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A short diversion before I get to Part 2 of my 2nd Naked Dare at Work story.   In the Franco Friday photo above that AC posted showing a guy masturbating while watching a buddy get spanked, I commented about being too shy to do something like that myself either as a teen or as an adult.  Here's what I said in the comment:   Ever since I was a teen, I always wanted to masturbate when a buddy got spanked but was too ashamed to let anyone know that I got sexually turned on watching them get spanked, or worse yet thinking about someone spanking me. And besides no one admitted that they masturbated, although we all knew everyone did! So I waited until I got home, then stripped naked and jerked off thinking about being in their place! Even as an adult I am too shy to masturbate when getting spanked in a group. Perhaps someday I'll have to throw caution to the wind. It will be the perfect excuse for someone to punish me for my indiscretion! I'll post a few photos of myself in a similar situation shortly. where I wasn't allowed to touch myself while watching someone else get spanked and I was waiting my turn for a bottom blistering punishment spanking in front of an audience! Here's the time I mentioned where I didn't dare touch myself while I watched another man get spanked knowing I was going to be spanked next! I'll tell the whole story someday but here's a brief part of it.   There were seven other men standing there watching too which made it extra humiliating for me.  After all, they saw me stripped, scolded and lectured for real misbehavior.  This was actually the first time I got spanked for something I really did!  Having never been spanked growing up, I was never lectured like that knowing my bare ass was about to pay for what I did.  The feeling was quite incredible!  Not only that, but by this time, the spanker already shaved my pubes and ass right in front of them to make me look and feel like the little boy he was going to spank me like. I hate being shaved down there, but I was being punished for real misbehavior and I had no say so in how I got punished!   After all, what boy does?   Now I'm watching him spank someone else so I can get an idea of what is going to happen to me - only he's told me I'm going to get it much worse!    In this picture I turn and look at the other men that are watching the three of us and I see all of them smirking. I have a slight smirk on my own face from watching the other guy getting spanked.   Yeah, I can't help but grin when I see someone else get spanked.  It's hilarious!   It always has been ever since I was a kid!   But at the same time I feel humiliated standing there buck ass naked, with a bald dick seeing all those men smirking back at me, knowing they can hardly wait to see me get the punishment spanking everyone knows I deserve and the spanker promised them I was going to get! Right in front of them while THEY watch!    But it's going to get a lot more humiliating for me!   Before I get paddled, the spanker is going to make me stand there while HE masturbates me, right in front of everyone!   You see a spanking hurts a lot more after a guy c. u. m. s. !!!    He wants me to ejaculate before I get spanked, so I don't get any sexual pleasure from the spanking and it becomes pure punishment for me! No Sir!   I've been jacked off before a few other spankings and let me tell you, even a guy like me that likes being spanked, doesn't want a spanking at all anymore after he ejaculates!   It's a horrible torture!   But for me it was more than the extra pain.   I was totally humiliated as he stood in front of me and lubed up my dick and started stroking me.   It was such a personal thing to do and something someone else has rarely done to me.   In fact it's only been done by someone else, explicitly for this purpose, to make a spanking hurt more!   It's even more embarrassing to post the photos and tell the story of it here, but spanking humiliation is exactly what I deserve!   My humiliation didn't stop there.   It wasn't happening with him stroking me, so I had to finish the task myself!    I can't even describe how embarrassing it was to stroke myself right in front of everyone, knowing I was going to be spanked as soon as I was done and how much more that spanking was going to hurt after I did.   I couldn't even look at those other men staring at me while I did the deed!   More very personal and very humiliating photos:     Finally I get cleaned up and go over his knees naked and get my bottom blistered just like the naughty little boy I acted like!  Right in front of everyone!  And to my utter humiliation, that lexan paddle he used made me howl and carry on like a 5 year old for all those other men's amusement.   I glanced up a couple times while I was trying to catch my breath to see the expressions on the other men's faces.  Some were grinning with delight just I like used to do as a teen when I watched a buddy get spanked.  Others were looking in awe that I was getting spanked so hard!  But I have to admit, I deserved every exactly what I got! It was a spanking I will always remember - on many levels. Also these more recent photos of me showing my face are very exciting and humiliating to post.    They are frightening too because if a regular friend from vanilla life sees them they will know I get my bare naked bottom spanked like a naughty little boy at my age!    But on the bright side perhaps they will insist onn spanking themselves, again and again whenever they want to!   Maybe I'm actually hoping that will happen!

Several years went by since my online buddy Jordan had challenged me to do that first self spanking dare outdoors at work and he had pretty much forgotten all about it. That was until he was looking at my spanking profile pictures and saw the photos from that first dare. I was chatting with someone and had recently posted them in my profile! Link to Blog Story About Jordan's First Self Spanking Dare at Work The wheels started spinning in Jordan's devious mind and he came up with a new dare to challenge me to.  He asked again if I'd been spanked recently and since I hadn't he figured he'd try again to help me out, or more likely,  to get me caught naked outdoors at work with a red spanked ass!   Now keep in mind Jordan knows if the challenge is even the least bit reasonable, that I won't be able to resist doing what he tells me to do   Jordan really enjoys the fact that he's 25 years younger than me and he easily gets me to obey whatever he tells me to do!   I also think he knows that someday I am going to get caught naked in public with a spanked ass and it turns him on thinking about me enduring that shame and humiliation. Especially at my age!  I'm sure it turns him on even more knowing he put me in that situation!   Perhaps I blindly obey Jordan and do what he tells me to do because I know he's experienced the spanking humiliation that I crave, or perhaps it's because I love the thrill of the risk of getting caught.  Or maybe I'm actually secretly hoping to get caught and actually want to experience the humiliation Jordan experienced first hand during the actual naked public spankings he endured!   It was a few days before New Year's Eve and he called it the NUDE Years Dare! Here's what Jordan wanted me to do. I was instructed to paddle my own ass beet red. Then he wanted me to dress in just a sweater and boots of some type. I was to walk 1500 feet from my residence - I was to remove the sweater and take two photos of myself, one full frontal and one rear view. He wanted the full frontal one showing my boner if I had one, and told me I could hold a sign that said "Happy Nude Year" in front of my face to hide my identity, but he wanted these photos posted on my profile!   And he wanted a rear view showing my red butt. Now I had family visiting me at the time and I wouldn't be able to spank myself at home, so I'm not sure if it was the craziness in me or the exhibitionist in me that made me make this dare even wilder than the last dare, but I decided to just do the entire spanking outdoors! I scoped things out ahead of time and came up with a plan. A very elaborate plan that involved setting up video cameras along my planned route to capture my naked adventure as I walked naked into different areas!  