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  Impact play in BDSM can offer participants a range of benefits, both physical and psychological. Physically, it can stimulate the release of endorphins, providing a natural high and reducing stress. The sensation of impact can also enhance sensory experiences, heightening arousal and pleasure. Psychologically, impact play allows for the exploration of power dynamics and the establishment of trust and intimacy between partners. Through clear communication and negotiation of boundaries, participants can delve into their desires, pushing personal limits and fostering personal growth. Additionally, impact play provides a space for self-expression and exploration, allowing individuals to embrace and celebrate their sexuality in a safe and consensual environment. Overall, impact play can enhance connection, satisfaction, and personal empowerment within BDSM relationships. It was fascinating for me the first time when I read about the hormones that the brain and body produce during and after impact play to reduce the sudden pain quickly. I started to discover how the brain injects your whole body with certain hormones that you get into something like a sugar rush but it turns into something else. It’s well known as the subspace and the Domspace. Subspace and Domspace Subspace and domspace are psychological states that individuals may experience during BDSM activities: Subspace: Subspace is a psychological state often experienced by submissives during BDSM play. It typically involves a deep sense of relaxation, euphoria, and altered consciousness. Submissives may enter subspace in response to intense sensations, such as pain or pleasure, or as a result of psychological surrender and submission to a dominant partner. In this state, submissives may feel detached from reality, experience time distortion, and have reduced awareness of their surroundings. Subspace can enhance feelings of trust, connection, and vulnerability between partners and can contribute to a deeply fulfilling BDSM experience. Domspace: Domspace is a psychological state experienced by dominants during BDSM play. It involves a heightened sense of control, confidence, and focus. Dominants may enter domspace as they take on their role of power and authority, directing and guiding the submissive partner's experience. In this state, dominants may feel a sense of empowerment, mastery, and satisfaction in fulfilling their partner's desires and pushing boundaries. Domspace allows dominants to immerse themselves fully in the BDSM dynamic, leading with confidence and assertiveness while prioritizing the safety and well-being of their submissive partner. Both subspace and domspace are deeply personal and can vary in intensity and duration from person to person. They require clear communication, trust, and mutual understanding between partners to ensure a safe and fulfilling BDSM experience. It's essential for participants to be aware of the potential psychological effects of subspace and domspace and to establish aftercare routines to support each other's emotional well-being after BDSM activities. Hormones that are released during and after impact play During an impact scene in a dominant-submissive dynamic or even a Top and a bottom who have a good level of trust and mutual understanding, various chemicals can be released in the brain and body due to the physical and emotional sensations experienced. Some of these chemicals may include: 1. Endorphins: These are natural painkillers that the body produces in response to pain or stress. Endorphins can create feelings of euphoria and pleasure, helping to mitigate the sensation of pain during impact play. Some new researchers said that it improves immunity as well. 2. Adrenaline: Also known as epinephrine, adrenaline is released in response to stress or excitement. It increases heart rate, blood pressure, and energy levels, preparing the body for action. You should be careful with bottoms or subs who have high blood pressure problems. 3. Dopamine: This neurotransmitter is associated with pleasure and reward. It can be released during enjoyable activities, including BDSM play, contributing to feelings of pleasure and Dopamine plays several important roles in the brain and body: Reward and pleasure: Dopamine is often referred to as the "feel-good" neurotransmitter because it is involved in the brain's reward system. It plays a central role in reinforcing behaviors that are pleasurable or rewarding, such as eating delicious food, engaging in enjoyable activities, or experiencing social interactions. When dopamine is released in response to these activities, it creates feelings of pleasure and satisfaction, motivating individuals to seek out those experiences again in the future. This is why it’s not advised to use fear or aggressive real humiliation during impact play. These can turn off the desired good effects. Motivation and goal-directed behavior: Dopamine is also involved in motivation and goal-directed behavior. It helps to drive individuals to pursue goals, take action, and exert effort to achieve rewards. Dopamine levels tend to increase when individuals anticipate or receive rewards, leading to increased motivation and engagement in goal-oriented activities. At first, I was surprised that some of my partners asked me for impact play after good accomplishments they achieved. I didn’t know about the link before. Motor control: In addition to its role in reward and motivation, dopamine is involved in motor control and coordination. It helps to regulate movement and muscle function, playing a critical role in fine motor skills, coordination, and balance. Mood regulation: Dopamine is implicated in mood regulation and emotional processing. Imbalances in dopamine levels have been associated with various mood disorders, such as depression and bipolar disorder. Optimal dopamine functioning is important for maintaining stable mood and emotional well-being. Impact play can mitigate depression yet it’s not recommended with anxiety, in my opinion. Cognitive function: Dopamine also plays a role in cognitive function, including learning, memory, attention, and decision-making. It helps to facilitate information processing in the brain, allowing individuals to focus on relevant stimuli, learn from experience, and make adaptive decisions. 