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Hello,   I have been absent for a very long time and I apologize.   As some of you may know Denis visits the UK every summer, this particular time he contracted COVID and it was pretty bad.  It was so serious that I had to go over there, and spent several months while he thankfully recovered and was able to travel back to the US.   During my time there, I too got infected, but that’s okay, it was bad, but not too serious.   We are both having some side effects, Denis is having a harder time than I am recovering but we are both getting there.   I really had my hands full and other issues like my authenticator app failed for email access and phone access was restricted due to a change in carrier.   Right now, I have started a new job which I was offered before this all happened, thankfully the company I am now working for were very understanding and let me join the training group I am presently enrolled in.   I will be in contact with my dear friends by email and phone over this holiday weekend.   If you are in the US, please have a wonderful holiday and whatever you do, be safe.  If you have a wee drink or two or three, use Uber or any other transport but PLEASE do not drink and drive.   Everyone, else, please have a fantastic weekend, whether you are just chilling, being spanked, or giving a spanking and stay safe.  We have a fantastic community, and it means so much to me and is very dear to my heart.   Botoms upppppp and Hugssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss   James

There's been a lot of discussion about the cane lately.  Here in the States the implement of choice has been the belt or paddle.  I guess one always fears what is unfamiliar or unknown. For me, that was the cane!   Growing up I was never spanked and my only experiences with spanking until I was 47 years old, was self spanking.   I couldn't spank myself very effectively with a belt, whip or cane so those implements were greatly feared.   I always feared whips and canes most thinking they would cut my bottom to shreds!  I did finally experience getting spanked with various leather and even some rubber straps and they actually became some of my favorite spanking implements because of their great sting and less likelihood to do any major damage to me because of their flexibility compared to wooden paddles.    I still haven't received what I'd call a solid belt whipping yet.  I've had a couple good tastes of a good belt spanking,  but haven't felt the full wrath of a strict man with a solid leather belt in his hand, but it's on my list of things to experience.    I have only been spanked once with a cane.   It was during the punishment spanking I got for real misbehavior when a spanker found out about something I did in high school and got away without any punishment.  He spanked me for it 40 years later.  I've mentioned that spanking before as I was stripped, lectured, shaved, jerked off and then spanked.  And all this happened in front of several other men.   He also spanked me with a cane that day after he blistered my bottom with a lexan paddle!   I didn't think my bottom could hurt any more after the paddling, but oh how wrong I was!   I was wrong on two accounts.  First I thought my bottom would numb up after a while with the lexan paddle, but it kept stinging like I sat on on nest of hornets!   The last paddle swat stung just as much as the first!   And then that cane felt like the spanking started all over again!   I would never let anyone spank me with a cane before, but this spanker insisted that I be caned that day and since it was the first time I was getting a real spanking for real misbehavior, I figured I deserved it and agreed to the caning!   I set some clear boundries, that there was to be no broken skin and I trusted the spanker to to stay within those limits.  He told me he would give me six "strokes" with the cane. With some hesistation I agreed.   When the caning started I began to count to myself hoping I could get through it!  One, two, three, four, five, six!   I made it, but he didn't stop.  The stokes of the cane kept coming!  Seven, nine, twelve, fifteen, twenty, twenty-five!    As the cane strokes continued I told him that I thought he was only supposed to give me six!    He just laughed and replied, "You didn't really only want six, did you?"   And then he said, "And I can give you as many as I want to!"   They kept coming!   Watching the video we took, I could see myself lifting up on my toes from the sting, as I tried to remain in place.  From the front adding to my humiliation, my bald shaved dicklete is fully exposed as I desperately try to keep my hands out of the way of the cane.  From the rear my bright red bottom is in view as the cane whistles through the air making me lift up onto to toes as it strikes time and time again. Thirty, thirty-five, forty, forty-five and finally after about fifty he stopped!   Some were slow and hard.  Some were quick and whippy.   When he finally stopped with the cane he gave me a final paddling and then told me to go stand in the corner.   I stayed there with my naked shaved bottom on display for about 15 minutes.  After he called me out from the corner, I had to stay naked with my bald dick and red bottom on display for all those other men to look at, for over an hour before he let me get dressed. I was completely bare and exposed while the other men that had been spanked were allowed to get dressed!  The humiliation of being kept naked, with my shaved crotch and red bottom on display in front of all those other men was part of my punishment. When I looked at my bottom in the mirror there were no cuts or broken skin.  He kept his word.  But I could clearly see some angry purple cane lines across the top of my bottom.  They did fade away about 5 hours later though.   The other men, all spankos themselves, commented about how that was the reddest butt they ever saw.   I had never been spanked with either a cane or a lexan paddle before that day.   I looked up about the lexan paddle online before I went there and what I read didn't make me feel any better.   And yes, all the stories I read about how much that paddle stung were true!   So were my fears of how much the cane hurt.   The fears I had built up about both the cane and the lexan paddle made them both very effective implements to be spanked with.  Once he was standing behind me, I couldn't see the cane but I could hear the swish it made before it bit my bottom!   That along with the humiliation of having my pubic hair removed, being masturbated before the spanking and being left on display as part of the punishment, in front of all those other men, all contributed to a very effective spanking. I am open to being caned again, providing the spanker doesn't get carried away.  Closely related to a cane in my mind is something much more common here in the States - the switch.  Some say it's even worse to be spanked with a tree switch than a cane!  The "Switch" is something else I've never experienced, but something friends have told me is whippier and more painful than a cane.  My own dad threatened me with a switching as a boy one time and the memory of that threat is still fresh in my mind over fifty years later!  I definietly want to be on the recieiving end of a switching someday along with enduring the shame of the ritual of being sent naked into the yard to cut and prepare the switches that will be used on me!   As long as the person weilding the switch uses care like my spanker did using the cane.  As I've always said, the rituals around the spanking are as important as the spanking itself and are best served in front of an audience!   When I see branches outdoors that would make a suitable switch, I can't help but think about being sent out there naked to cut and prepare the switch and then think about being bent over right there for a good switching!   A switching outdoors is especially embarrassing where you don't know who might be watching the spectacle!   And just because it's being given outdoors doesn't mean the switching shouldn't be given naked!   Above is a photo of me naked in a public wooded area.  The disciplinarian that spanked me with the cane, ordered me to get naked at work and go into a wooded area and masturbate for him on video!   Of course, as you can see from the photo below,  I couldn't resist obeying him!   Just imagine if you caught me and insisted that I go cut some switches so you could give me that naked switching I've been craving right there where anyone could watch!   It would be exactly what I deserved! That's one convenient thing about switches.  They are always readily available.  There's no need to be carrying a cane around!  And it's much more fun to send a naked boy to go fetch a switch!

The Quiz "Strip to your jockstrap." "Yes sir". The athlete did so, pulled his T-shirt over his head, and then pulled his gym shorts off.   Coach contemplated the young man standing before him. He was 19 and in two college sports, track and karate. He was 6 feet even, 185 lbs, with a good natural build. He had blond hair on his head, slightly long, medium brown flared sideburns and a mustache. He may have had a six-pack but the coach couldn't  tell for the brown stripe of hair that rose up out of his jock, spread part ways over his abdomen, rose to his sternum and fanned out over his chest in the classic Tree of Life pattern.   The coach said "I'm going to question you about a few things. If you don't want to talk, or I think you're lying, I'm gonna use the yardstick on you until you feel like cooperating. You understand?" The jock said "Yes sir" very quietly, but looked the coach in the eye. "Alright."    "First off, when did you grow hair on your dick?"   "When I was twelve".   "Twelve what?" "Twelve sir"   "That's better."   "How long have you been masturbating?"   "Coach, sir, do I have to tell you?"   Coach picked up the wooden yardstick and moved to the jock's side. He let the yardstick rest on the student's left butt check, framed by the jock. "Yes, you do"   "Sir I don't want to answer that".   The coach pulled the yardstick back and smacked it on the young man's left butt cheek. The crack echoed in the small equipment room. The jock winced, but he held on. "Well?" said the coach. The jock didn't answer. The coach hit his ass again. And again, on both sides about twenty times. Finally, the young man gasped, out "Been jackin' off since I got hair on my dick, sir!"   Next question. "When did you start shaving?"   "I'm not gonna tell you, sir!" said the jock firmly. "Oh, really?" said the coach. He stood to the side of the younger man and cracked the yardstick across his broad tanned shoulders. The jock tried not even to wince. He'd endured worse pain than this on the mat. The coach knew he'd need more persuading. He hit his back again, just under the shoulder blades. Again, diagonally, and several more times. As the jock took this he wondered if his coach was going to break the yardstick over him. He knew his interrogator had at least a couple more in reserve. "OK, sir, it was 15!" he admitted.   "Good!" enunciated the coach. "Now we're getting somewhere. He moved around in front of his subject.   He raised the yardstick and gently ran it down the student's chest, right between the pecs, slowly down the happy trail to the top of his jock. "You're pretty hairy for your age. When did you grow hair on your chest?"   "No sir, I'm not telling".   "The coach tilted his head back. "OK, have it your way". He moved off to the side and brought the yardstick to rest flat on the athlete's furry flat abdomen. He drew back and smacked hard, very hard, on the taut muscles. The student expected it and kept his mouth open, letting the air out so it wouldn't hurt as bad. Marching the yardstick up and down, he delivered several hard smacks from the top of the pecs to the top of the jock. Finally, the athlete admitted that his chest started getting hairy at 16.   "Pull your jock strap down, and put your hands on top of your head". The athlete slowly did so, sliding the waistband down over his sore buttocks. The coach moved behind him and inspected his handiwork. The athlete had several distinct rectangular marks along the edges of his buttocks; they melded into the general redness in the middle. Across his upper back there were several well-defined stripes from the yardstick. Moving around to the front, the coach saw that the athlete's belly was pink, where the hair allowed the strokes to show through.   The athlete's genitals hung out on display. His pubic hair was plush and an uncircumcised penis hung out of the growth, over a full-looking and symmetrical hairy scrotum.   "For not cooperating, you know what you're in for. Stand still and keep your hands on your head".   The coach moved to the side and lifted the yardstick. He put the yardstick under the athlete's penis and lifted it up against his hairy belly, then let it drop. He repeated this about five times until the penis began to stir with an erection. He stroked the underside of the shaft with the edge of the yardstick. Now the member was fully horizontal and getting curved as it tilted up. Sweat was making tracks in the jock's body hair. Coach put the yardstick on the top of the penis and pushed down, let it spring back up. He did this also about five times, making the jock gasp.   "Ready to take a man's punishment?" "Yes sir!" the jock replied firmly.     Coach brought the yardstick down on the shaft, not too hard at first, more like a firm tap. Then another, harder, and another, harder, further up the shaft. The cockhead was now almost fully emerged from the foreskin and it got a firm flick that made the athlete hiss though clenched teeth. His cock was pink and getting redder. The coach gave the underside a few gentle strokes with yardstick edge, and then brought the flat of yardstick up under the shaft quickly. The penis bounced up and almost hit the belly hair. The athlete was squirming from side to side, trying not to leave the position. Another quick vertical stroke and the cock rebounded, grazing the hair over the jock's navel. A third and then fourth harder stroke made the penis strain up almost vertically. The coach hit the underside of head so hard it sounded like a rifle shot. "AAAAGH!" shrieked the athlete and semen flew out in a white comet across the desk, followed by several lesser, ropey jets.         