There were also a lot more customers here than the last time, but I decided to push things even further than last time and did the dare at 8 am in broad daylight. Yes I decided to spank my own naked ass outdoors at work at 8am where anyone could clearly see me!  My adrenaline was really rushing this time! It was close to New Years in Chicago and although we just had a warm spell with 50 degree lows at night, the outside temperature was back down to 25 degrees farenheit that morning. I figured that soon enough the heat from the paddle smacking my bare bottom would create enough heat to keep me warm!    I found a spot that was somewhat secluded by a building and had some fencing to offer a smidgeon of privacy for that first of several spankings. I was so nervous!   I mean, I was almost naked outside at work at 8 am in broad daylight and there were people around!   I could hear cars just 100 feet away on the other side of the fence!  There were sometimes people jogging down the side of road too!  Before long though, I wouldn't be afforded that privacy as I planned to take off the thermal undershirt I had on and walk naked through an open field and spank myself at several other places along the way.    I also set up 4 video cameras earlier along the way so my adventure would be recorded to share with Jordan and my other spanking buddies! (I did worry a lot about someone coming by and taking the cameras after I went by them with video footage of me naked carrying a paddle with a red spanked ass on the memory card of the camera!  It would be perfect blackmail material to make me submit to regular spankings!)   I set out a small two step ladder to bend over for the first spanking and before I left home I made up a sign to hang around my neck.  One side of the sign said Happy Nude Year for Jordan's photo, and the other side said "Please Give Me the Real Naked Spanking I Deserve.  Paddle My Ass Long and Hard".  I guess I wasn't really hoping I would get caught, but if I did, I wanted to make sure that whoever found me walking naked in public like that knew that even I agreed that I deserved a real bare naked spanking!    That way if someone did catch me, there would be absolutely no doubt in their mind, what they should do to me!    Yeah, I wanted them to know that even I agreed that if they caught me, they should spank me right there where i was, in public and buck ass naked!     I truly believe that being spanked outdoors is incredibly humiliating.   Anyone could walk up and watch me being spanked and even if no one did wander by, I would be thinking there were dozens of people watching me get spanked bare and completely exposed! Yeah a public spanking is exactly the kind of shame I always fantasized about   It's exactly the kind of spanking humiliation I deserve!   The small 2-step ladder I bent over for the first spanking, along with the sign I made and the Jokari paddle I carried with me throughout the naked adventure.   I guess I was secretly hoping someone would catch me and use that paddle on me for real!   I started out the dare wearing Jeans and a sweatshirt.  I didn't have a sweater so I wore a thermal undershirt, and as I always did for a spanking I wore a pair of Fruit of the Loom tighty whities.  Oh and those damn boots Jordan wanted me to wear.  They were such a pain to lace and unlace as I was stripping for the beginning of the spanking dare.   I had to take them off to get my jeans off, but soon enough they'd be on for the rest of the dare!    Jordan had a reason for me to wear those boots, only I didn't know what it was yet.  Take That Sweatshirt off!   And Now the Boots     Take Those Jeans Off!   Nice Tighty Whities!  I really like these Fruit of the Loom tighty whities for a spanking.   They are too small on me and what I like best is that FTL briefs are practically see though.  I can only imagine how much the spanker looks forward to turning my bottom bright red as he looks at the "target" in those tight white briefs.     Not Just Down, All the Way Off!        Undies Too!   Spankings Are Bare Bottom!      All the Way Down and Off!     Now Put Those Boots Back On! Jordan had a reason for me to have those boots on.  I just didn't know what it was.  But I would find out later!   Continued in Part 2  - The Spanking

I wanted to reiterate how valuable the second episode of the "Middle Life Crisis" podcast was. Be sure to listen to the whole thing for context. But short of that, we hope this blogpost will help explain a mission-critical piece of the puzzle when working with "middles."    "I want everyone to know how freeing it is... the events help you realize how many people support you... there's more people, and they're all in the same place... and you're part of something... you are not alone."   --zander/jj in Episode 2 of Middle Life Crisis   Please comment below or email us with your ideas aok4otk@aol.com or cornertimeconf@gmail.com ______________________________________ Follow Cornertime Confidential Wherever You Are: Tumblr  ∙  SouthSpanking ∙  Twitter  ∙  WordPress

    I guess I've always enjoyed naked dares.  Thinking back to the my younger years my friends and I were always challenging each other where the loser would get naked and have to do a dare or get spanked.    The spankings weren't really a true spanking but more of a few slaps on the bare ass, but the dares usually involved standing in front of a window naked or going outside and running around the yard naked or something like that.   The outdoor dares were usually when a group of us would have a "sleepover".   It was at night, although it was in an suburban area and the street lights made it a lot brighter than we thought.  Indoors or out, we loved getting naked with each other and challenging each other to naked dares!   This first naked dare as an adult, involved my online spanking friend Jordan.    I've mentioned Jordan in some of the previous posts in my blog.   But for those that haven't read about him, Jordan is the one that talked me into getting my first real spanking at age 47.   Jordan got spanked by his own dad in the most humiliating ways.   Always in front of his younger brothers, and sometimes in front of his brother's friends or even his own friends if he misbehaved when they were around. He always had to strip buck ass naked when he got spanked, and that was especially humiliating when there was an audience there to see it.   He started getting boners during his spankings too, so that made it even more humiliating!   Getting a boner during a spanking was my biggest fear and is what made me behave so well to avoid a spanking!   So Jordan completely understands spanking humiliation and he really feels I need to experience it.  I do too, as the humiliation of a spanking is what turns me on the most about it.   I was never spanked until I was 47 years old but truly enjoyed watching all of my friends get spanked.   I witnessed a lot of spankings and always fantasized about being spanked bare in public.  When my friends got spanked in front of me, I always wondered how they felt,  getting a humiliating bare ass spanking right in front of my smirking face.   I really tried not to grin and smirk but I couldn't help it.  It was hilarious and I enjoyed seeing them get spanked a lot!   Perhaps it's because I know Jordan has personally experienced the public spanking humiliation that I crave, but  somehow whenever he gives me a challenge involving being spanked or being naked in a somewhat public setting, I can't resist following through with his challenges.     So Jordan asked me one night if I'd been spanked recently and when I told him no, he challenged me to a self spanking dare.   Now ever since I got that first real spanking, self spankings didn't really do much for me.   But this was more than a just another self spanking.  It was much more about the risk of getting caught naked outdoors in a public place with a red spanked ass!   What Jordan said he wanted me to do, was spank my own ass, then go outside wearing only a longer tee shirt and shoes and take a few pictures of myself.  