4. Serotonin: Serotonin plays a role in regulating mood, emotions, and social behavior. It can be released during pleasurable activities, contributing to feelings of well-being and contentment. It also affects appetite and digestion in a good way. This is why we feel hungry after a scene and the food tastes more delicious than usual. It has an amazing effects on social behaviour and bonding. This is why I always recommended aftercare for everyone after hard scenes. 5. Oxytocin: Oxytocin is often referred to as the "love hormone" or "bonding hormone" because of its role in facilitating social bonding, trust, and attachment between individuals. Some of the key functions of oxytocin include: Bonding and attachment: Oxytocin plays a central role in promoting bonding and attachment between individuals. It is released in response to various social cues, such as physical touch, eye contact, and positive social interactions. Oxytocin enhances feelings of trust, empathy, and connection, fostering close relationships between partners who are in a relationship or a dynamic. Stress reduction: Oxytocin has been shown to have stress-reducing effects, helping to counteract the physiological and psychological effects of stress. It can promote feelings of relaxation, calmness, and well-being, buffering against the negative impact of stress on the body and mind. Social behavior: Oxytocin influences various aspects of social behavior, including empathy, generosity, and cooperation. It promotes prosocial behaviors and facilitates social bonding and cooperation within groups. Oxytocin has been linked to increased trust and cooperation in social exchanges and may play a role in fostering social cohesion and harmony. Sexual arousal and intimacy: Oxytocin is involved in sexual arousal and intimacy, enhancing feelings of pleasure and bonding during sexual activity. It is released during physical intimacy and orgasm, contributing to feelings of connection and satisfaction between partners. These chemicals can contribute to the intense emotional and physical experiences often reported by individuals engaging in BDSM activities, including impact scenes in dominant-submissive dynamics. However, it's essential to prioritize safety, communication, and consent to ensure a positive and fulfilling experience for all parties involved. Safety In my opinion, do not involve someone who has one of the following conditions into any hard impact play: Top psychological and physiological disorders that may prevent a submissive from engaging in impact play: Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD): Trauma survivors may experience triggers or flashbacks during impact play, making it emotionally distressing or retraumatizing. Be extremely careful and communicate more. Use the traffic light all the time. Anxiety disorders: Individuals with generalized anxiety disorder, social anxiety disorder, or other anxiety disorders may find that impact play exacerbates their symptoms, leading to heightened anxiety or panic. Panic disorder: People with panic disorder may experience sudden and intense episodes of fear or panic during impact play, making it unsafe or unpleasant for them to participate. Deep Depression: Individuals with depression may lack the energy or motivation to engage in BDSM activities, including impact play, due to symptoms such as fatigue, low mood, and loss of interest in pleasurable activities. Do not ever push anyone or you will handle ethical and legal consequences. Chronic pain conditions: Conditions such as fibromyalgia, arthritis, or chronic back pain may make impact play uncomfortable or painful for individuals, limiting their ability to participate safely. Joint disorders: Individuals with joint disorders such as arthritis or hypermobility syndrome may be at increased risk of injury during impact play, particularly if they have reduced flexibility or stability in their joints. Sensory processing disorder: People with sensory processing disorder may have heightened sensitivity to physical sensations, making impact play overwhelming or distressing for them. Physical disabilities: Certain physical disabilities or mobility limitations may impact an individual's ability to engage in impact play safely or comfortably. Communication disorders: Individuals with communication disorders such as autism spectrum disorder or social communication disorder may find it challenging to navigate the verbal and nonverbal communication required for consensual BDSM play. Substance use disorders: Substance abuse or dependence can impair judgment, coordination, and emotional regulation, increasing the risk of injury or harm during impact play. It's important for individuals to consider safety as a top priority. Forcing someone is to be considered unethical and illegal. Know your partner very well before engaging yourself with people you do not know. Thank you for reading. I hope you learned something new. WisDom ————————- References Health Line: https://www.healthline.com/health/happy-hormone#:~:text=Serotonin%3A%20This%20hormone%20and%20neurotransmitter,and%20strong%20parent%2Dchild% https://www.healthline.com/health/happy-hormone Harvard Health: https://www.health.harvard.edu/mind-and-mood/feel-good-hormones-how-they-affect-your-mind-mood-and-body Modern Age: https://modern-age.com/blog/how-do-hormones-affect-intimacy ————————- I strongly recommend that you read about subdrop and domdrop after a scene/session https://fetlife.com/users/11296680/posts/10522245