Fetiching the Belt is one of the rituals of spanking that turn me on.  It's a simple thing that can be added to a spanking that makes it much more humiliating and therefore increases the embarrassment and shame of the spanking and as a result, the effectiveness of the spanking!  After all, it's the shame of the spanking that's remembered long after the sting has faded away!   (I decided to continue my Fetching the Belt photo story that I started in photo post format in my Blog instead. These photos were from an actual spanking I got.  I added captions to the photo to portray a fantasy I have of getting a belting in front of a group of my friends and being made to fetch the belt while they watch.   In this case I imagine the spanker to be a much younger spanker too making it even more embarrassing for me to be naked in front of him and obey him.  To sumarize the previous parts posted in photo format, I was spanked with a paddle then sent to the garage naked to hang the paddle back on the garage wall. I imagined this happening in front of a group of my own friends making this spanking even more humiliating than it was!  It's something I've observed others endure many times as a boy but never experienced the shame of myself and have always fantasized about it happening to me!   Perhaps someday that fantasy will become a reality - and at my age it will be even more humiliating!  If any of my friends see these naked pictures of me, I hope they'll strip me naked and give me that humiliating public spanking just like I describe, making this fantasy become a reality!   Stripped naked. face, dick, balls and red paddled bottom all exposed for everyone to see, I'm sent to hang the paddle back on the garage wall and "fetch the belt!".  It adds to my embarrassment to be made to participate in my punishment by making me bring back the next implement that's going to be used to spank me, especially with a group of my friends watching and smirking, anticipaitng the show they are about to see.   As a teen I was always eager to see my friends get spanked.  I was turned on seeing them humiliated.  So it's only fair others get to enjoy seeing me get an embarrassing spanking now!  The paddles and belt are kept hangling on the garage wall where everyone can see them. Especially my friends when we go in and out.   I'm warned that I better tell them exactly what they're for, if they ask.  That they there to spank my bare bottom!    If I don't tell the truth, I'm told I'll be stripped naked and they'll get a live deomonstration so they can see for themselves!  When I pick the belt up off it's hook I can't help feel the it and snap the leather a few times.   The belt turns me on so much.   Leather belts make me so honry they make my little nub start to get hard!     When I open the door to come back inside, I can hear you yell that I better hurry up and better not be playing with that belt.  I say I'm coming as fast as I can.  You warn me that if I'm lying I'm going to get a mouthsoaping along with the belting, but you know I'm lying!  When the belt is involved, it just turns me on so much, I can't help feeling and snapping the leather.  As I bring the belt back I can't help playing with it some more.  It just turns me on so much feeling the thick leather thinking about how it's going to feel when it cracks down on my bare heinie!   You catch me red handed and now my ass is going to pay for it!   And so is my mouth with that bar of soap!   And my friends are all eager to see me get my mouth washed out with soap!  And get spanked with a bar of soap in my mouth!   Especially at my age!    But first you tell me to show everyone my red paddled bottom and since I like feeling the leather of the belt so much to let it dangle over my back let the tip of it rub on my bottom.   I do that and wiggle my bottom around letting the tip of the belt carress my cheeks.   Everyone is laughing.  Then you tell me to fold it in half and lay it on my back and bend over and stick my bottom out to give everyone a good view of my red paddled bottom and balls.   I feel so vulnerable and exposed and feel that wide leather belt on my back knowing everyone's eyes are right on me!    Finally I had to face my friends in shame and admit out loud that I was going to get spanked with the belt with a bar of soap in my mouth because I lied!    I determined my fate with my behavior and now my friends were going to see what happens to me when I misbehave!   I get my bare naked bottom spanked and I get my mouth washed out with soap no matter how old I am!  And if I was worried about them watching it happen I should have thought about that beforehand!   There are several other photos posted, all with captions like the one above.   The last photos end with posts made 10/11/2023.  If you want to see the detailed photos posted previously you can find them in my personal feed here: https://southspanking.com/groups/need2botk  Now the story of my spanking and my naked exposure continues in Part D   The Ritual of Fetching the Belt Continues (D1)    Having to participate in my own punishment is all part of the punishment.   Getting the belt that's going to spank my own ass.   And  getting the bar of soap that's going to used to wash out my mouth!  It doesn't help any that a group of my friends are sitting there grinning and smirking eager to watch me be punished, but I have to admit, I sure enjoyed watching my friends get punished like that when I was a teenager.   So I guess it's payback time for me now.   Only it's a lot more humiliating at my age!    Not to mention the fact that I'm buck ass naked!  No, my friends are never going to let me forget that they got to watch me get spanked and get a mouth soaping!   They are going to love every minute of watching my big butt turn redder and redder!     I definitely deserve to be spanked by them too.   Guys I know and have to face on a regular basis.   So that every time we see each other the smirk on their face will tell me they are thinking about how they had me buck ass naked and bent over their knees like a naughty little boy for the ass spanking I deserved!   And we will both know they can strip me and spank me again whenever they want to!   The Ritual of Fetching the Belt Continues (D2)    Bringing back the bar of soap that is going to wash out my mouth.   I got mouthsoapings as a kid but I never got a spanking growing up.   I hated getting my mouth washed out with soap.   I should have had my bottom spanked with the soap in my mouth and then perhaps I wouldn't have needed a mouth soaping so often!   But instead I just got locked in my room!   I can still remember the awful taste of the soap in my mouth as a boy and the threat of my parents using the dreaded bar of lava soap with the pumice in it that was sure to scour the filth out of a foul mouthed boy!  I never really had an interest in it as an adult   That was until 2017 when I had a spanking conversation with a 19 year old kid at work and he told me about his belt spankings and mouth soapings.  That's when my interest mouthsoapings as an adult started!    I'm sure he would love to soap my mouth and give his boss a good hard belt whipping!   And actually, I wouldn't mind having him do it to me!     The Ritual of Fetching the Belt Continues (D3)    Mouth soaping. I can't explain why but just taking the bar of soap out of the box and thinking about it going in my mouth and going over a guy's knees for a spanking is giving me a boner!   I'm sure my friends would be laughing their asses off if they were there watching!   Hell I'd be laughing my ass off if I was watching it happen to a buddy!   I never did get to witness a friend get his mouth washed out with soap but I sure would have enjoyed seeing it.  Any guy would!  A guy is never too old for a spanking and he's never too old to get his mouth washed out with soap either!   It would be so humiliating to be standing there buck ass naked with an already spanked bottom, taking the bar of soap out of the box and hand it to you knowing you're going to soap my mouth with it right in front of my grinning and smirking friends.  Them all eager to see the awful punishment unfold before their eyes, knowing from personal experience what I'm about to endure!  And all eager to see me spanked with the bar of soap in my mouth!    The Ritual of Fetching the Belt Continues (D4)    Humiliation is an essential element of a spanking or any punishment for that matter.   Standing buck ass naked in front of a group of my own friends with the bar of soap in my hand and having to explain to them that I'm about to get a mouthsoaping will make my punishment much more humiliating for me.    Seeing the smirks spread across their faces as I tell them how the bar of soap is going to wash out my mouth and how I'm going to be spanked with the soap in my mouth will be horrible for me!     I'll see how much they'll be enjoying my shame,  and my face will burn bright red, but not as much as it will as it happens. And not as red as my bottom will be once the spanking starts!    Their comments about how sweet this is going to be only makes it worse!     The Ritual of Fetching the Belt Continues (D5)    Asking for the spanking or having to beg for it really drives the point home especially in front of an audience.   I only had to ask for a spanking once and it was really embarrassing.   And there was a group of  other men there watching me get spanked.    It should be a part of every spanking.   It shows my acceptance of my punishment and my submission to the spanker's authority and dominance over me.   What was once a boner has shrunken to a little boy like nub again.  I'm not so excited to be spanked anymore.    The Ritual of Fetching the Belt Continues (D6)    The anticipation builds waiting to feel the sting of the belt.   But that's not the position I was expected to be in.  He wants my face touching the table so my ass is sticking up in the air, exposed even more!     The Ritual of Fetching the Belt Continues (D7)    That's better positioning.  Everything fully exposed.  Ass offered for the belt. Even my hole exposed to my friend's view for their amusement! When that leather snaps across my ass it's definitely going to sting!   There's no hiding anything when you're being spanked like this!   The story continues in Part E  

Communication in M/m Discipline-Centered Relationships "Don't Make Me Use My Daddy Voice"   As an excitable boy, I have a tendency to over-talk, over-communicate. This is a vice, not a virte, and I own that fully. However, in a relationship, it can be a buzzkill, a deal breaker, a repeated annoyance. My Daddy is pretty darned great about it, but he does tune it out most of the time. When it comes to the physical connection, however, overtalking is a disaster for us. Last fall, I was asked to provide perspective on the DD relationship. I covered 5 critical areas:    The Goal of a Discipline-centered Relationship: Love. Start there first. Daddy's Toolkit: Develop a Discipline Approach That Works for Both of You Communication: Silence Can Be Golden. Managing Challenges as They Arise Becoming Stronger Together   But the part that really struck me was how being in an unequal relationship, that talking things out and having knock-down-drag-out verbal fights like vanilla couples is just not helpful. For me, I attribute this to being a male.  In my writeup, I began to think more deeply about what we've been told our whole lives to do: always communicate with your partner. And from my perspective, the DD relationship takes a more constructive form of communication. In the few paragraphs below, let's see if I can better explain.  ______________________________________ Now your Mom always told you: "Communication is the key to a successful relationship. So be sure you communicate!"  Silence can be golden sometimes and talk can be imperative sometimes.   And well, we're men, and let's be honest, over-communicating is not helpful. One surefire way to ruin a good thing in a Domestic Discipline relationship is to over-communicate.  Find the value for both of you by trying the following:   Use text for shorter issues Email for longer issues Talk by phone instead of talking face to face.  Alternatively, talking face to face instead of email or text (like you do when a certain flavor of problem arises at work and an email would just be the wrong approach).  Sometimes you will want a sit-down discussion, know why you want one before going there. The Joy of Texting One of the things that I love is getting a text from Daddy about what my friend 'zander calls "soft domming." I love getting a text when I'm out with friends that reads: "Be sure to behave yourself!" "Daddy's keeping an eye on you. Just checking in. Give me an update." or "Have fun. Remember what we talked about."   Also "If you are drinking, I want to know. I'll come get you." Just reading that will make me watch my drinking, so I don't get a Spanking when I get home for making Daddy come get me.   When to Email Some topics are just hard to talk about and you might want an email. A boy for instance might want to write an email to Daddy explaining why a Spanking that happened didn't work right. What went wrong. Or if he inadvertently used triggering language (e.g., Daddy cursed or yelled in a way that hit you in a deeply uncomfortable place) or action (e.g. a faceslapping for some boys is too much). It's often far easier for the boy to express via an email. And just as importantly, it's easier for Daddy to "hear" it through email than through a different form of communication.  When to Try a Phone Call Not all DD relationship involve living together, and sometimes an issue is emotional or more than just a friendly warning. A phone call can clear up potential problems faster than an endless text thread about something you are disagreeing on. Sometimes you want to hear your boy's voice. One example we've had is what you want to hear that your boy is not drunk. If he is, you want to feel that out more clearly, and a phone call will be indispensable.  When to Sit Down and Discuss Some issues require a sit-down discussion. This most often comes about when something has bubbled up multiple times, a Daddy or boy has tried to express themselves on the matter, but it just is coming up again. Many partners will have a Behaviour Review weekly but sometimes these should be limited to Spanking solutions.  Sometimes you just need to see each other face-to-face and know that you can do so in a judgement-free safe space. Ultimately, however, it's always time to know when it's time to not talk at all. That's often when it's time to confront, punish, and correct.    Addressing destructive behaviors in a DD relationship is important, of course. One of the ways to do that is dipping into Daddy's toolbox and finding a Spanking solution. Sometimes a simple beating on the behind will do the trick. Sometimes its more of a behavioral solution you'll be looking for—like writing lines or washing out your boy's mouth with soap.  And sometimes it's just best to have a Daddy-boy conversation not as equals, but fully immersed in your DD relationship roles.     But know the difference when it's time to talk things through, and when it's not.  Silence can be golden sometimes and talk can be imperative sometimes. But the freedom that Domestic Discipline brings partners in knowing when to do which is so much simpler than leaping into a 3-week long grudge match. Communication is key. And sometimes communication comes in the form of Daddy's paddle.   Communication is Key, and Sometimes communication comes in the form of Daddy's paddle.       Please comment below or email us with your ideas   aok4otk@aol.com or cornertimeconf@gmail.com ______________________________________ Follow Cornertime Confidential Wherever You Are:   Tumblr  ∙  SouthSpanking ∙  Twitter  ∙  WordPress