Now you might think that's not so daring but I lived at work at the time, and there was a street light right outside my residence.    If someone saw me I wouldn't only endure the humiliation of getting caught naked outside, but they would also know that I must like getting spanked!   I was alone at home so I got naked and then I used the birthday spanking paddle that I posted about earlier and I spanked my own ass good and hard! That paddle really stings!    It's solid maple so it's dense.   Spanking myself inside per Jordan's instructions.   Just before going outside.   After spanking myself,  I put the t-shirt and shoes on.  It was about 3 am and as far as I knew there was only one customer on the property, so I went into the darkened living room and peered through the glass on the front door looking to see if anyone was outside.   The moment of truth had come!    I slowly opened the front door and went outside onto the porch.    I brought my camera with me and set it up on a tripod, then stood in the lawn, and using a remote shutter release, I took the photos Jordan wanted me to take.   He told me to write on a piece of paper "For Jordan" and the date to prove I did it that night and didn't use an older naked picture of myself.   Outside with the t-shirt on.   It was totally exhilarating going outside pantsless with a red spanked ass.   I don't know what it was but I wanted to take Jordan's dare even further.  Maybe it was the exhibitionist in me but I wanted to be outside longer and I wanted to be naked!  Maybe I even wanted to get caught!  I decided to grab the paddle and my camera and walk just the way I was, much further from my residence!     So with just the t-shirt and shoes on,  I walked about 700 feet away from where I lived with my pants and underwear left behind!     With the street light in front, it may as well have been daylight!  When I got out of the illumination of the street light I took the t-shirt off too, leaving myself naked except for the shoes.   Yeah I was naked outside at work!    I'd been naked outside before, but it was in a private location, not at work.   I'm not sure if it was more from the thrill or from the exposure, but it was really exciting! And my ass was paddled bright red!   I put my shirt inside the bag that my camera and the paddle were in, and found an area that was another 800 ft away where I could set the camera on something and get some more pictures.   I was now 1500 feet (more than 1/4 mile or about 2 city blocks) away from my pants and I was buck ass naked outside at work!   If someone caught me, I didn't even have any pants to put on! I set the camera on a flat object then took out the paddle and gave myself another 20 swats outdoors in a public place!  It would have really been humiliating to get caught naked, spanking my own ass outside at work.   It was a very rural area, and I don't know if you're familiar with the way sound travels outside at night in the country but that paddle smacking my bare ass sounded like a gunshot in the still night air!  If anyone was around they would have heard the spanking.  I don't know about you, but I am very in tune with the sounds of a spanking and would immediately know what was happening.    Just to give you an idea, one night we heard some noises like someone pounding on metal.   To make a long story short, the noise ended up coming from someone working on a demolition derby car about a mile and a half away.   So likewise, the sound of that paddle smacking my ass could probably be heard over a mile away too!   If someone was out there, and the sound of the paddle didn't attract their attention, when I took some more pictures of my naked red ass, the flash going off in the complete darkness certainly would have! Dare completed.    Now to get back inside without getting caught!

Continuing with the theme about a spanking with the razor strop, here's some more still images from a video that I posted earlier.   I was spanked with many different types of straps that day but these images are of the razor strop being used on me.       It definitely adds to the fear and feeling of vulnerability to be tied down and helpless to resist and having no idea how long I'm going to get spanked.     

I know boys feared the old fashioned razor strop growing up but but after getting spanked with one for the first time as an adult, it wasn't as brutal as I always thought.  Sure it stung and did it's job, but it wasn't as heavy as other straps I'd been spanked with. I guess I'd describe it as effective but not brutal.  I do have to admit though, that it did make my dick hard whenever I went to the barber shop and saw them hanging there on the barber's chairs. Both as a kid and as an adult seeing that leather strap hanging from the chair just made me think about the barber giving me a spanking right there in front of all the other customers!   I'd envision what it must have been like growing up in the days of old where the razor strop prominently hung in every home. They were probably used as much for disciplinary purposes as they were for sharpening a razor.   Here's some photos from my first taste of the razor strop.  It had a canvas strap attached to the leather one, which added to the crack sound as it connected with my bare bottom.      Growing up my cousins would get spanked with a short length of rubber hose.  The hose was always hanging by the back door to remind us kids to behave when we went out to play.   I returned to visit my aunt and uncle in my mid thirties and the first thing I did when entering the house was look and see if the rubber hose was still there.   It was gone!   But there was a razor strop hanging there instead!  Now the only reason for there to be a razor strop hanging by the back door was for spanking!   Either the new razor strop was for the grandkids or my aunt and uncle were spankos and they spanked each other with it!    When I was shopping for a house out here in Tennessee about 5 years ago I was looking at larger properties with barns on them.   In the back of my mind I was thinking "The South" and "Southern Discipline".  I got a major boner when I was walking through one of the barns and found an old razor strop hanging on the bars of a window in a horse stall!   Now I can't think of any reason for a razor strop to be hanging in a horse barn except for whoopin' ass!   The red circle showing the razor strop hanging from the bars of the window!   Most likely some young man was brought out to that barn to get his ass whooped!   And it was most likely done on a regular basis since that razor strop was kept out there!   I can only imagine what he told his friends when they asked what it was for, or perhaps they all knew exactly what it was for, from personal experience!   I'd love for a spanker to make me take a naked walk of shame out to the barn on my property and take a strap or belt to my ass some day!   I get a boner every time I think about it. I imagine being stripped naked in the house and being marched bare across the pasture out to the barn with strap or belt in hand!   Perhaps the spanker would march me grabbing me by the ear to make sure I don't walk too fast prolonging my shame and humiliation!   Or perhaps he'd hold the strap or belt lashing my bare bottom along the way!    I'd certainly be wondering if any of the neighbors were watching!   The barn on my property.   I'd love to be made to take a naked walk of shame to the barn for a spanking!  The inside of my barn.   Lots of places to secure me for a good hard ass strapping! Here's a link to a short video clip of this razor strapping. https://southspanking.com/groups/video/play/12571/strapped-on-the-bed-with-a-razor-strop/