Well guys, I have been spanked, it was a long session that brought a few tears with it.  I deserved it though and I am grateful to my Dad Denis, for taking his time to administer the spanking I know was both needed and deserved.    I know all boys have different pain thresholds when they get spanked, and while its true I do get my fair share of spankings, you may besurprised to learn that I get a good ‘warming’ by hand before the actual punishment begins.  Once I am over and in just the right position, hestarts with gentle swats, he uses his hand to slap both cheeks at the same time, over and over.  The slaps get harder as the minutes pass, untilI am yelping a bit and squirming, the reason for the ‘warming’ is to prepare my bare bottom for the punishment he has in mind.   After the ‘warming’ the slaps are much harder, his hand is always straight, never cupped and he always rests his hand after each spank on whatever part of my bottom his hand lands on, for a couple of seconds.  Then the next punishment spank is delivered and the process continues until I am begging him to stop and as all boys do making my promises to be good.   Today though I also got the brush, so after the punishment hand spanking was completed, I was sent to the corner to reflect on my behavior,for five minutes.  As I feared when he released me from corner time he had the little wooden brush in his hand, I felt like a condemned manwalking over to his lap.  It hurts guys, the brush really does sting, I mean even with a hand warming, dang did I feel well punished when hestopped.  And it wasn’t over, dad always begins my spankings by hand and always finishes them by hand, and when he had finally decided Ihad enough I was given post spanking corner time.   I am still being punished, while I completed the pre spanking and post spanking corner time, I am in the  wooden naughty chair for a fewhours.  Its probably not what you think, the chair is used in lieu of lengthy corner time, essentially, I am confined to a tee and socks only andmust take the chair with me, wherever I go.  If I want to watch TV, I have to sit on it, not the comfy sofa, if I want to sit in the backyard, again Ihave to take it with me, and even now at my computer I am sitting on it with a very red and sore bottom.   I am going to post my thoughts as a series, I think it will be interesting to hear views and opinions which I believe may differ greatly and honestly that is just fine, that is as it should be.   Spankings for some, are a learning experience and a defined punishment and for others they simply want to feel the heat and pain.  Whatever the reason for a boys spanking be it punishment, fun or possibly a couple of guys playing and switching roles, I say great!  Nothing wrong withany of it.   Another point gentlemen, is to be careful for what you wish for, and I am serious.  I often hear other guys comment how lucky I am to be in a 24/7 discipline relationship, well trust me its not as simple as you think and not as much fun either.  It is safe to say that couples that do use discipline and spanking in their relationships are not all equal, different standards and reasons for punishment exist. Most importantly while it is a foundation block of their relationships, their entire lives do not revolve around punishment.   That said it is a wonderful relationship and has many advantages and they key is dependability and reliability.  There is very little point in a boy deciding when or when he does not deserve or need a spanking, choosing to either accept or reject his discipline as it suits him, will simply not work.  Once rules have been agreed upon, expectations, goals and acceptable behavior decided upon, its his dad that decides when, why and how punishment happens.  It must be dependable.  Trust me there are way way many times when I have tried to talk my way out of being spanked, and really would rather have been anywhere else in the world, than with my pants and briefs down being scolded by dad.   It never matters, once my bottom has been bared, I know I am going over his knees, no exceptions and regardless of my promises or pleading for leniency.  As far as Dad is concerned, I have been naughty and its time for my punishment, a good spanking over his knees.   Our rules have changed over the years, but essentially, they revolve around well being and health, obedience and manners as well as more defined ones such as chores etc.  In a dad/son relationship obedience is really important, because as a boy you need to be mindful, respectful and accept your dad’s authority.   I also believe the relationship does depend a lot on a boy’s acceptance of being a boy, his nature and personality.  I am good natured, love a joke and fun but I also accept the fact that in someways at least I am immature and submissive to a dad’s authority.  There are many dad’s on this site and quite a few tops that I respect and without mentioning names, if one of them told me to come stand between their legs, I would do so and submissively put my hands on my head.  I wouldn’t just anyone spank me, it’s a sort of radar or ‘boydar’ if you will.  Although Denis my Dad is the one that tends to my discipline on a regular basis, I have been spanked by other dads from time to time with Denis’s full knowledge and approval.   So share your thoughts?