You Should Give Me The Belt.  Crack it down on my bare naked ass! Link for Part 5C- Wash My Mouth Out With Soap  After giving me a mouthsoaping, bend me over the end of a couch or bed and take your belt to my bare naked bottom.   Give me a good hard belt whipping just like I watched my friends get growing up!  I haven't really experienced a good belt whipping yet.   I've had a few tastes of one but the belt still remains an illusive implement to me. Let me feel the leather on my bare naked ass!   Show me what it's like!    I get so turned on seeing a belt around a strict man's waist. Or even when I catch a whiff of the scent of a new leather belt!    Oh, yeah!  My boy dick gets hard just hearing a leather belt snap or even looking at one!  And I get a raging boner when I see or hear a belt crack down on another guy's naked ass!   Seeing the belt flex, hearing the crack of the leather against naked skin, it sounds so wicked and turns me on so much, my dick can't help but pulse and throb!   I definitely deserve to find out what the true wrath of the belt is like!   The photos below are me getting a taste of the belt.   In the two photos above TNMike stripped me naked, bent me over the end of the bed and took his belt to my bare naked ass.  Later in the spanking he pointed out he left the window blinds open to humiliate me.  When I looked outside, there were a couple older teens next door working in the yard that might have seen this grown man getting his naked ass whipped with a belt that day.  They may have found out that you're never too old for a spanking!    It really hurts when your ass crack is spread wide open and the tip of the belt cracks down right on your exposed hole!   Yeow!  My dick and balls are pulled back to add to my humiliation too!   Getting the belt standing up is totally humiliating if there's an audience watching because as you jump around from the sting of the belt, if you have a boner like I do in the photo above, it bounces around making a comical spectacle out of you!  Yeah you dick bobs up and down for everyone's amusement!  They all know that even though your ass on fire, you're still turned on getting spanked naked with "the belt"!  Someone like me that gets turned on getting spanked deserves to be spanked even harder and longer, and in a more humiliating way!    I've been spanked a lot with various straps - razor strops, prison straps, rubber straps, but the belt just turns me on in an incredible way.    It's a very personal implement to be spanked with.   If it's the spanker's belt, I'll be thinking about the spanking I got with it every time I see it around the spanker's waist.   Or if it's my own belt that's used to blister my bottom, I'll be thinking about the spanking I got with it as I see it hanging in a closet or coiled up on a dresser.  Or every time I put it through my belt loops to put it on or take it off.   There will be constant reminders of the whippings I got with that belt!   It can easily be left laying around and no one will think twice about it. No one but me, the spanker, and those who witnessed my spanking will know it's there to spank my naked ass with!   It's not like a paddle drilled with holes that is only used for one thing.  The belt can be left laying around to embarrass me and amuse those who know I get spanked, without raising unwanted suspicion! I had a couple cousins who had a short piece of rubber hose that they got spanked with hanging by their garage door as a reminder to behave so they would see it every time they left the house! All of us kids knew exactly what that rubber hose was for!   We definitely feared it being put to use!   When I was house shopping I saw a belt hanging on a hook in the laundry room next to the garage door.   While most people didn't think anything of it, a guy like me whose into spanking, couldn't help but notice that belt hanging there.  I mean people don't take their belt off and hang it up when they come in from the garage!    There was a college age boy that lived in that house and he was probably marched out to the garage to get his bare ass whipped with that belt.  That belt was probably kept there so it was handy when he needed his ass whipped and to remind him to behave when he went out of the house like the rubber hose reminded my cousins and the rest of us to behave when we left the house!    I definitely got hard thinking about his firm little ass getting spanked bright red!   I'm sure his sister would make it a point to do some laundry, so she could catch the show through the window of the garage door, whenever he was brought out there to get "the belt"!     It makes me weak in the knees when someone snaps the leather or holds the belt and says "Get naked, you're getting your ass beat!"  Not pictures of me, but below are pictures of guys with belts that turn me on.  Pictures like these make my dick hard and make my balls ache!   Even just seeing a shirtless guy with a wide leather belt around his waist like the photo above, turns me on.  It makes me think about him using that belt to give my bare naked ass a long hard spanking!  Plus I get the feeling that this guy has had some personal experience being on the receiving end of that belt and really knows how to use it!   I just bought a new belt for someone to spank me with.   It's a heavy duty work belt made by Carhartt.   It's made of bridle leather and twice as thick as my old work belt.   It's solid leather and makes a wicked snapping sound.  I'm sure it will sound the same way when it connects with my bare naked bottom and will make me dance and squirm!  I was so turned on in the store buying it.   However I got a little embarrassed when a couple of younger guys walked up to the belt rack and started shopping for belts themselves.  I felt as if they knew I was buying it for someone to spank me with! I need someone to try out my new belt and give me a good hard belt spanking with it so I know how effective it is!  Teach me a new respect for "The Belt"!   And I should be buck ass naked when you do it!   A couple more posts about "The Belt" to follow!

Another in our Learning by Doing Series Tips for (New) Tops!* Another in our "Learning by Doing" Series by BigDaddyVegas and RedSpkScott Tip #1 Follow Your Commitment Make Sure You're Compatible Before You Meet If you take the time to talk with somebody and establish a wonderful scene you're going to commit to. If you are hosting, have your place ready to go, when your spankee arrives. spankees, when you come for a Spanking, arrive on time. Do not be super late. spankees, do your best to not let fear slow you down and prevent you from getting the Spankings that you need. Tip #2 Make Sure You're Compatible. Weed out the flakes—a lot of guys only reach out when they're horny—weed out the flakes. Tip #3 Arrive Prepared With Your Bag of Your Spanking Implements You wouldn't show up to a construction site without a toolbox. Baseball types of bags work well, because you can put canes and longer thinner items in there. They're easy and mobile. Tip #4 Test Your Spanking Implements Before You Use Them It's important Tops have a feel for how bad or what a Spanking Tool feels like. Some Spanking Tools can leave you black and blue if you are not paying attention. Learn that first. So, know how to use your implements before you apply them across the seat of a guy you are Spanking. Tip #5 Build and Use Your Spanking Implement Repertoire Practice With The Belt Before You Use The Belt Straps you can usually tell by the weight and the length. Belts and straps can wrap around the hip and ruin a scene. Practice for accuracy. I'm still not perfect, and I use them all the time. First, buy yourself a high quality belt and practice with it. Do not think you can pull a guy's pants down and think you'll be good with a belt right away. It's not going to happen. It's not the way Daddy did it when you were 12 years old and stole a bicycle. Know how to use The Belt before you use it. Paddles can vary greatly. Thicker versus thinner paddles will matter depending on who you are Spanking. For example, a small, thick paddle can be far too much for a new guy.    I recommend using the Jokari paddle in your paddle kit, and now you at least have the Spanking Industry Standard. And folks will know the sound of the Jokari paddle. It's versatile, you can go light with it, and you can break in a new bottom. Or you can really go to town on an experienced guy, but you have just the one paddle. Tip #6 Identify Spankings Locations You don't have to meet at your home. Meet at a public area first—a pub, a Starbucks, etc. It's a good safety precaution. If you don't have a home to go to, try the public Spanking parties or a hotel room. Don't Inadvertently Get SWATted. If you are using paddles in a hotel room, be aware of the noise. If you use a Jokari paddle at full force, it can sound like a .22 gun going off, so be careful, so Aunt Mary next door doesn't call the police saying, "I think I heard shots fired." Avoid being SWATted by an actual SWAT team! Tip #7 Manage Noise  I have a bottom who I have bringing a switch. Those are pretty quiet. Small carpet beaters are really good, because they also do not make a lot of noise. Paddles and bathbrushes will work over jeans, but not bare. You can always turn on the TV, the radio, or turn on the water in the bathroom. If you have to Spank in a hotel room, between 2 to 4 p.m., the hotel is least occupied, so it's primetime to get a Spanking. If you talk to the guys at the registration desk at the hotel, tell them you'll be having a party in your room, and tell them if they could put you away from other guests, that'd be great.    Tell them up front. Tip #8 Develop Good Communication Communicate Well, Then Spank. When you communicate and you are both in sync, then you will always have a better time. So, if you are both into Teacher/student scene, then it'll be great. But if the Top is really into Daddy/son or no roleplaying at all, then it really doesn't work well. Tops need to know, assume that just because you're the Top, your fantasy will be sufficient for the bottom. That's not the case. If you accommodate the bottom, the more in sync the bottom is with you, the more the bottom will relinquish control and be able to play more the way the Top wants to. Do not get super intense—including grabbing, choking, faceslapping, or other "liberties"—without clear, usually verbal permission from the bottom.    [Not doing so] can result in a complete scene killer. Tip #9 Ensure a Great Warm-up Great Spankers will Spank less to begin with, so you can get your boy to have the endorphin rush. That will help extend the scene much longer. Prepare the bottom first. I may use a belt over his jeans first, to warm him up to get the anticipation flowing of what he thinks he'll get. Once you get to know a guy and establish trust, these Rules obviously develop as you progress and familiarize with one another. Tip #10 Use Humiliation Effectively Humiliation Can Work Find Out How! I really encourage humliating guys in public. One way to do this is to use effective Cornertime technique. You can take a bottle cap, credit card, and have your bottom put the object against a wall or The Corner and then put their head [nose] against it [to keep it off the ground and against the wall]. Talk to them as sternly as you want to. You do not have to touch the boy just be complete in his presence. They know you are there. If you want to engage them, Spank them with your hand. That is never the wrong move.    Make the boy keep the bottle cap or credit card against the wall or The Corner with his head/nose—you can even have them put their hands on their head while you stand there. Spank your boy, if he loses his focus or attention with your hand. That'll snap him back into your reality, and you can keep the scene completely in motion even though the Spanking isn't going on in that moment. * Compiled from the December 2017 "DudesSpankingDudes" podcast. "Big Daddy Vegas and Red Spank Scott provided a bunch of "Tips for Tops" about the kinds of things tops, especially less experienced Tops, should plan for when playing with a new dude."       Please comment below or email us with your ideas   aok4otk@aol.com or cornertimeconf@gmail.com ______________________________________ Follow Cornertime Confidential Wherever You Are:   Tumblr  ∙  SouthSpanking ∙  Twitter  ∙  WordPress