Laying on the bed for a spanking with a stack of pillows under my hips makes me feel so vulnerable and exposed.   It also makes me feel like I'm "offering" my bottom to be spanked.  Sticking it out there as if I'm begging for the spanking!  It's also an ideal position for a belt spanking or strapping.  The belt or strap can come down hard with great accuracy.                                           -----------------------------------   Positioned over a stack of pillows with my dick and balls pulled back between my wide spread legs, making me feel even more vulnerable and exposed.  The spanker can walk around to both sides of the bed.  The folded over end of a belt or tip of a strap is what stings the most.  This way he can make sure I feel the full effect on both of my butt cheeks.   My shame can be increased even more if I'm ordered to reach back and spread my cheeks wide apart exposing my crack and hole to view! The musky scent of my butt crack will fill the room adding to my humiliation reminding me just how exposed I am.  Bare bottom raised up over a couple pillows feeling the effects of a tawse for the first time. Having never been spanked with leather,  I was always terrified of belts and straps. I always thought back to my friends telling me how horrible "the belt" was and remembered seeing belt whippings in movies and hearing the belt or a strap whistle through the air and connect with bare skin with a resounding crack!    I always feared they would tear my ass to shreds.  Not only did I feel several leather straps that day but I also got a taste of a rubber strap. When he spanked me with that rubber strap, I wasn't sure what it was, but it stung more than anything I'd felt!   I thought for sure my ass was all torn up, but when he finished, my ass was just deep red and very sore.   Those leather and rubber straps became my favorite implements to get spanked with. Compared to a paddle, they were resilient enough not to do any real damage, so I could be spanked with one a lot longer. The sting was incredible and they sounded so wicked when they cracked down on my bare bottom! Imagine my shame when the spanker actually told me, "Stick that ass up in the air and show me how much you want it!" Well, that's exactly what I did!    As humiliating as it was to willingly stick my own bottom out like that, I obediently presented it to him,  offering it for the spanking!  Yeah my bare naked bottom was just begging for a spanking and he was determined to spank it red hot!   Even though I'm already totally naked for the spanking, it's even more embarrassing when my disciplinarian reaches between my wide spread legs and grabs my dick and balls.   Not only does it remind me how exposed I am, but it reminds me that every part of me is subject to his inspection and that I am under his control and submitting to his authority! Watch for a Video Clip of me spanked on the bed ass up over pillows with a paddle.     Find all my blog posts here: https://southspanking.com/groups/need2botk/adblog/

Got this from a reader and thought we'd share with y'all.  We think Rules should be easy to follow and clear. Reading what this adult boy is required to do in The Corner, we think we'd never get out of there! What do you think about making Rules for your boys? Do you find them a helpful tool for further punishment? Do you find they are a deterrent? When they are this complex, do you find they work? We'd love to know your thoughts about incorporating Rules into your Domestic Discipline routine. Share what you know works!   Please comment below or email us with your ideas aok4otk@aol.com or cornertimeconf@gmail.com ______________________________________ Follow Cornertime Confidential Wherever You Are: Tumblr  ∙  SouthSpanking ∙  Twitter  ∙  WordPress

These are some pictures of me during a self spanking near age 39.   At the time I hadn't been spanked for real yet,  so I self spanked to try to see what a spanking might feel like.  If only I'd been spanked growing up I might not be so curious to feel the sting of a spanking.  I would look a photos in spanking magazines and simulate the scenarios in the pictorials.  I guess there was a series of photos about guys spanked in jockstraps.   In these photos, I'm in the actual jockstrap I wore in school in school in grades 6 through 12. It's old and yellowed now, but hey, it's 50 years old.  I'm surprised it's not falling apart!   I remember when I first got it.  My mother handed it to me along with the rest of the new "gym uniform".  It would be the same gym uniform we took with us to high school.  Nothing more was said about it, and I guess we were supposed to figure out how to put it on.   It was so embarassing thinking about wearing it in school!    It was also the first time we had to change in a locker room and take showers after class.  Yeah we had to all get naked after class and get into a big group shower with each other!   We were all kind of freaked out about it, but we had no choice.   If we tried skipping the shower we got paddled and sent in to shower with our bare red asses on display for everyone to tease us about!   I was shy about getting undressed in front of my friends but we all had to do it. After we saw what happened to a few guys that tried to avoid it, the rest of us learned quickly to do as we were told!   Most of us were a little nervous, but I was more nervous than others because of how easily I got a boner.  Thinking about spanking or even thinking about being naked in front of others made my dick hard, even back then!    However none of us could figure out the reason we had to wear that rediculous looking jockstrap!  They told us it was to protect our genitals and keep them from flopping around and getting injured. But it didn't make any sense. What turned me on so much about the jockstraps is they left my friends asses all exposed!   The same asses that got spanked so often. Not just exposed but it was like the jockstraps framed their asses, presenting them for view!   Or for the paddle!    Random jock inspections were done by the PE teacher.   Everyone had to stand in a line and pull down the waistband of their gym shorts to prove that they had a jockstrap on.     It was a required piece of the school gym uniform and failure to wear one resulted in a paddling in front of the class!  I was thankful to have the jockstrap on during gym class as it helped conceal my boner when I watched a classmate get paddled. While I prefer the complete and total exposure of a naked spanking, the jock strap does frame a guy's ass nicely, making a target for the paddle.   I do like when the jock is removed after a spanking and a couple white lines of skin show where the elastic straps covered the skin during a spanking. However,  I really don't believe a guy should be afforded the modesty of wearing a jock strap during a spanking.   A spanking is much more effective when he's buck ass naked and his dick and balls are exposed adding to his shame and humiliation.  As shown in the photos above the dick and balls can even be pulled out of the pouch to make the jockstrap look more rediculous!   It really emphasizes what little use it really is! I had never been spanked at that time and I was so desparate for a spanking that I shamefully admit I even spanked myself.   In fact I went as far as simulating a spanker's lap by taking a pair of my jeans and stuffing the legs with blankets to make them firm like another's guy's legs were in them.   I tied a board to a chair to support the stuffed leg of the pants and then laid over the stuffed pants to make it feel like I was bent over someone's knees while I reached back and paddled myself.   The legs of the pants were firm, just like a real person's legs might be, and I rubbed my boner against the stuffed jeans as I spanked myself, humping the legs I often imagined myself rubbing the leg of the spanker with my boner as I was bucking and squirming from the sting of the spanking.  Just imagine the shame I would have endured if I had a real spanking and ejculated while I was being spanked!   That would have been the ultimate humiliation!  I often fantasize about doing just that if I ever got spanked for real.  Especially if one of my own friends were spanking me!  I'm sure I would have never heard the end of it!  Eventually I imagine the spanking would continue without the jockstrap on - buck ass naked! I often imagined the humiliation I would have felt if one of my friends caught me paddling my own ass!    I'm sure they would have offered to give me a real spanking.   But I didn't get one until about eight years later!  Yes I still have that jockstrap I wore in high school in 1972!  Perhaps someday, someone will give me a spanking in it!