As most of you know, I am married, but seeking a Daddy to blister my ass at times that I misbehave. My wife and I found one, however she has not used him yet. I sent her this email: “I have given this some thought, and I don't think that you should put up with me being an ass when you need me to take care of you. Next time I do it contact Daddy and encourage him to blister my ass. After all, I brought it on myself. Don't get me wrong, I absolutely despise the pain, but I live for the discipline. Unless you are totally against me having a Daddy, call him the next time, no matter how much I might try to backtrack...................I need this in my life. Although, when it is happening, I will hate every second of it. Don't let me get away with it one more time! I feel bad when I do it and now, I need to pay the price.” This is her first response: “Sounds like a plan!!!” This is one she sent shortly after: “As I think further on this, I am wondering how this will lead to helping you develop self-control. If you can control your impulses to be an ass out of fear, I am wondering why you can't control those same impulses out of just wanting to be a decent human being? To be kind and loving to the people you love? Do you really need the threat of physical harm to not be a dick? Help me understand this.” My thoughts are these: she might as well have asked me the final digit of PI, or the meaning of life. Hell, I don’t know. I only know that the thought of being spanked consumes me; the thought of being over Daddies, or Mommies knee, gives me joy. Everything before and after the spanking is awesome, the spanking itself sucks. When I make it to the other side of the spanking it is bliss. The desire to feel like a well spanked boy is the greatest joy in my life. Eventually, I would like to have tears flow down my face like rain as the blistering goes on and on.   As for her questions about my behavior, I want you to know that I am not behaving like a total jerk. My wife just had her second knee replaced and so everything is up to me, so sometimes the stress leaves me a little crabby. She asks me to do something, and I huff about, mumbling under my breath, and acting put out. I feel that my behavior needs to be adjusted much like a little boy; reset with a good spanking. Of course, I don’t act out on purpose, it’s just that I am a child sometimes. I haven’t sent her back a response as I’m not sure there is one. I don’t know. As an aside, those of us in the know have been informed that the meaning of life is 42. We just know that it is information better kept to ourselves.  

When you look at this picture, what do you see? Not just some innocent piece of furniture!   As a boy, I shore can tell you I know what I see: a platform for a Spanking. Stick with me a minute here. These chairs will be the death of me! When I see these chairs in a house, I always find a way to get the heck away from them.  Do you realise just how easy it is for a Daddy to pull you across his lap and Spank your bottom?  Well, I do. And take it from me, these chairs are the proximate cause. But it's Valentine's Day week, and I wanted to share with you a big heart story. Last year, I became a yente hitching together two people who I felt really needed to meet each other. See, I had a friend who was really struggling finding the right Daddy. I mean for a long time. He kept getting involved with the wrong kind of guys. And after I introduced my friend, someone I knew pretty darned well, everything changed for him, for them! He's now in the midst of a new relationship with this Daddy.  When I asked him how it was going, he said:    "On my last visit to his house, I noticed I could barely find a single chair in the house that had arms on it. None of the chairs seem to have arms on them!"  I mean, what the heck!?  This particular boy's Daddy has been seeking out the right boy for years. So truth be told, I am so pleased to be the one who hooked them up. They are working through each element of what it's like to be a Daddy/boy team right now, and by the time you read this, I'm hoping they'll be way down the field on that. But in the meantime: that poor boy! At any point, anywhere in their house, my friend could easily get a Spanking! This is like the worst thing ever. But I mean, this result is a side-effect of being in a Daddy/boy relationship. A lot of boys send us messages here at Cornertime Confidential asking about Daddy/boy relationships and how to begin one. And I'm quick to say they are by far and away the very best form of a relationship. (I've had other types of relationships, and for my money, Daddy/boy is the best). However, I also try to mention, it's not all trips to amusement parks, free ice cream cones, and gobs of candy. Sometimes it's about managing your behaviour after the sugar rush!  For help with the latter, my friend's Daddy has a list of Rules he's having to follow and learn. He's not allowed to do a whole bunch of things. But last we talked, he was struggling less with the Rules, and more with the dynamics of how it all works. He says he likes Daddy a lot, he understands and appreciates the Rules, he likes to break the Rules when it's no big deal, and he enjoys being his Daddy's boy.  But I'm pretty sure...every time he sees the chair in the other room, he thinks... Have a very happy Valentine's Day in a couple of days as you seek our your perfect Daddy or boy. If I can play yente for you, I would too! :-) Maybe the blog will help give you the ideas you need to find your ideal Daddy or boy. Let me know how I can help, just email me for advice, questions, or links to helpful material here at Cornertime Confidential. Please comment below or email us with your ideas aok4otk@aol.com or cornertimeconf@gmail.com ______________________________________ Follow Cornertime Confidential Wherever You Are: Tumblr  ∙  SouthSpanking ∙  Twitter  ∙  WordPress