Wash my Mouth Out With Soap and Spank Me  ! Link for Part 5B Again . . .  If you recognize me in my photos, make sure I finally get the mouthsoaping and naked spanking I've always deserved! Don't be shy.  Be assertive!  Take charge!   Tell me you won't tolerate the way I lied to Payton and the guys at work about being spanked by my dad.   Tell me I should have just confessed that I get spanked as an adult, like I'm doing now!    Tell me that if my own dad had washed my mouth out with soap and given me a good hard spanking when I lied, perhaps I wouldn't be telling fibs as an adult!   Make me admit to you out loud that a mouthsoaping and good hard bare naked spanking are exactly what I need and deserve!   Then take charge and make sure I get them!   Below are some current pictures of me spanked with soap in my mouth. The ideal situation would be to wash my mouth out with soap in front of a bathroom mirror.     That way I can see myself standing there naked with a sudsy mouth and when you spank me I can see just how ridiculous a grown man looks with a bar of soap in my mouth, drooling soapsuds and getting a spanking!   And I can see the expressions of satisfaction on your face knowing you're putting me in my place!   Then after spanking me for a while in front of the mirror, grab me by the ear to make me really feel like a little kid and drag me back to the other room. Bend me over your knees with the soap still in my mouth and spank me again, warning me not to let that bar of soap fall out of my mouth!  I might have to bite down hard on the soap, getting it caked in my teeth to keep it from slipping out as I yell as the paddle does it's work! One thing for sure . . . I'll be a blubbering, drooling mess and it will be a spanking that I'll remember for a long, long time.      Then grab me by the ear and drag me over to a window and have me stand in front of it buck ass naked for some corner time. And if it's dark outside just leave the lights on in the room so everyone outside can see me standing there in the window. Warn me not to drop the soap out of my mouth or I'll get another spanking right in front of the window so everyone can see what happens to boys that don't listen!  I won't be able to see if anyone is outside but they will surely see me!   Inside observers can see the soap in my mouth, my reflection in the glass, and the stool calls more attention to the fact that I'm naked and on display.  Yes I'm naked and on display for every else's amusement with my bare red spanked bottom sticking out!  I'm sure I'll be here for quite some time, but I'm just hoping it will be over before someone else drops by!  Oh, No!   The doorbell just rang!       The photo below is the view everyone had of an older naughty foul mouthed boy getting his mouth washed out with soap doing cornertime from the outside of the house that night! Cornertime is meant to embarrass and humiliate the person being punished.   Making the person serve cornertime in front of a window or door makes it even worse because they are visible from outdoors!    And even worse at night like with the lights on inside because it's like there's a spotlight on them!   Then if you drag a chair over and pull them over your knees and spank them in front of the window or door their face will just burn with shame!   It's bad enough for a teenager but even worse for someone my age to endure a punishment like this.  Humiliation definitely adds to the effectiveness of a spanking and I can't say there much more humiliating to be standing in front of a window or door, naked and spanked with a bar of soap in my mouth for anyone to see and enjoy my shame!   Both those inside the house and those outside can see that I've been a naughty boy and I get disciplined like one too with a spanking and a mouthsoaping!  I've always been intrigued with the details the college "boys" from work told me about getting "the belt" at home, so after corner time is over, pull me out of the corner and have me lay over a stack of pillows on a table or bed to raise my bare bottom high in the air and belt whip me, perhaps even with the bar of soap still in my mouth.   Or do the same with me standing over the kitchen sink!  Show me what it's like to get "the belt" good and hard.   Whoop my ass raw!     My long time online friend Jordan has been talking about coming to visit me to give the the spanking and mouthsoaping I've missed out on all those years growing up, complete with ear pulling and some naked outdoor switch cutting.   I wonder how many neighbors will see and hear me getting spanked naked? One thing I know for sure, if he comes to visit I'm going to be spanked buck ass naked, indoors and outdoors and I will experience that true spanking humiliation, I've always craved!   Link for Part 6 Give me the Belt

Last month we revived an older post from The Dirty Daddy blog. We are big advocates of the advice, guidance, and strength of character he provides to new boys and Daddys.  This week we wanted to elevate his 4 steps on how to be a Good boy. Below you'll find his advice for boys living in Daddy/boy relationships. Again, this post was explicitly about sexual relations with Daddy, and this link provides you direct assess to that post of his. We hope you find they help you start your Daddy/boy relationship or they help you rekindle the fire in your existing relationships that may have become a bit too vanilla.   "Daddy, what can I do to be a not just a good boy but the very best boy for you?"     4 Key Steps to Becoming a Good boy (A/K/A "Pleasing Daddy" or "Being Not Just a Good boy, but Becoming Daddy's Best boy". This post mostly includes content from The Dirty Daddy himself with comments by jake, author, of Cornertime Confidential, providing his personal experience to round out the advice provided.)   This post provides basic pointers for a person who wants to be a Good boy when dealing with Daddy.   Step 1: Seek Out Daddy's Approval, Don't Need it. The first and most important thing for a Good boy is to want—not need—Daddy’s approval. And an important part of that want is to want Daddy's pleasure and for the boy to find ways to show that he wants Daddy's pleasure does. As the boy, your desire to please and pleasure your Daddy is a key tool in achieving that very goal. His touch is one way he can show his pleasure, and approval, to you and it’s a prefect opportunity to respond in kind. Gently holding the side of your face, the back of your neck, putting his hand in the small of your back, or anywhere he wants to touch.    These moments are your chance to respond with or without words.    Smile, press your face into the hand, nuzzle the hand that’s touching you, show genuine appreciation for your Daddy at times like that especially. He is reaching out to touch you for a reason. Accept and enjoy that fact. Your pleasure in what you are doing can become a very powerful tool to make him even happier. Some Daddys respond very strongly to sounds, like whimpers, moans, groans, and sighs. Even things like giggling and laughter can bring pleasure to your Daddy. Ultimately, only you will get to know your Daddy, and that takes time.    [CC: Some Daddys like mine do not like his boy to make a ton of noises. He finds them artificial. Check in with your Daddy to ensure this pleases him. Only make authentic noises that you feel in your boy heart, and then share with your Daddy, so he appreciates them. It takes time as The DIrty Daddy says here, so build up to a full mutual sharing in this area].   Step 2: Develop and Maintain Good boy Behaviors   A Good boy has many responsibilities including being on his best behavior at all times.  (1) When Daddy asks a question or decides to instruct, reply ‘Yes, Daddy’ and do your best to do as he has instructed.  (2) If you are having trouble doing something Daddy has instructed, be honest with Daddy—especially when he asks you why you haven't done something expressly asked for by Daddy.    [a note from CC: it's hard for anyone to always be on their best behaviour at all times, but being authentic and open are essential. If you find that doing so is a turn off, then you need to tell Daddy. Most Daddys will assume your headspace is in being a good boy. If that is just not your thing, then say so. You can still have a good Daddy/boy relationship, but you'll adjust it for the reality you feel inside.]   “Thank you Daddy”  Thanking Daddy is a Good boy behaviour to remember as appreciation, respect, and consideration are important features of a Good boy. When he gives a direct instruction, follow as promptly and accurately as possible. It may not always be easy, but that could also be his effort to see how dedicated you are to what you are doing.  [a note from CC: When you do not feel this way towards your Daddy it could be for a real reason—like you feel he doesn't deserve your thanks for the things he does. It's important to run with that feeling. If he's a bad match, identify that early and exit the relationship]    Ask for Help From Daddy Try hard to do as Daddy asks. When you need to, ask him for help. That simple "Good behaviour" can take the form of his hands guiding your head, holding your hips or hands, or anything else so he needs to do to teach you exactly how to do that which he asks you to do.    Check in With Daddy Ask if you are doing correctly what Daddy's asked for. Doing a Good job on the tasks that Daddy's asked you to do helps define who is the boy in the relationship. I recommend fairly regular check-ins where you ask respectfully and with all your heart, "Am I being a Good boy, Daddy?" Your ability to earnestly seek his approval is a key element that will ensure a better Daddy/boy relationship. Your honest, authentic approach is the difference. [a note from CC:  I have been a boy to my Daddy since 2016 and living together since 2019 and I want to concur strongly with DIrty Daddy here. When we check in with one another with all our heart, we are a better partner—Daddy to me and me to Daddy.]   Step 3: Familiarize Yourself With Basic Intimacy Skills   Seek to possess a strong knowledge of Daddy's anatomy, his sexual response, and your pleasure thresholds, and methods of responding to those factors. By reading this post, you are already on your way to gaining these key intimacy skills.  How does Daddy want to give you pleasure? And do you enjoy that? Do you to respond authentically and enthusiastically to how he wants to give you pleasure? How do you give the pleasure that Daddy seeks? And do you enjoy that?   In the end analysis, don't force it. If you don't feel authentically attracted to Daddy, then find a Daddy to whom you truly are attracted. Some boys just love the "idea" of Daddy, not the reality of Daddy.    Addressing Long Term Daddy/boy Relationship Doldrums In relationships that have been going on for a long time, many M/m couples become bored with one another. (This is so very true for M/f relationships too, of course), but Using a Daddy-centric approach and rekindling the fire that originally drove you to be attracted to Daddy can be helpful. For Daddys, do your best to seek out the answers to why you got involved with your boy. What did you enjoy about him originally, and lean into that. If it feels forced, don't do it. But if you can recall with joy in your heart, tap into that.       For the boys, start by asking yourself three Basic Intimacy Skills signals:    Sexual Reponsiveness An erection is only one way to tell if your Daddy is enjoying what you are doing. You both will need more than that to sustain an interest as a Daddy/boy team. The difference between a random cocksucker and truly being Daddy's boy is that you belong where you are, where he has placed you, and shown he trusts you to be that boy for him.   Obedience It’s not simply a matter of obedience, as previous discussed, it is that you choose and want to be there. It makes you truly happy that he enjoys what you do, and that he loves and trusts you enough to let you do it. [a note from CC: Obedience sounds like an old-fashioned, false notion. But as we discussed in this blogpost, it can be crucial to an effective and satisfying Daddy/boy relationship. And better obedience can help sustain a relationship, particularly between a Daddy and his boy, a boy and his Daddy.]   Following Instructions The Dirty Daddy blog provides detailed instructions on how to not only make your Daddy desire you, but also how to show him pleasure he may never have experienced with anyone before. Following these instructions can help move you from a "good boy" to Daddy's “Best Boy,” a coveted place for a boy. Getting to this place will require that you know what Daddy can make you feel, and your desire to bring that out of him too. Lean in to your determination to reach for that goal.     After you think about these 3 signals, consider sharing your responses to them with Daddy. If you find it difficult to face the truth behind the questions, then you may need to reconsider your relationship.    If, however, you or Daddy has just become lazy over time in addressing Basic Intimacy Skills, consider these three signals as a way to kickstart things.    Step 4: Develop Self Control.  While this is a basic skill and a behavior set it deserves its own Step for all Good boys. Self-control for a boy is reflected in to key abilities:    1. the boy's ability to hold off the desire to pleasure himself (This is why some people use chastity devices to deny that urge entirely.) and  2. a boy's ability to take instructions from Daddy.    Depending on the age and experience of your Daddy, he may have had many more years at this and more hours than you, so his guidance and instruction should be followed so long as it is informed by real life experience.  Be sure to ask questions at the right times.     There are some positions that are not easy to master for a boy, because they can cause extreme stimulation. When a boy is given instructions that are counter to his immediate gratification he should obey them. There are good reasons for them. And having to stop and explain everything to a boy can ruin a mood.    Be sure to ask questions, yes. But only at the right time.    Being able to control yourself, your desire, and your curiosity for a time are crucial skills. If you ask questions constantly, you may do more than just ruin a mood. Worse, you might miss swallowing that load you worked so hard for. Keep your mind on your task and your eyes on the prize.    The 4 Key Steps here can be a great starting point for any Daddy and boy to integrate as they begin or try to restart a relationship.    [a note from CC: I re-read the Dirty Daddy blog every now and again so that I can remember my role and get my head into my boy heart and boy place.    Work and life and friends can easily take you away from your preferred role in your Daddy/boy relationship making it a roommates with benefits experience. But is that really what you signed up for? Is that what you really wanted when you began your Daddy/boy relationship?]   What you want can come to you, especially if you are a Good boy, follow Daddy's lead, and develop in sync with one another. Daddy still decides how and when. But that’s his job because its what you want him to do. You need him to want to give you pleasure, and these 4 basic steps bring you one step closer to that goal.     Please comment below or email us with your ideas   aok4otk@aol.com or cornertimeconf@gmail.com ______________________________________ Follow Cornertime Confidential Wherever You Are: Tumblr  ∙  SouthSpanking ∙  Twitter  ∙  WordPress 