Please feel free to comment or add to this discussion.  Also, obviously corner time does not appeal to all dads/top’s boys/subs, it is very subjective.  I personally do not enjoy it, but then I am not supposed to either as it is a punishment for me.   Discipline:   It is a method of discipline that can be used with a spanking or on its own merit.     The humbling Effect   It makes a naughty boy feel very humbled.     More Spanking   It can be used simply as a break for the boy and his dad before back over the knee he goes.     Forcing to reflect   It can be a time for the naughty boy to reflect on his behavior.     Checking the spanking redness   It can be a time for dad to study his handy-work as it were.

This spanking in the pillory happened just a few days before my birthday so at the end I was told I was going to get a birthday spanking.   I had never actually had a real birthday spanking before.   The spanker had just bought an antique school teacher's chair.   We both wondered how many teens in the 1950's got bent over their teacher's knees and got spanked in that chair in front of the entire class.   So he decided that he was going to take a seat on that very chair and pull me over his knees in my birthday suit for a birthday spanking and spank me with my birthday spanking paddle!   I had crafted quite a few paddles by that time but here's the story about the making of the Birthday Spanking Paddle.   The birthday spanking paddle that I crafted one night in the company workshop.   Made from a piece of solid maple 1x4, this paddle really stings more than you can imagine!  Maple is an excellent wood to use for a spanking paddle.  It's dense and really stings a guy's ass!   This paddle is not too short and not too long so it can be used standing,  bent over an object, or for a childish over the knee spanking.           The Making of a Spanking Paddle Starting out with a plain Maple 1"x4" board.    Running the board through a planer to reduce the thickness down to 9/16th's of an inch.  If it's too thick it will bruise.  If it's too thin it won't hurt enough.    Cutting the shape out.  Now it's starting to look like a spanking paddle!    Sanding down the edges. My ass is starting to twitch thinking about how it's going to be used on me!     It's ready to be stained and varnished to a polished finish.     Nude in the company workshop testing it out on my bare bottom!  How would I have explained it if a coworker walked in on me and caught me spanking my own naked ass?     The Birthday Spanking Paddle Complete.  Ready to dish out Birthday Spanking or blister a naughy boy's bottom for any other reason!   It really does sting something fierce!   This is really one of the best/worst paddles I made depending on whose point of view you're looking at it from!    I was completely naked in the company workshop that night making a spanking paddle. The building was along a county highway. I wondered if anyone was looking in at me through the windows.    My coworkers were not likely to come by but they could have.  If they did, it would have been really embarrassing to have them catch me naked making a spanking paddle! Especially if they saw me trying it out on myself!  Even I admit, if I got caught I deserved whatever spanking anyone decided to give me!  Maybe I was trying subconscously trying to get caught hoping someone would put that paddle to good use - good use on me!  I made this paddle around the time of my birthday and named it the Birthday Spanking Paddle.  I made it for a birthday self spanking I was about to do online.   I had several other paddles and paddled myself with one of the other paddles the number of birthday swats and then this paddle the same number of swats. Then I spanked myself with one of my other paddles and then the birthday paddle and so on until I ran out of paddles, comparing the sting of the "birthday paddle" to each of the other paddles.    Now it was going to be put to use giving me a real birthday spanking!        The antique School Teacher's Chair I was going to get spanked on.   The spanker and I talked about that chair many times before the spanking and I knew I was supposed to get a birthday spanking on that chair.   I couldn't help but think about all the times I should have been spanked in school when I was a teen!   I knew he bought the chair specifically to sit on and put a boy like me over his knees and give him a spanking.  I definitely deserved a spanking back when I was in school and my friends really wanted to see me get one but somehow I always managed to weasle my way out of spankings and never actually got one!     It was time!  The spanker sat down in that antique school teacher's chair and pulled me over his knees. He was wearing shorts so I was embarrassed as my smooth shaved crotch rubbed against his bare leg.   I didn't get to think about it long though, as that paddle really stung my bare smooth bottom.     He used the birthday spanking paddle to give me my first real birthday spanking.   The other guy was right there encouraging the entire thing and taking photos.   I finally got a real birthday spanking like so many of my friends had experienced,   and wanted to give me.  It was long overdue!    After the birthday spanking was over he grabbed a bathbrush and gave me another spanking!   Just for the fun of it!  I was already sore from being spanked in the pillory and from the brithday spanking, but I got another spanking just because he wanted to give me one.       Watch for a couple short video clips once they get uploaded and approved.  The spanker didn't let me bring a video camera with but the other guy being spanked used the video function of my still camera to get a few short video clips of me getting spanked.  It was a pleasant surprise when I got home and was going through the photos and found them!   One in the pillory and one of the birthday spanking.   Link to the previous part in this series: https://southspanking.com/groups/adblog/863/a-shaving-and-spanking-in-bondage-part-2-spanked-in-a-pillory/ Link to my other blog posts: https://southspanking.com/groups/need2botk/adblog/

Locked in the Pillory: A totally naked spanking completely restrained and out of my control!  I looked at it in the distance, so ominous and yet at the same time it turned me on! The pillory waiting to hold my neck, wrists and ankles, completely immobilizing me, for the punishment spanking that awaited me!    Also pulled out was a spanking bench that the spanker designed from a piece of spanking artwork by Copper.   (Part 1 of this episode can be found here:) https://southspanking.com/groups/adblog/862/a-shaving-spanking-in-bondage-part-1-losing-my-man-hair/ It was both exciting and terrifying thinking about being restrained for a spanking, completely at the mercy of the spanker, unable to get up or move my bottom out of the way of his paddle or strap!   There's just something incredibly arousing, knowing i'm going to be spanked and I will be completely helpless to avoid any part of the spanking I have coming.   The pillory I was about to be locked down in, totally naked with my crotch and bottom shaved bald to complete my shame and humiliation.  It was ominously standing there waiting for my naked ass!  The spanking bench designed from the Copper drawing on the left had pillory like ankle and wrist restraints and leather straps to bind the thighs and back to the bench to prevent any movement or squirming.  Like the pillory, once restrained on the bench you were at the complete mercy of the spanker.   A drawing of a young man being switched at the end of the cart's tail.   