MAL 2024 recap: This was my third time coming to MAL and my first time coming solo (not sharing a room). I always have fun here and this time was no different. Of the large leather/fetish events (MAL, IML, CLAW, Leather Getaway), this is my favorite one. If both my guys show up tomorrow my final count will be 38 spankings given. 16 of those were at the Green Lantern party. People always say that party is too crowded to play but I don’t have any issues. Always spank around 16-17 guys at that one. I’ll have filmed nine new spanking videos by the time I leave tomorrow. All of them were with people I have never filmed with before except one. Thats always fun. I got to spend a lot of time with bottomman1 which was a treat because I only normally see him at Bad Ass Weekend. I also met (and spanked) a bear from New York I have had a crush on for years and he’s absolutely gorgeous in person and a total sweetheart.    I got to have my yearly strapping and brunch with Uncle Larry who I absolutely adore and have a bond with because of our fondness for Randy/Redbearspanker. I had a weird emotional moment where I had to go into the bathroom at the Green Lantern and cry because when I got done spanking a bear up on the stage he leaned over and said “You spank just like Daddy Randy” and it hit me right in the heart. Also got to see a lot of the regular BAW crew who are always super nice and welcoming. If you’re a spanko and have ever wanted to go to a leather decent like this, I can’t recommend MAL more. I’m sure there’s more but it all goes so fast that it’s kind of a blur. Going home from this one isn’t as hard as Bad Ass or Hot Seat but it’s definitely not easy either.

The events I plan to attend this year are MAL in January in DC. Hot Seat in Palm Springs in March. Bad Ass Weekend in Georgia in October and Leather Getaway in LA in November. If you’d like a spanking at any of these events, message me here or on Whappz.   If you come to Seattle this year let me know and maybe I can spank ya here. All depends on timing.

I hope everyone had a nice Xmas and that the new year finds you all in good health.   I will be in Europe in 2024, visiting and sampling the spanking chairs of some wonderful members of this site.  I guess if I behave, I might not get too much spanking, but where is the fun in that?  A boy has to be naughty sometimes, right?   I am also hoping to meet some of our American members either by visiting them or inviting them here to our home in Arizona.   We have a vibrant and wonderful community, with men from all ages and walks of lives.  I never judge anyone by their looks or their age, for me its all about personality and friendship.  I have been over the knees of guys more than twice my age, some that are younger than me, some that are thin and some that are large.   Before anyone shoots me down, there's large, there's thin, there's medium, there's stocky, there's lanky, there’s a million possible things that make up a man’s body type. I have learned over the years that there is no telling who you are going to be attracted to for spanking until you learn that for yourself.  It should be immensely satisfying being spanked by another person, just be happy and stop trying to rationalize every feeling you have. All humans have the innate right to feel attracted to whomsoever and whatsoever they wish, none of it needs any excuses or any justification - we want what we want.   There is always going to be the judgmental crowd and to them I say – take your superiority complex and your omniscience knowledge of other human being’s hearts, souls and sexuality, pick a corner and stand in it, stay there and do all a favor.  We don’t need you telling us about God, science or the genome pool, or how our DNA is corrupt, just chill!    Hugs   James

I want to share some thoughts on a consensual loving Dad/son spanking relationship.  These are just my thoughts.  I just feel like I need to get them out with people who may or may not understand.  Please tell me your thoughts in the comments.   I feel that a Dad/son relationship ideally is not a relationship of equality.  There is a hierarchy, and the DAD is in charge.  It is not a relationship with equality of power.  The DAD has the power, and he has the authority to enforce his authority, whether that be by spanking the son or disciplining him in any way he chooses.  However, it IS a relationship with equality in terms of love and respect.  There is no greater turn off to me if you're dating a dominant man and he calls me his bitch or slut or any other demeaning term.  A true DAD in my opinion would never treat his son like that.  His son is the apple of his eye, his prince, the object of his affection and love.  The Dad is crazy in love with his son.  