Wash my Mouth Out With Soap and Spank Me! Link for Part 5A - Mouthsoaping Begins The next few pictures are older pictures of me with a bar of soap in my mouth, thinking about getting a spanking and a mouthsoaping.  When I first discovered the internet around age 40, I joined a self spanking Yahoo Group.   We would give each other spanking assignments and had to post photos of us completing the tasks.   One guy gave me a mouthsoaping task to do along with the self spanking and these are pictures from that assignment.    Some of the original old face pictures of myself that I didn't destroy.  Again . . .  If you recognize me in my photos, make sure I get both the mouthsoaping and naked spanking I've always deserved! Lathering up the soap and putting it in the water is getting me excited!   I don't know why, but seeing a spanking paddle laying  on the vanity countertop and the bar of soap soaking in the sink, just gives me a boner!      This is the first time I had a bar of soap in my mouth since I was a boy and it's bringing back unpleasant memories!   No I'm not likeing this at all, but a punishment is a punishment!   I didn't have too many old face pictures of myself.  Most of them I destroyed the original photos after I edited out my face but I found a few of the original pictures.     My face is saying I don't like the soap in my mouth one bit, but my dick is telling a different story! Soap can be used in a naughty boy's other end too!   My naughty bottom was shaved hairless to humiliate me along with my crotch.  Then a "soap stick" was carved from a bar of soap and inserted in my "boy hole"!      I was then made to fully expose myself in the diaper position and then shove the soap stick all the way in my hole.   It was truly humiliating in my shaved condition to be on display like this.    After a while I was told to sit on the toilet and expel the soap stick.  My hairless crotch fully exposed in contrast to the rest of my hairy body, only adding to my shame!   My interest in mouthsoaping began around age 40 as the photos above show, but it wasn't  a major theme in my spanking play.   I never really ran into a disciplinarian that had an interest in it either, so that interest never developed.   Not until young Payton from work told me the tantalizing story about his bare ass belt whippings and mouthsoapings he got from his dad!   Combine that with his outward desire to spank me and my interest in mouthsoaping was born.   It's still rare to find a spanker that has an interest in soaping your mouth during a spanking.  But for me, it brings back a childhood punishment that I did receive and ties it into one that I always fantasized about getting growing up.  My mouthsoaping interests went back a long way but they didn't really materialize until I heard about the discipline rituals Payton endured.    Link for Part 5C

 Wash my Mouth Out With Soap and Spank Me! If I cuss or sass you, drag me over to the sink and put a big wet bar of soap in my mouth and then spank me again!  Just like a spanking, a boy of any age is never too old for an old fashioned mouth soaping!  Just like a spanking, a mouthsoaping should be given naked too, to add to the humiliation of the punishment.  Besides a mouthsoaping can get messy and there's no reason to mess up someone's clothes.   And a spanking should be given during a mouthsoaping so it's convenient if the boy is already bare for the spanking.  If a boy really deserves a mouthsoaping for repeated using his mouth in an inappropriate way, you can add to to the effectiveness of the punishment by soaking the bar of soap in a bowl of hot water to make it extra soft and gooey before putting it in his mouth!   You might make him do some naked corner time in front of the bathroom mirror standing there staring at himself and that bar of soap soaking in the hot water so he can think about what it's going to taste like when it goes in his mouth and a belt or paddle lights his bottom on fire!  The bar of soap was soaked in a bowl of hot water for over an hour to make sure it was a soft gooey mess before it went into my mouth!   Yes, soft chunks of soap came off the bar along with a gooey soap slime that drooled out of my mouth and down my chest!    It certainly tasted awful, just like the kid at work described!   After Payton, the 19 year old kid from work told me about the belt spankings and mouthsoapings he got from his dad, I was so turned on by mouthsoapings I just had to try one out on myself. The kind of mouthsoaping he said he got!  These are actually pictures of me soaping my own mouth trying to find out what Payton's mouthsoapings might have been like!   I did get my mouth washed out with soap growing up but they were much milder punishments than the ones Payton got!   They were brief, plus I never got a spanking along with them. Perhaps if I'd been spanked during those mouth soapings I wouldn't have needed to get my mouth washed out with soap as often as I did. I hated mouthsoapings when I got them.   There was nothing exciting at all about them.   Spankings excited me and I was very curious about them since I never got one,  but mouth soapings were something I truly hated, and had no interest in them before that conversation with Payton.  I don't know why, but for some reason I craved a mouthsoaping just like Payton told me he got from his dad!  Including the spankings he got along with them!   I even fantasized about Payton giving me those spankings and mouthsoapings himself!  Perhaps it was because Payton was one of those young guys from work that did want to "turn the tables" and give me a spanking!  He could probably sense that I could benefit from both the pain and humiliation of a good bare ass belt spanking like he got or perhaps he thought about bending me over his knees and trying out one of those paddles on my ass that he was so curious about!  I couldn't believe he wanted to give his boss a spanking but from the comments he made, he certainly did and I'm sure he would had some major satisfaction doing it!   Plus a young man like him spanking me, fit right into my own role reversal spanking fantasies!   Honestly, I would have enjoyed having him strip me and spank me as much as I think he would have enjoyed doing it!  And the humiliation of having him spank me naked, right in front of his coworkers would have been exquisite!  They all would have enjoyed seeing their boss get stripped and spanked! Link for Previous Portion: Part 4 -The Story About Payton - His Mouthsoapings and Belt Spankings Ever since Payton told me about his mouthsoapings I got turned on whenever I thought about getting a spanking and getting my mouth washed out with soap!   I don't know why, but I didn't even want to endure the horrible punishment alone like I did as a boy.  I wanted to endure the public humiliation of having it happen to me in front of other people!  Maybe because I imagined Payton's brothers watching his humiliation, my boner just throbbed as I throught about enduring a mouthsoaping punishment like he did, in front of other people!   It would be so humiliating to be standing in the corner with a bright red, well spanked bottom and a bar of soap in my mouth and have the doorbell ring and other people I know get let in to witness my punishment!   I wouldn't dare move or try to cover myself, or the spanking would continue and then I'd end up back in the corner while my friends laughed, just like I did when my friends got spanked in front of me when I was younger!  It doesn't matter that I'm a grown adult, someone like me is never too old for a spanking or any other childish punishment like cornertime or mouthsoaping.    My teeth marks deep in the soft gooey bar of soap.   Just like Payton said, holding it with your teeth, trying to get it off your tongue did little good.   All it did was get the soap caked in your teeth making it harder to rinse out when the mouth soaping was over!     Payton was right. It was certainly not fun to get caked up soap out of my teeth!  It would also be pretty embarrassing to have my guests see this bar of soap sitting on the bathroom countertop! They would all know exactly what that bar of soap with the toothmarks is used for! Likewise, it would be very humiliating for me to have to explain to them if they asked, and confess that I get my bare bottom spanked with that bar of soap in my mouth!  Who knows they might even get a personal demonstration if I don't answer their questions to their satisfaction!  Humiliation is an essential part of any effective punishment.  So don't be afraid to make things embarrassing for a boy by having him explain his punishments to others in great detail and make sure he tells them a bare bottom spanking is part of that punishment.  If he doesn't want to tell them, perhaps a demonstration would be in order.   I'm sure the guests would enjoy a practical demonstration as embarrassing as it might be for someone like me! Below is a totally humiliating picture of me during that self soaping while fantasizing about getting a spanking with a bar of soap in my mouth.   Just look at the expression on my face as the disgusting taste of the soap fills my senses and chunks of soap and soapy drool, drip from my mouth!  It's just the sight a disciplinarian likes to see as he's soaping a naughty boy's mouth.   If we see each other in person, give me what I've been fantasizing about.  Repeat it over and over again until I don't think it's fun anymore! Give my mouth a good lathering, and give my ass a good leathering with your belt!   A boy like me that masturbates while thinking about getting spanked with a bar of soap in my mouth deserves to be punished that way!  Maybe I won't get so excited about it after I've experienced a good dose of both!  You can see just how turned on I got thinking about Payton getting spanked with a bar of soap in his mouth!   I'm sure you'll agree that I deserve a good mouthsoaping along with a well blistered bottom! Perhaps it would be fitting for Payton to be the one to give me that punishment! Click Here For the Next Part 5B

What Got Me Interested In Mouthsoaping- The Kid at Work Link to Part 3 -Spank Me Over Your Knees Well this is another embarrassing but true experience in my life that my spanking buddy Jordan was responsible for, trying to embarrass and humiliate me by exposing my spanking fetish to my college age employees!!!!   I used to own a business and hired a bunch of college age guys.  I was really surprised that so many of them still got their asses spanked in this day and age.  I always thought that spanking was a thing of the past ending in the 1980's or 1990's!   Certainly not in the rural farming community that my business was in!    Spanking was alive and well in those small towns and those country boys were certainly familiar with spankings! Several of them openly talked about the belt whoopin's they got at home.  Yeah, my dick would often get hard thinking about their firm little butts getting spanked with their dad's belts, or thinking about them taking their belts to my naked ass!    My true interest in mouthsoapings began with a spanking conversation I had with one of those 19 year old college students named Payton.   (If you've read the other posts in this series you'll know that as I post more and more face pictures of myself online, that I'm expecting my spanking fetish to be exposed to someone I know  Or as I post real photos of someone like the one above of Payton and he sees it or someone he knows sees it, and figures out I get stripped and spanked, it's only inevitable! In fact I think I'm subconsciously hoping someone recognizes me and takes matters into their own hands, so to speak, giving me the humiliating spanking that I both crave and deserve! I've always thought it would be the ultimate humiliation to be stripped naked and spanked by someone I know.  Someone I have to face on a regular basis. Not someone who's another spanko like I the spankers I meet with now, but an ordinary friend!   Yeah just imagine my shame when I have to face that friend time and time again and we both picture me naked over their knees with a bottom that they spanked raw red!    Perhaps someone like Payton or one of the other young men in this story!   Someone I used to be in charge of - and would now be in charge of my bare naked ass instead!  