In colonial times a young man was sometimes punished naked at the end of the cart's tail and strapped or switched as the cart was slowly drawn through the streets of the town for everyone to see!   Tied to the cart and spanked on the bare bottom like a naughty little boy front of everyone for maximum humiliation!  Public humiliation and naked display was a major part of the punishment in days gone by. Me getting spanked now in the pillory was a similar humiliation.  True there was only one other guy there, but it was still humiliating being spanked in front of someone else.   I had been spanked once before along with this spanker but this was the first time I was spanked in bondage, and there was someone else was there to see it happen!  Considering all the times I enjoyed watching my friends get spanked, I definitely deserved to have someone else watch me get this spanking!  And not just watch it but enjoy it!   I had always been turned on by the idea of naked public spanking and the pillory made me think about punishments in colonial times where a person was locked in stocks or a pillory for public ridicule and punishment.   While I read that usually a man or woman was usually restrained with their shirt off for a whipping on their back, I also read that young adults could be secured naked to a pillory for a public spanking!   Yes a young adult could be spanked like a naughty little boy, just to humiliate him,  and it could happen in public! Similarly I read that a young man could also be tied naked to end of the "cart's tail" and slowly pulled through town being spanked with a strap or switch being made a spectacle of for the entire town's amusement!   Stories like that always made my dick hard just thinking about the total humiliation of being publicly spanked in front of your friends, neighbors and even your enemies.   All of them thoroughly enjoying your humiliation!  I always enjoyed visitng colonial towns and seeing the pillories standing in the town square.  I would imagine what it might be like to be locked in a pillory naked, completely exposed and then spanked for everyone in town to see!   I often imagined myself in such a situation and here I was!  Totally naked and about to be secured into a pillory myself for a spanking!    I didn't get to daydream too long before the wrist and ankle restraints were being separated and I was ordered to step into them.   It felt very weird!   Scary but exciting at the same time.   After I got locked into the pillory, the other guy was restrained to the spanking bench.  At first it was just my wrists and ankles put into the restraints and then the spanking started.   The feeling of helplessness was pretty incredible.  I was more willing to be restrained for the spanking knowing the other guy was there getting spanked too, but I didn't know he was also going to be restrained at the same time and would be unable to help me if things went wrong!   But it was too late, we were both naked, in bondage and at the complete mercy of this spanker! With my head not locked down, I was able to look at my freshly shaved crotch and realized how much the spanker must have enjoyed the fact that he personally removed all my "man hair" making a grown adult look like a hairless little boy for his spanking.   I thought about the view he had of my baby smooth bottom too, and how easily it was going to turn bright red before his eyes without the forest of hairs obscuring his view!  A couple of times I felt my dick starting to get hard thinking about the situation I was in!  It's truly humiliating when your dick is shaved bald!    Everyone's attention is drawn to your hairless crotch - especially when the rest of you is so hairy!   It's more than obvious that my "man hair" was removed as part of my punishment.   You act like a boy - you get made to look like a boy - and you get spanked like a boy!   Even if no one else was thinking that, it didn't matter.   I thought they did and it put me in the mindset of being punished like a naughty boy! Me in the pillory, the other guy on the spanking bench.   We could see each other's faces and he could see my shaved crotch but we couldn't see how red each other's bottoms were getting. That changed though a little later,  as he got released and got to spank me himself!    It's always embarrassing when a spanker slaps, grabs, squeezes and feels your bare bottom with his hand during a spanking.   The wrist section of the pillory was opened up again and I was instructed to put my neck in the large opening.    It was closed up again causing me to bend over a bit more.    What would have really made his pillory a lot more effective is if the wrist and neck boards could be height adjusted for different body heights to make a shorter person like me bend at the waist more and make my bottom stick out more for the spanking.   Likewise a wider leg stance would have made it more exposing.   The odd part about the whole thing is that he didn't even conceal the pillory.  It was in plain view in his business.   He was involved with a municipal Halloween event and they used the pillory as a photo op for the event.  He probably made it and stored it so no one in town thought twice about it.  When customers or business associates asked about it I'm sure that's what he told them and they never thought anything more about it!   Little did they know men like me were being restrained in it naked and were being spanked right there under everyone's noses!    My neck also restrained in the pillory.  Now I'm even helpless to look behind me.  While restrained like this I couldn't help but think about my fantasy/nightmare of being given a public spanking in a pillory in a town square!   Naked, completely exposed and totally helpless!   Everyone having a clear view of my shaved crotch, my face and my red spanked bottom.  Everyone laughing as my bottom was lit on fire with a paddle or strap and encouraging whoever was punishing me to spank me longer and harder!   In a public setting, after the spanking I would be left on display like this for everyone to walk up and touch and tease me and give my sore red bottom some additional smacks.   Just like in my fantasies of the townspeople being able to come up and spank me, the other guy that was being spanked, was released from the spanking bench and is allowed to spank me himself!  There was absolutely nothing that I could have done to stop him.   I was naked and helpless!    Continued in Part 3:   Let Out of the Pillory & Given an Over the Knee Birthday Spanking https://southspanking.com/groups/adblog/864/a-shaving-and-spanking-in-bondage-part-3-after-the-pillory-i-get-an-otk-bir/ See all my blogs here: https://southspanking.com/groups/need2botk/adblog/

