .......) Then the pain is so great you don't care anymore..the fists are pounding into the floor, the legs are kicking around, tears flown down your face and your pride is lost, you can't fight it anymore, a well deserved punishment has gotten the best of you.
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