And as you'll read in this part of the story, that's exactly what I think Payton had in mind for me!   When I was in college, a friend actually started to spank me!   I ignored him but I guess he felt awkward as he was doing it and he stopped.  I often wondered if I resisted,  he might have considered it a challenge and would have continued my spanking.  Just maybe, if I provoked the situation, I might have got that embarrassing spanking from him or someone I knew. So the posts in this series are my way of making sure that if someone that I know sees them, they don't hesitate to give me that humiliating spanking they've probably always thought I've deserved!   I want them to know they should spank me and make it as embarrassing as possible for me.  Strip me buck ass naked.  Put me on display in front of others for their amusement.   Use the techniques depicted in these posts and truly enjoy my naked shame and humiliation the way I used to enjoy watching other guys get spanked when I was a kid!)  I have always been afraid to tell this story in my blog.  It's a true story!  While it's an exciting story to tell, I'm still terrified to tell it! I'm especially terrified that Payton or one of the other guys that worked for me or someone that knows them will see their pictures and show it to them.  Then they will all know I get spanked now and get turned on by spanking and all the other things in my blog.  Not only that, but that I got a boner thinking about the spankings they told me they got!   But the thing I fear most is the very thing I know will eventually happen.  That they will give me that embarrassing naked spanking I've always deserved.  That they will personally spank me in the most embarrassing way and enjoy every minute of my shame!   That my fantasies of that ultimate spanking humiliation will become a reality! In an old post I mentioned a time an online buddy of mine figured out what and where my business was and told me he was going to come to my business and spank me right in front of all those college boys at work.   Not only spank me in front of them but encourage them spank me too.  At first I was sick to my stomach when he told me what he was going to do to me. Then after a week or so I came to accept my fate and came to accept that I was going to be stripped and humiliated in front of all of them!   That I was going to be personally spanked by each one of those young men!  That they would remember my naked shame forever!    Then after about 10 days he told me he was just messing with me! Only this time I'm sure it will be for real! Once they see my posts, there will be no taking it back! There would be no messing around with me!   I'll be getting stripped and spanked for real!  I can only imagine the smirks of satisfaction that will spread across these young guy's faces as they realize their boss's naked ass is going to be theirs to strip and spank however want to! As often as they want to!   As soon as I publish the post, every time I get a text message or my phone rings I'll wonder if my luck has run out.  I'll wonder if it's gonna be spankin' time for me? And when it happens my face will be as red as my ass is about to be!       I often got a boner thinking about Payton and the other college boys from work spanking me.  Spanking me just the way they got spanked at home!   Above is a photo manipulation I made, depicting a fantasy I've had of them spanking me.  That's a real photo of me standing naked in the corner.  That's Payton on the left with the belt in his hand. You'll read later in this story how he made some comments to me about wanting to take his belt to my ass!   The guy on the right with the paddle in his hand, also expressed an interest in paddling when we were talking about it one time.  He would drop his pants and moon everybody both at work and when he was out with his friends.  He certainly wasn't shy about getting naked so I'm sure he wouldn't be shy about spanking me naked either!   The guy in the red shirt got arrested for not showing up to court one day and although he didn't come right out and say it, he suggested he got a strip/cavity search in county jail that day!   He made sure we knew it was the most humiliating day of his life!   So if he had me at his mercy for a spanking, I'm sure he would enjoy stripping me and giving me a cavity search too so I could experience some of that naked shame myself!   All of them were familiar with spankings so I'm sure they would thoroughly enjoy stripping their boss naked and giving me a most humiliating spanking! Now back to the actual spanking conversation I had with Payton.  Payton and I were driving in the car one day and the office called on the phone to say one of the high school kids that worked for me called to said he was going to be late because he got a detention and had to stay after school.  These guys were constantly getting detentions and were coming to work late because of it!    After the call, Payton and I started talking about school detentions.    I never got a detention in school, but I told Payton that when I went to school a guy rarely got a detention. That was the truth.  I didn't get in trouble in school myself, but the guys I went to school with, often did.   The teachers didn't want to sit around after school with you so they just burned your ass with a paddle instead!  You didn't get an option. Well when I told Payton how guys got paddled instead of getting detentions, it caught me completely off guard when out of the blue, he asked, "Did you ever get paddled?" I was like a deer caught in headlights.   In fact I purposely avoided conversations like that and here it was just him and me and Payton asked that question!   You see the problem was I was never spanked as a kid, and I never got paddled in school! In fact I made it until I was 47 years old without ever getting a spanking and I couldn't just tell the kid his boss meets with other men now to get his bare bottom spanked!   I was afraid to just make something up and say I got paddled as a teen!  What if Payton wanted to know details about my spankings?    Trying to come up with a story on the fly, I could get caught up in a series of lies and he'd know I was making it all up! Sure I talked to other guys about the topic before, but they were into spanking like me! I never talked to a "vanilla" person before about spanking!   I felt a vanilla person would see right through me and somehow realize I was sexually turned on by spanking!  And that would be way too embarrassing and the thought of that just terrified me!   Well at that time, at least I thought Payton was "vanilla".   I was about to find out otherwise!     I'd be so humiliated if someone who wasn't a spanko themselves knew that I got sexually turned on by watching someone get a spanking or worse yet having someone else give me a spanking!   Payton and I were talking about school paddling right before he asked that question and I never got paddled in school so I figured the safest thing to say was, "No"!     The conversation just dropped like a lead balloon and then there was some awkward silence.   I have a feeling at that point in time, Payton was like me and was somewhat afraid to have a conversation about spanking too. Perhaps spanking turned him on too! But whatever it was, neither of us were ready to initiate "The Spanking Conversation".  Or at least not confess we got spanked! Now here's where my online buddy Jordan's diabolical plan came into play!   I've mentioned my friend Jordan several times in my blog.  Jordan got the most humiliating spankings from his dad well into young adulthood, so he understands humiliation when it comes to spanking and he knows how to push my buttons.    He always had to strip buck ass naked for his spankings and it didn't matter who was there when he got spanked.    His dad purposely waited to spank him until his younger brothers were around for the deterrence effect it would have on them, to keep them in line and let them know what would be in store for them if they misbehaved!    Now getting spanked in front of his younger brothers was embarrassing enough for Jordan, but what was really humiliating was getting spanked bare in front of his own friends if they were around at the time!   Yeah just imagine a young adult having to strip buck ass naked and bend over his dad's knees like a little kid, while his buddies watched and laughed!  They could see him yelling, his legs kicking, his big dick and balls flopping around, everyone getting glimpses of his butt hole too!    To make things even more humiliating for Jordan, ever since his late teens, he started getting boners when he got spanked!    I would have died of shame if my friends knew my dick got hard from getting a spanking!  (And yeah, my dick got hard just thinking about a spanking!) Just picture Jordan standing there getting a belt spanking with his boner bobbing in front of him and all his friends laughing at him because they can see how turned on he got getting spanked!  Or laying over his dad's knees with his boner pulled back between his legs in plain view as he's squirming around from the spanking!   So Jordan is very familiar with spanking humiliation and experienced it himself first hand.  And he knows I managed to avoid anything to do with that humiliation my entire life and feels I deserve it now and he was on a mission to make sure I endured it in some manner!     So I started telling Jordan about the conversation I had with Payton that day and how he asked me if I ever got paddled!  Jordan is a young guy, at the time in his mid 30's.     We first met online when he was around 20 years old.    He's actually the one that coaxed me to get my first spanking when I was 47 years old. He knows how embarrassed I'd be to have a spanking conversation with Payton, so being the devious smart ass his is, he says, "But you have been paddled!  Just not in school.  It doesn't matter that you get paddled as an adult.  Payton has to know! You have to tell him!"   I couldn't believe Jordan wanted me to tell Payton that I get spanked, but then it shouldn't surprise me.  This wasn't the first time Jordan wanted me to expose my spanking fetish to those young guys at work!    There was another young man named Billy that Jordan wanted me to annonymously email a picture of my naked spanked ass to one time.  But he didn't persist that time with Billy like he was doing now!    Like Payton, Billy also made some comments that made me think he was interested in spanking.  He was also into bondage.  He had a friend handcuff him naked to his bed one time and told us about it at dinner.  He wasn't even embarrassed to talk about it with me!     He also wasn't shy about getting naked around his friends. He'd strip naked and chase them around hotel rooms.  They would freak out and run from him!    I was always turned on thinking about being spanked over a tall guy's knees.  At Billy's height I'd be dangling over his knees unable to touch the floor with either my hands or my feet!   I'd certainly be feeling like quite the little boy if he gave me an over the knee spanking!   As Billy got older he trained for obstacle course races and got quite muscular.  He was also a mixed martial arts cage fighter so I wouldn't be helpless to stop him from manhandling my naked ass  if he wanted to strip me and spank me!   Jordan did get me to leave paddles out a couple times hoping Billy would see them and get the idea of spanking me with them.  I could only imagine the fun Jordan was having as he was getting me to do this latest "challenge".  Jordan definitely wanted me to tell Payton that I'd been paddled and this time he wasn't going to let it go!   He wanted me to humiliate myself in front of the kid!   We both knew Jordan was somehow going to convince me to do this!    He has this amazing ability to get me to do spanking or naked exposure related things.  Like when Jordan got me to do the naked self spanking dares he challenged me to do outside at work.   Or the time he got me to go to the hospital for an MRI with a red spanked ass knowing I'd have to get naked and wear one of those hospital gowns that never stays closed in back!   He gets off on making me risk humiliating myself!  During Jordan's 2nd dare challenge, Payton was scheduled to start work just minutes after I finished up the dare!   It was a good thing Payton never arrived to work early.  Otherwise the fantasy scenario depicted in the photo manipulation below, depicting what might have happened if Payton caught me doing Jordan's naked dare just might have become a reality!  Just imagine if Payton or some  local country boys caught me naked outside at work that day and texted their friends to come over there so they could have some fun with my naked ass and give me a real spanking!    Yes I actually wore a sign around my neck saying to give me the real spanking I deserved so that if someone did catch me, there would be no doubt in their mind what they should do to me.  If they caught me I wanted them to know that they should give me a real spanking!    This next picture is a collage of real photos of some of the young guys that worked for me.   That's why I say these latest pictures are the ones that are going to get me caught and expose my spanking fetish to them!   Even if they aren't the ones to find my blog, perhaps one of their friends may see their photos and show my blog to them!   Most of these guys were familiar with getting their butts spanked at home and would have enjoyed turning the tables on their boss and spanking my ass red!  If you look at the guys in the photos below, you can see the smirks on many of the guys faces.   Seeing those smirks on their faces would cut right to my core if I was naked and red faced, and over their knees  for a long hard spanking!     Jordan has an alpha male personality.  