While the DAD may expect the son to show him an inordinate amount of respect, maybe even in exaggerated ways, the DAD may never show his son that same sort of respect since DAD is the authority figure, not the son, but the DAD will never show his son disrespect.   What are some ways that the DAD might expect his son to show him respect? 1.  At a meal, the son must always wait for the DAD to take the first bite.  Then and only then, may the son start eating.  If the son forgets to wait for his DAD to take the first bite, the son's plate will be taken away, the meal will be put on hold, and the DAD will pull his boy over his lap, yank down his pants, and smack his bottom hard several times to remind the boy to follow this simple protocol of respect. 2.  The son is to ask his DAD's permission to leave the dinner table.  In fact, there may be a long list of things that DAD expects his son to ask his permission before doing.  Another example is the DAD may require that the son ask his permission before drinking alcohol or eating sweets.  This does not just pertain when they are together.  If the son is with friends or family without DAD, he must call or text his DAD to ask permission.  Any time the son fails to ask his permission, it will result in a spanking. 3. Since it is the role of the son to submit to his DAD's leadership, there will be times when the son will have to obey his DAD in ways that he does not want to.  If the son always wants to do everything his DAD directs him to do, then the DAD is not truly in charge. 4. The son is to address his Dad in the manner that the Dad has dictated.  An example may be that the son is to call his Dad Sir when in private, Dad out in public when others aren't listening, and by his name ONLY when others are listening.  And as the son, I WANT to address my Dad as Sir or Dad.  It comes naturally to me.  Nevertheless, Dad will spank me if I accidentally call him by his name in private, not as punishment per se, but more to help me to be true to myself. I could go on and on with ways to show respect to a Dad, but I'll stop here.  I hope that you will comment with others ways that I left off, not just to state what I may have forgotten, but also to help give me ideas on how I can please a future Dad.  I truly want a Dad that I date to be taken back with how impressed he is with how well I know my place and respect him. What does the DAD give the son? Passion, adoration, protection, consistency, guidance, structure, discipline, leadership   What does the son give the DAD? Obedience, submission, devotion, his body, vulnerability, trust   DAD is the authority figure in the relationship.  DAD values and seeks his son's opinion, but DAD always makes the final decision.  I think what I desire is very old-fashioned because I very profoundly desire that even though we are both indeed men, the Dad is the man of the house.  He loves being the man of the house, and the son respects that, respects him, and wouldn't have it any other way. If you want a relationship of equality, I completely understand that and I want you to be able to have that.  It's just not what I'm seeking.  I honestly do not understand why I don't want that for myself, but it is a deep desire within me.  

I thought I might ask you guys whether you think the following punishment scenarios that I have experienced are FAIR, UNFAIR, TOO MUCH or TOO LITTLE.   Before I list them though let me explain a little about my relationship with Denis, he is my husband but also my dad and takes my discipline quite seriously.   I gave him my consent and accept discipline with the understanding that he has the ultimate authority, decides on punishments and is the final decision maker, he doesn’t expect perfection, but I can and am held to high standards.   All my punishments start with a lecture, dad ensures I am listening and that I understand why I am being punished. He always listens to my thoughts and opinions, and that is important to me because I need to be heard.  It’s also very difficult for me to admit I have been naughty and apologize for it, and take my punishment, but I do anyway.   Scenario one:  I am on the computer, kind of playing around when I hear him call ‘James come here a minute please’ to which I reply ‘in a minute’, well fifteen minutes or so go by (I was busy right?) and my ear is suddenly seized as I am marched into the lounge, where the spanking chair has been pulled out and punished with spanking with the hairbrush for being disobedient.   Scenario two: I was told not too mess around with the pool. Specifically, the chemicals but had a go anyway, it just didn’t look clean enough to me.  I sort of made it bubble and foam, okay quite a lot really. I got three hard spankings, with corner time, one for disobedience, one for messing up the pool and another because its dangerous to mix pool chemicals together.   Scenario three:  Caught speeding and given a ticket, dang traffic school sucks!  I was going a little fast at over 80mph.  I got grounded every weekend for a month, got the strap and brush and evening bedtime spankings, every night for the entire month.   Scenario four:  Took a tantrum because I didn’t want to visit his aunt, okay I did accidently knock over one of those little Xmas ornaments, at least I think it was an accident.  I was Spanked and then made to go anyway and when we got back later that night, I got another spanking and sent to bed early .. I did not like that!