The Electric Clippers: I previously told the story about how I found a couple male shaving videos and shaved my own pubes and ass.   https://southspanking.com/groups/adblog/861/my-first-naked-selfies/ Well I shaved myself a couple times actually  and I hadn't had a real spanking yet at that time.  About 12 years had gone by since that first shaving after I found the Shaving videos in the adult store.   I had several spankings but what I also didn't realize yet, was just how eager spankers were to shave me.   I also told everyone here the story about my "Near Bondage Experience" where a spanker took all my clothes and car keys and hid them until after my spanking was over. .  It was like being in bondage without actually being restrained.     https://southspanking.com/groups/adblog/857/a-near-bondage-experience/ Well the next time I met with that spanker, he did spank me in bondage and shaved my pubes and hairy bottom first.   Adding to my humiliation, there was another guy there getting spanked along with me and he used my camera to take pictures while I was getting shaved and during part of my spanking.     A photo taken of me right before I lost my pubes!   Another one of those face pictures, buck ass naked, head to toe, like my online buddy Jordan wanted me to post on my profile!    I have to admit it gives me a boner thinking about being exposed like this online!   If someone I know sees this and recognizes me, they should strip me and give me the naked spankings I deserve.  And I hope they really enjoy turning my ass raw red!   Let the punishment fit the crime.  Naked pictures posted equals naked punishment.  In fact I deserve to be spanked on webcam for everyone to see!   We were both ordered to strip.  Everything off!   Buck ass naked!  The other guy getting spanked was about half my age (in his twenties) and already had a smooth shaven crotch.  I had never seen anyone shaved like that before in person.   While it's common for young guys to shave themselves today, for someone like me, it's a humiliating thing to lose your pubic hair.   I'm sure both of them were thinking how satisfying it was going to be to reduce this old man to the status of a hairless little boy and then spank him like one too! ​ I was ordered to lay on a table and an electric clipper was run through my pubes quickly leaving a pile of my curly hairs laying on the table.  Adding even more to my shame, my dick was starting to get hard!   I was even more humiliated when he grabbed my dick to hold it out of the way to shave my balls!    ​A pile of my pubes laying on the table!   ​ I was quickly looking like more and more like a prepubescent boy and I was soon going to get spanked like one too!   ​ After the trimmer reduced my pubes to a stubble, I was flipped over and the trimmer was run across my hairy ass.   ​  I was even more embarrassed as he spread my crack apart and ran the trimmer between my cheeks.  Yeah every part of me was exposed and available to their view and touch!     ​  Before long, the hair on my bottom and back of my balls were also reduced to that of a stubble.     ​LATHERED UP AND MADE BABY SMOOTH: While I was bottom up on the table, I was lathered up with shaving cream and a Norelco Body Groomer was used to remove the stubble.   I felt so vulnerable as he rubbed the slippery shaving cream all over my bottom and deep into my butt crack!       I was ordered to spread my knees and stick my bottom up in the air so the stubble in my crack, around my hole, and on the back of my balls could be removed with the electric shaver.   I could only think of the view they had of me and how much they were enjoying reducing me to the state of a hairless little boy.   Even my butt hole was exposed!    All hairless and smooth, just waiting to be wiped down.   My bottom, smooth as a baby's behind!   All wiped down.   It's time to flip me over and lather up the other side!     It was so embarrassing having him grab my dick and balls and rub the silky shaving cream all over my crotch   The shaver is run over my dick, my balls and all around my crotch. I couldn't help it, I was starting to get a boner!   My face was turning as red as was ass was going to be!     ​I was totally humiliated!   Yeah I was getting a boner!   My dick wasn't lying - it was telling them I was turned on by being shaved and thinking about the spanking I was going to get!          I was told to pull my legs back so they could get a look at my hairless hole!   After looking at the pictures, I noticed just how much more obvious a guy's boner and hole are when they are shaved.   Below are a couple pictures of me with hair and without.   Attention is drawn directly to the dick and the hole when they are shaved.      Just out of curiosity, I recently asked a couple of spankers why they like shaving someone so much.   It basically comes down to the fact that a grown adult is being reduced to the state of a prepubescent boy.  Act like a boy, be made to look like a boy and get spanked like a boy! The spankers also realize the shaving makes the punishment last for weeks and they hope that someone else sees you in that embarrassing hairless state adding even more to your shame and humiliation.   From my own perspective, it also puts me in the mindset of a boy.  A boy that gets spanked when he misbehaves!  It's also humiliating to have someone else decide to take away a symbol of my masculinity and add to my punishment by making me look and feel like a mere boy.   It's especially humiliating if other men see me like that, and makes me feel even more self conscious when using the urinals in a public bathroom after I've been shaved.  Also as stated in the two picture sets above, whenever I see a guy shaved, my eyes keep getting drawn back to his smooth dick and balls  and to his butt hole.  It makes both areas so much more obvious and calls attention to the fact of just how naked and exposed he is!  You hardly even notice a guy's hole in a forest of hair, but when his crack is shaved, it just makes his hole jump out!    And add a red bottom to that and the humiliation just goes up tenfold!  For me, it also acknowledges the fact that I'm submitting to the spanker's authority and have no say so in how I get punished.   I'm actually agreeing that even though I'm a grown man, I deserve to look, feel and get spanked like a naughty little boy!     I admit the silky smooth feeling is great for about a day or two, but as the hairs grow back, the stiff short hairs are itchy and prickly.   The first time I shaved myself I worked at a desk job and it didn't bother me that much.   This time I did a lot of walking at work, and the itching and chaffing were a punishment in itself.  It did remind me of the consequences of my behavior for 6 weeks, long after the sting of the spanking was gone.    After a couple of days the hairs around my dick started growing back, then a couple weeks later when they were long enough to stop scratching, the hairs on my ass started growing back.   That new discomfort lasted a couple more weeks, and then the hairs in my crack started growing again.   Each different area started a new itching and chaffing ordeal.   For me the itching and chaffing was a punishment much worse than the spanking.   After a spanking my bottom is feeling somewhat normal after a few hours and the discomfort when I sit is gone in a few days, but the itching and chaffing start when the sting subsides and reminds me of the fact that I got spanked, for weeks!   Check out this link to a satirical article about shaving your ass hair.   When I first read this I thought it was someone trying to be funny, but from personal experience I now know everything he says is true!   Like when he talks about being unable to fart silently because your butt cheeks are stuck together without the hair in your crack!  Like the article is titled, "Don't Shave That Hair!"   ​https://www.craigslist.org/about/best/lax/35274458.html​​​   Continued in Part 2 - Locked in a Pillory and Spanked https://southspanking.com/groups/adblog/863/a-shaving-and-spanking-in-bondage-part-2-spanked-in-a-pillory/   See all my blogs here: https://southspanking.com/groups/need2botk/adblog/