While I'm somewhat dominant at work and in "vanilla" life, I'm turned on by and enjoy submitting to the authority of a man who takes charge when I get a spanking. So when Jordan told me to tell Payton I've been spanked he was in charge and he knew I would submissively do exactly as I was told!   While I tried talking my way out of having this conversation with Payton. both Jordan and I knew I was going to do anything even somewhat reasonable that he ordered me to do, even if that meant humiliating myself in front of Payton   He just kept pressuring me saying that I have been spanked and that Payton has to find out!   Like a little kid pleading with my dad, I tried reasoning with Jordan, telling him I can't just go up to Payton and say that I get naked and let other men spank me as an adult, but Jordan didn't care. Jordan wanted me to experience the shame of telling someone I know that I got spanked!  He wanted Payton to see my face turn red with shame!    He told me I could make something up like I lost a bet and got spanked for it, but kept insisting that Payton had to find out that I've had my bare ass paddled!    I even tried telling Jordan that I already told Payton that I wasn't paddled, but Jordan didn't care about that either!  He just insisted that I tell him!   As humiliating as this conversation with Payton was going to be, deep down I knew Jordan was right! That I had to tell the kid his boss has had his ass spanked!  But I never told anyone that before!   If only I got those spankings as a teenager it wouldn't be so bad, but I got spanked as a grown man!   I just had to figure out a way to tell the kid without telling him that,  and make it believable!   The idea of telling Payton I got paddled was becoming somewhat exciting and it was starting to turn me on too,  but it was also as scary as hell!  The hard part was figuring out how was I going to do this after I already told him I wasn't paddled.      Payton is a skinny kid, about 5'10" and  about 155 lbs.  He's in shape , he's strong for his size, he looks good, he knows it and he lets everyone else know it too.  He has that kind of an attitude.   He has a sweet ass that's in perfect shape and that little ass of his just begs to be spanked.   Plus he's mischievous and deserves to get his ass spanked too.   But it's not Payton's ass we were talking about getting spanked - it was mine!   Jordan had challenged me and I knew I had to follow through!  And ever since I completed Jordan's first naked dare, somehow I'm sure Jordan knew I was going to do this challenge too,   He was just waiting to find out how I was going to pull it off!   I'm sure he was laughing his ass off knowing how humiliated I was going to be doing it!    The next day when we were driving back from lunch, I got another phone call.   It was the mom of a high school kid that worked for me.   She was planning to take her son's car away from him as punishment for something he did and would have to drive him to work.   She wanted to know if I'd schedule him around her own work schedule so she could drive her son to work. That's when the idea hit me!  You see, when I was in high school, my parents took my own car away from me.  I deserved to be spanked just for the way I used to drive that car but that's entirely another story!  I don't remember what it was I did to earn the punishment, but I was really mad about it.  A car was probably the most important thing to me at that age!  ​ A photo of my car that my parents took away from me as an older teen! My friends called it the "burnout car" because it had a 6.6 litre V8 engine and could easily burn rubber.     Being the brat that I was back then, and in dire need of a spanking,  I simply refused to go to school until I got my car back. Now if I had got my ass spanked at home back then I wouldn't have dared pull a stunt like that, but I knew I was relatively safe from spanking, at least at home, so I got away with it. Now if my buddies tried doing that, they would have been stripped bare and had their asses absolutely blistered! But I ended up staying home from school for three days. Each day the principal called my dad at work asking why I wasn't in school. All my dad did when he came home from work, was yell at me. Getting yelled at was all that ever happened to me growing up.  Or the threat of a spanking, or an occasisional mouthsoaping!   Like I said, I felt pretty safe from spanking as a punishment, so getting spanked for it never even crossed my mind.  Eventually, by the third night, my dad smacked me upside the head with his open hand a few times and told me to get my ass to school.  The only thing that made me go back to school was he said the principal wanted to see me before going back to class.  Now the principal was something I never even considered!!!   I hadn't even thought about the consequences that waited for  my ass when I got back to school!     Now I got that sick feeling in the pit of my stomach, because the principal PADDLED guys for ditching school!   It was going to be really humiliating to get spanked for the first time and even worse to get it in SCHOOL and with a paddle!    But somehow I escaped that paddling too!   Yeah, "Mr. Never Gets Spanked" just got lectured by the principal too.   I guess because I had never even been in the office my entire school career he let me off with just a stern talking to that day! I thought for sure he was going to burn my ass with his paddle that morning! So, I got the idea of telling Payton that my dad paddled my ass that day instead of just yelling at me and slapping me upside the head. It would be a realistic way of telling him that his boss has had his ass paddled.   And since we were talking about paddling in school when I told him I hadn’t been spanked, it wouldn't look like I was making this up since this was a paddling at home. Jordan agreed to let me lie about that one fact but just insisted that I go through with this and tell Payton the rest of the story!   He was adamant that Payton had to be told that I have been spanked bare ass with a paddle! He wanted me to endure the humiliation of telling Payton that I got my pants pulled down for the spanking!  I didn't sleep that entire night trying to figure out what I was going to say and how I was going to do it, but I knew I had to follow through with this, and I was actually getting a boner just thinking about it. As humiliating as it was going to be for me, I agreed, Payton had to know I've been spanked! I planned out what I was going to say and this time I anticipated any question Payton might ask and got my story straight in my mind from every angle. This had to come off as if it really happened! I was so wound up thinking about the spanking conversation I was going to have with Payton,  I didn't sleep one wink.  I just played the story out in my mind over and over again until it was second nature.  Some more photos of Payton and his hot little butt!  Yes I often got turned on looking at Payton's hot little ass wondering if he got spanked.   I'd soon find out!   So here's what happened.    I was so nervous anticipating having a spanking conversation with a vanilla person!   Not just saying I got spanked but telling him all the juicy details of the spanking too!   Payton and I were working alone the next morning so I figured it was a good time. I felt really awkward bringing up spanking out of the blue, but I knew I had to do it   I decided to tell him that story but instead of saying my dad just yelled at me, I figured I'd tell him he spanked me too. Payton helped me make up the work schedule so it was like fate played a part in this whole thing.  I told him he'd have to do some strange things with the other kid’s work schedule because his mom was going to take away his car. Then I said that the other day when he asked if I was paddled at SCHOOL,  I said no, but since he asked I'd tell him about one of the times I did get paddled at HOME, and that was a time I had MY OWN car taken away. Payton was all ears. And he got that smirk on his face. The kind of smirk that a young guy gets when spanking is brought up! The same kind of smirk that I used to get on my face when I saw a buddy get spanked!  He was definitely interested and he wanted to hear how his boss got his ass paddled!  I have to admit my own dick was starting to get hard!  I told him about the "red paddle" my parents kept in the kitchen drawer - a true story. A red Fli-Back paddle - the one with the graphic of a  cowboy on a horse on it.     I explained it was one of those paddleball paddles, but not like the cheap ones they make today. I said it was real hardwood and thick. I described it in detail so Payton would know it would really hurt to get spanked with that paddle!   He was still all ears and I could tell he was eager to hear more about how I got spanked!  Looking back I think he may have been interested in paddles and that's why he asked if I ever got paddled.   I told him how my parents always threatened to spank me  if I misbehaved by asking me if I wanted them to go and get the "red paddle". That simple question would usually get me to change my behavior!  Then I told him the story in detail about how my car was taken away and how I told my parents I wasn't going to school until I got it back. He really had a smirk on his face when he heard that. He was probably thinking I did deserve to get my ass beat!  Maybe he was thinking he wouldn't dare say that to his dad!   I wonder if he was looking at my ass at this point, imagining what it looked like bare and spanked red, just like I often looked at his ass thinking about him being spanked!  I told him about the principal calling my dad at work and my dad coming home and yelling at me that first night. Payton just kind of shook his head when I told him that I stood my ground and told my dad I wasn't going to school until I got my car back!   Payton was probably thinking I definitely deserved to have my ass paddled! Then I told Payton I stayed home a second day and how my dad yelled again and told me I'd better go  to school. I told him that I told my dad again that I'd go to school when I got my car back. The kid made a "tisk" sound like he knew I was a brat and even HE felt I deserved a spanking. Having the conversation was especially hot for me because I fantasize about role reversal spankings where a younger guy not in authority turns the tables and spanks me. The sound effects Payton was making told me if it were up to him, he would have even spanked himself!   Then I told him that I stayed home the third day, and how my dad yelled again. All this was true. The next part is what I made up so he'd know I've been paddled. I didn't tell him my dad smacked me upside the head a few times but instead I told him I felt pretty smug when my dad turned around and left the room. That is until he opened that kitchen drawer and took out "The Red Paddle"!   Payton was practically drooling now and couldn't wait to hear all the humiliating details of how his boss got his ass spanked! I could see a huge grin spread across his face.  I wanted this to be as humiliating as possible for me, so I told Payton that my dad came back into my room, pulled down both my pants and my underwear, and bent me over his knees like a little kid.   Then I told him my dad spanked my bare ass with that red paddle.   Yes I used the word "spanked" because I wanted it to be embarrassing that I was given a spanking like a little boy!  Payton could picture me, about the same age as him, getting an embarrassing over the knee, bare bottom spanking and had a huge smirk on his face thinking that I finally got what I deserved.  And then I heard him actually start laughing!   Yeah Payton thought it was funny that I got spanked!  My face was burning red with shame right in front of him!   It was the first time someone was laughing at me because they found out I got spanked!  I can't say I didn't deserve having him laugh at me for all the times I smirked and grined when I watched my buddies get spanked growing up.  I can only imagine how Payton or any of those boys from work would laugh their ass off if they saw me getting spanked now!  It's exactly the kind of humiliation I deserve! There were a few moments of awkward silence, at least for me, and then I asked him if he ever got spanked. He finally stopped grinning and then and after a few seconds he said "Yeah, I got the belt. And it was awful"!      I was thinking to myself that at least it was more manly a way to get spanked than the way I just told him I got spanked, over my dad's knees bare ass like a little kid!  Although,  I have to admit my dick was getting hard again thinking about that sweet little butt of Payton's getting spanked with a leather belt!   Having never been spanked growing up  I self spanked for years just trying to see what a spanking might feel like and the belt always remained elusive to me.   I could give myself a pretty effective spanking with a paddle, but couldn't get an effective swing with a belt so I had no idea what a good belt spanking felt like.  I always feared a belt spanking.  Many times I saw my friends spanked with a belt and the sound a belt made whistling through the air and the loud crack it made when it connected with their bare bottom sounded so wicked!   My own dad used to snap his belt to scare me too!     Then Payton said he got his mouth washed out with soap all the time too and he said that was really awful!   It wasn't until later that he revealed more details about his belt spankings and mouthsoapings.     I confessed to him that I got mouthsoapings too. Which I did. I usually got my mouth washed out with soap and I'd get locked in my room. I just never got a spanking along with the mouthsoaping, but I didn't tell him that part.   The conversation ended there, for the time being, but I knew he'd tell everyone else that worked there and that all those young guys would soon know that I've had my bare bottom paddled,  over the knee, like a naughty little boy when I was their age!   . I'm sure they were all looking at my ass after that wondering what it looked like spanked bright red with a paddle!  