Guys,   I am humbled and excited to learn this has been happening to me, I never thought I would be worth bad mouthing, what an honor!   I am so elated that I am going to get the 'giant mumbo jumbo and fairy tale book' that way, I can make some comments from it regulary to fuel the fire of those that love to mouth off, I mean I couldnt possibly deny them such a pleasure after bestowing such an honor upon me, now could I?  Your traps after all need to be fed!   I will also bestow upon to each bad mouther a magical toy, its called 'the rampant bunny master delux' - now when one of you bad mouthers use the bunny master do not set it on full speed - or your teeth will chatter, oh, naughty me, that may turn you on!   Seriously though, I am actually very amused and I am certainly not joining any of those sites, to defend myself, frankly its really not worth my time and energy.  I can either be mad at these people or I can pity them, I choose pity.   Have a wonderful rest of your Sunday!   James            

I feel so young, though I am really old, ancient in fact. I enjoy caressing the bare buttocks of a young man, for generations I have lived on this planet, and I am going nowhere soon.   My master cares for me daily, ensuring I get the exercise I need, with the snap of his wrist I land on naughty boy behind, time and time again.  The yells, the pleading and the whimpering are like music to my ears.   I'm old-fashioned and have seen some things, I remember giving one boy two spankings in one day. He got one after breakfast for being disrespectful, and later that very day his daddy took him back over his knees for another when he found the boy out in a lie. I was exhausted when we finished that spanking it was so long and so hard, and the poor boys butt was practically apple red.   Yes, scarcely a week goes by when I am not being used on bad boys’ behinds, and those boys learn respect not just for me but for themselves. I wish I could spank all naughty boys, but I have to be content with what I have.  I travel a lot you see, in the glovebox of my master’s car and I often rest contentedly on the night stand waiting to be used.   I am feeling young and frisky as I look forward to meeting some new boys, young master Jonny P from England, Joseph Lamb from the US and a certain boy called Baltic from Germany. I will smack those naughty bottoms with relish, I eagerly await their appointments with my master’s lap. I hope they appreciate my enthusiasm, and will enjoy the feel of my polished wooden back as I snap quickly and bitingly across their posteriors.   Jonny P is very naughty, he is the one I want to spank the most! But I'm only a hairbrush; what can I do? I must be patient and wait.   It will be wonderful watching him walk slowly towards the awaiting lap, he will look at me with a mixture of hate, fascination, and respect. I've seen that look many times. But when daddy takes down his pants and briefs, lifting him over his knees that’s when the fun begins!   All you other dads, need a brush like me in your hands, teaching the pert, upturned bottoms of your boys with my flat wooden back, they will learn quickly, you will see.  I will make them stand up straight and tall and be respectful of their dads and all!   I love spanking boys, my wooden body to wraps around their cheeks and thighs, with loud heaty smacks accompanied by howls.  They can fidget and bawl all they want, but on and on I shall go!

Dear naughty boys and even naughtier dads and tops,   I think we should have a discussion about chairs and there role in spankings and other discipline.   I will repost a picture of the chairs most commonly used as a platform when my dad turns me over his knees to start us off.  So share yourideas and experiences.  I think for me, a chair that leaves my bottom well centered, head and legs not touching the floor are the most effectiveones.   Some Dads and Tops have custom chairs, even made by themselves such as Nor Cal, (don't tell him but I would quite like a tour of his chair while over his knees but shhhhhhh).   They are also used by some really bad and naughty dads to put poor boys in the corner .. and that sucks!   But come on share your chair ideas, what makes your chair so special huh?