And yeah, they did all find out because a few of them told me to tell others the humiliating story about how I got spanked!    Payton brought spanking up a few more times on his own so I had a feeling he was also into spanking. In fact I think most guys like to hear about other guys getting spanked.  But I think Payton was a little more into it than most guys.  He clearly made it a point, more than once, to be sure I knew he got "the belt" bare ass, and that turned me on even more!  Again, each time, he told me that getting the belt "was awful".  Payton also made sure to tell me all the details of his mouthsoapings too. This is when I started getting turned on by mouthsoapings!   He told me his dad soaped his mouth and then set a kitchen timer for 30 minutes! He never said any specifics, but my spanko mind pictured him standing at the kitchen sink with his pants and boxers still off, with that skinny red belted bottom of his on display as he endured his soaping punishment!   He had a couple older brothers too,  so from Jordan's spanking experiences, I also pictured Payton enduring the public humiliation of getting his mouth soaped bare bottom while they got to watch!   He repeated how the mouth soapings were "really awful"- even more awful than getting the belt.   He said he just stood there with the bar of soap in his mouth, drooling soap suds listening to the timer tick because he didn’t dare take it out of his mouth until the timer rang!  I imagined his brothers there laughing at him, teasing him about his red belted bottom, eager to tell on him if he took the soap out of his mouth before the timer rang. That's just the way brothers are!   He went on to describe how he’d try holding the bar of soap with his teeth to get it off of his tongue, but said how that just made things even worse because the bar was all soft and gooey by then and all it accomplished was caking the soap in his teeth and making it harder to rinse out!     My own mouth soapings only lasted a few minutes so I couldn't even relate to the horrible ordeal Payton was going through at the time.  Although I did know I truly hated mouthsoapings myself and they didn't turn me on in the least when I was a boy.  Unlike spankings, which even as a teenager, turned me on a lot,  I think a soaping like that, would be pure punishment for me! After Payton told me about his mouthsoapings, I actually started getting a boner when I thought about someone like Payton soaping my mouth and giving me a bare naked belt spanking!   The ritual that goes with the mouthsoaping turns me on too, just like the ritual of a spanking!  Things like being pulled by the ear to the sink, and cornertime with the soap still in your mouth like Payton had to do with the timer ticking!  Or even being spanked with the bar of soap in my mouth and being told the soap better not slip out!   Yeah after Payton told me about his mouthsoapings, I wanted to experience a mouthsoaping during a spanking as a grown adult!   I even tried a self soaping after hearing Payton talk about his punishments.  Of course I imagine my punishments administered naked in front of an audience for maximum humiliation!   The more humiliating a spanking, a mouthsoaping or any punishment is, the more effective it is!     Yeah Payton and some of those other guys from work would definitely have fun stripping me naked, soaping my mouth and taking turns spanking my butt bright red with their belts! There's a couple of those guys that I think are definitely interested in spanking themselves and Payton is one of them!   Here's why I say that. A couple months later, Payton walked into the office to ask me a question and I was ignoring him because I was concentrating on something else.  He got tired of waiting for me and just blurted out, "Don't make me get the belt!"  I mean, what 19 year old says that to his 60 year old boss? Yeah the kid was actually thinking about taking his belt to my ass!  My dick immediately got hard thinking about him spanking me.   I wonder if Payton was getting a boner too as he said it?  In reality I wanted him to spank me too, but for legal reasons, I just couldn't go there at the time!    Another time Payton and one of his coworkers were in one of my buildings, while I was talking to someone else. I glanced over where they were and Payton and the other guy took off their belts.   Payton folded his belt in half and pushed the two ends together to make that ass whipping sound of leather smacking skin.  The “Belt Snap”!   He looked right up at me as he did it. We made brief eye contact and Payton got that smirk on his face again.  It was like he was saying we both know you need this boss!  Payton took off his belt and started snapping the leather like this.   He looked right at me and got a huge smirk on his face!  Yeah the kid wanted to take his belt to my ass himself!   Yes, I admit it, I get turned on thinking about guys like Jordan, Payton and Billy dominating and controling me.  It gives me a boner thinking about alpha males like them stripping me and spanking me.  If they told me to strip and bend over their knees for a spanking today, I would eagerly obey them and submit to a spanking and mouthsoaping from them!   The other kid let his belt fall to full length and started whipping the floor. I heard this other guy got mad at traffic court one day, took off his belt and started whipping a tree outside the court house! Yeah both of those guys were into spanking ass!   And they both wanted to spank mine!  I don't know what it was, but I think Payton and a few of those guys sensed my true submissive nature! Perhaps it's just something an alpha male can sense.      Another picture of the guy on the left that was whipping the floor with his belt with Payton that day.   I think he would have enjoyed taking his belt to my bare ass too!  I would have enjoyed having him strip and spank me too!   I told the same story to a few other guys when they asked me if I got spanked and found out they were familiar with spanking too!   I went a bit further with couple of them and explained how you could get paddled bare naked in front of all your friends in the locker room. ​ Being a horny spanko at 18 years old,  I couldn't help popping a boner right there in the showers watching a guy get his ass burned with the paddle right in front of everyone. He got positioned like this for maximum humiliation and everyone else's enjoyment!  I couldn't help look right at the guy's exposed butt hole!   Luckily for me I showered quickly and was given a towel to dry with and I was able to dangle it in front of me when someone got paddled until I willed my boner back down!   Everyone else's attention was on the festivities at hand!   But my boner started coming back to life when I put the towel in the laundry bin and made my way back to my locker naked thinking about the spanking I just saw!    I told them to just picture the view everyone got of a naked guy, bending over, spreading his legs wide apart and grabbing his ankles for a paddling!  I didn't specify the body parts you could see, but they all knew!  After all, they were guys, and were fully aware of exactly what body parts were showing!   They smirked, chuckled and said,  "That's just not right!"  Out here in the country, most of these guy were spanked at home right into their early adult years. Unlike a lot of today's city kids, they were very familiar with spanking. And unlike me, weren't shy admitting they got spanked!  Mostly they got spanked by their dads, although some of them spanked each other when they were goofing around.    These country boys weren't shy about getting naked in front each other either or even getting naked in front of strangers.    Jake, Dan and Kyle.  Three of those redneck country boys that worked for me.  Jake on the left was like me and didn't get spanked at home.  However he was interested in spanking and asked me if I got "spankin's".  He told me he got to watch his older brother get spanked!   He also told me his two buddies Dan (middle) and Kyle (right) stripped him naked and spanked him when they were hanging out at his house one time.   They both got the belt from their dads and believed in spanking!  Kyle is a firm believer in the belt!   Dan is the most "redneck" of all and has a sweet little bubble butt and thin muscular legs.  I often thought about being naked over his knees having him give me a spanking.  I remember one time stopping at a gas station so they could use the bathroom.  There was only one bathroom and Jake and Dan broth ran in to a single person men's room  and pissed into the same toilet together. We all made jokes asking them if they crossed streams?   They certainly weren't bashfull taking their dicks out around each other or showing each other their asses!  Dan was always whipping his dick out and pissing in public!   Most guys their age are too shy to do something like that.  Gotta love those country boys!  Perhaps in a future post I'll tell some details about Kyle's experiences with the belt and those of Dan and his brother.  I needed the guy in the photo below to do something at work where he was going to get wet so I told him to bring a swim suit to work.   I couldn't believe it when he changed into the swim suit in the parking lot standing next to his pickup truck.   Now he didn't take off his pants, leaving his shirt on and then put the swim suit on.  He got buck ass naked!   He stripped off his shirt, pants, underwear shoes, and socks.  He took it all off and then put on the swim suit.   Right there in front of me, co-workers, and customers!   It was no big deal for him!   I had to admire his confidence and boldness!  I sure wish I could get naked in front of people and not have a second thought about it, especially at his age!  He got the belt at home too and got it bare ass.   He's a tall skinny ass guy and I often wondered if his little butt got spanked.  Sure enough, he admitted in that conversation he was familiar with getting "the belt" bare ass at home!  And he wasn't shy about getting naked in public!   These guys definitely have expressed an interest in spanking.   The other guy I was sitting with at the table told us about how his dad has a big waist and his belt is really long and was hard to get away from. One day he found a 4-5 foot piece of rope on the floor and started whipping the floor with it.  I wondered if he was imagining the floor was my ass! He's always talking about how some guys need an ass whipping and he probabIy thought I was one of them!     I'm pretty sure all of those guys would thoroughly enjoy seeing me get spanked or better yet have the opportunity to spank me themselves!   So yeah, these guys were no strangers to spanking and they believed spankings worked and thought more guys should be spanked!  Even older guys like me! That conversation with Payton is what started my interest in mouthsoaping.   After I confessed to him that I had in fact been paddled, I'm sure he was looking at my big butt wondering what it looked like bare and spanked bright red, just as I often looked at his skinny little butt and envisioned it painted red from his dad's belt.   And when I found out he got mouthsoapings along with the belt spankings I really got turned on by mouthsoapings!   At that time I still hadn't had my mouth soaped along with a spanking but it was on my list of things to experience.   If Payton or the other guys I told that lie to about getting spanked for getting my car taken away want to settle the score for me lying to them, I think a good mouthsoaping and bare naked belt spanking would be in order.   Or maybe they'd rather bend me over their knees and try out a paddle on my bare naked bottom, spanking me like a naughty little boy to humiliate me even more!  Although I would have enjoyed it, I didn't get the chance to see Payton's ass bare, but I did get the chance to see a few of those guys' bare ass and a couple of them buck ass naked at work!   It only fueled my fantasies even more!  Payton did seem very interested in paddles though, so perhaps he'd enjoy giving me a naked over the knee paddling or maybe both a belt whipping and a paddling.   I did actually get a real spanking for telling that lie though.   One of the guys that was spanking me at the time found out about that conversation with Payton and truly blistered my bottom for it. Buck ass naked in front of a group of other men!    But he didn't wash my mouth out with soap for telling that lie.  He was going to in a future spanking but I moved out of state and he never got the chance.  After he spanked me, he told me that the next time I tell that story about being spanked for refusing to go to school when my car was taken away, it will be true and he kept his word!    I've briefly mentioned that spanking in other posts in my blog but will tell the rest of the story some time in the future.   But if Payton or one of the other guy's that I told that story to, or anyone else that knows me wants to punish me for telling that lie about my dad paddling my ass, I guess I definitely deserve it!   Strip me bare, wash my mouth out with soap, and whoop my ass with your belts!   I'm sure you'll enjoy knocking me down a few pegs!  Make it very embarrassing, put me on display naked, and do it in front of others.  Paint my ass red! !  Having me totally naked will add to my humiliation and to add to your fun!  And if you want, I'll bring a couple paddles with so you can bend me over your knees and spank me like a little kid like I said my dad did.  It will be poetic justice!   Just contact me and tell me it's time that my lying ass gets punished.  I'll know exactly what you mean!   We'll both know what I have coming! If you're not interested in spanking me but recognize me in my posts, just contact me or text me and say you saw my blog and when we see each other my face will still burn red with shame knowing you saw me bare, exposed and spanked!  I really do deserve to have regular friends find out exactly how I get spanked!   Link for Part 5 - Wash My Mouth Out With Soap