From the 1990's - My First Naked Selfies I ran across scans of my first naked selfies the other day. These were taken before the phrase selfies and before the era of digital cameras.  There were two choices back then, (1) take the pictures and if you didn't have your own darkroom, send the film in to be developed. The lab might censor your pics and not print them.Whether they printed them or not you risked the chance the lab technician would have your name and address along with copies of your naked photos.  Or (2) use a Polaroid camera.     I had an old Polaroid Camera (no self timer) with black and white film, so I set up some mirrors and took these pictures.   Me with a homemade spanking paddle.   With the Polaroid camera, you snapped the picture, and pulled the print out of the camera.  The print went between some rollers that squeezed developer out onto the photo paper.   You counted to 30 seconds and then peeled the print away from the developer.    And there you had an instant photograph!   It was great for things like naked photos that you didn't want to send to the photo lab.  What inspired these photos was a trip where I found some videos in an adult store. Whenever I traveled, I looked for stores that might carry male spanking videos and magazines.   I came home with 3 or 4 videos that trip.   One video was called Razor's Edge 2.   It was about an employer that punished a shipping clerk by shaving his ass and pubes and then spanking him. The guy in the video wasn't really wasn't all that hairy, not as hairy as I was anyway, but the idea of someone shaving my dick and ass bald to make me look and feel like a little kid and then spanking me like one to humiliate me, really turned me on!     Scenes From the Video  "Razor's Edge 2"   I often fantasized about enduring the humiliation of my own boss spanking me bare in front of all my coworkers, but now after seeing this video, thinking about being shaved before the spanking made it even more humiliating!    I never really thought about shaving as a punishment before, but there was something totally humiliating about having your "man hair" forcibly removed! As a teen a guy was always so proud of that hair as it grew in, and thinking about someone reducing me to the state of a hairless little boy again just seemed like a horrible punishment. Adding to the humiliation of the forced hair removal were stories I heard in college of sports team initiations where a guy was grabbed and had Nair smeared all over his crotch before being thrown in the showers to watch his precious hair wash down the drain. What also came to mind was the hazing scene in the movie "Youngblood" where Rob Lowe is shaved during a hazing scene on a hockey team. Yeah it was definitely humiliating to have someone else forcibly remove your "man hair"! However I think the biggest humiliation is seeing the grins and smirks on the faces of the guys inflicting the humiliation and realizing just how much they're enjoying your shame! Hazing Scene From the Movie "Youngblood"  The team is definitely enjoying shaving Rob Lowe's pubes just like I'm sure my friends would have enjoyed stripping, shaving and spanking me!  A close up from one of the photos above.    The grins on his teammates faces just makes the humilation both complete and sweet as Rob Lowe loses his pubes! I was out of town on a business trip when I found the shaving/spanking videos.   There was no VCR in the hotel room so I looked at the boxes and fantasied about what it would be like if someone shaved me before giving me a spanking!  It definitely made my dick hard thinking about it!  I decided I was going to shave my own pubes and ass when I got home to see what it felt like to have a bald dick.   The anticipation was pretty intense!   When I got home, I watched the first video Razor's Edge where the young man gets shaved and spanked by his boss, and have to admit I got rock hard thinking about my own boss spanking me and shaving me to add to my humiliation!   Only in my fantasies I imagined my boss shaving and spanking me in front of all my coworkers to make it even more humiliating!   After I watched that video and the other one titled "Shave Your Booty", I definitely had to try shaving my own dick and booty until they were as bald as a baby's bottom! I  admit, it felt pretty incredible, especially how smooth it felt when I jacked off!     Yeah it would have been so embarrassing if someone saw me without any hair down there!  These are some photos from the first time my pubes were shaved.   A shaved crotch really does call much more attention to a guy's dick.     Especially if you have a boner, a hairless crotch just calls attention to it and makes your boner even more noticeable!     My bare hairless heinie just begging for a spanking!   Several years later when I started to get real spankings, I can't tell you how many spankers wanted to shave me during a spanking!  They often said that if I was going to act like a little boy and need to be spanked like a little boy, that I should look like a little boy too!  The idea of losing my hair, and being exposed like that in front of an audience,  definitely adds to the humiliation and shame of a spanking, and for me, that in itself is the biggest turnon to a spanking. No matter what the reason, I also have to admit that having a smooth shaved crotch and bottom, also puts me in the mindset of being nothing more than a naughty little boy.  And naughty little boys get spanked!               I've always been turned on by the thought of a friend finding my spanking and bondage toys and putting them to good use.  Perhaps that's why even back in the 1990's I wrote on some of these Polaroid pictures describing a couple of my fantasies, perhaps secretly hoping a friend would find the pictures and force me to endure the fantasies I described.   Similarly I think I created this blog secretly hoping that someone that knows me will see it now, and give me the humiliating spankings I've always fantasized about!   While one part of me wants to keep my fantasies a secret, another part of me gets incredibly turned on at the thought that someone will find out.  And if they do, I hope they will strip me naked and make some of the scenarios depicted in the posts in my blog a reality.    Below are a couple of the fantasies that I wrote out on those pictures 30 years ago with a Sharpie marker.   This was before digital scanners and digital photographs so creating these photos wasn't to post them online!   I had to  be hoping some friends would find the actual humiliating photos of myself and in a way that friends bully one another, make my diciplinary fantasies come true! And to fulfill their lifelong quest to see to it that I finally get a spanking!  Part of this writing was on the back of the photo.  Here's what all of it said: "You arrive at my house early for a party and find me naked shaving my crotch and see male spanking magazines and a spanking paddle laying next to me. Imagine my shock when I didn't hear you come in and see the smirk spread across your face and realize that my naked ass is yours to punish as you wish! You tell me that public punishment and humiliation are in order. You lead me naked to the basement where you tie me standing spread eagle in the middle of the room. You paddle my smooth naked ass, then leave the paddle sitting next to me. As guests arrive, you send them to the basement to find me, naked, shaved and spanked with my boner sticking straight out in front of me! That same smirk spreads across each one of their faces. It doesn't take them long to pick up the paddle and enjoy turning my bare naked bottom an even brighter shade of red! It's going to be a long and painful day!"    I've always felt that the most humiliating spanking would be one that was given to me by my own friends.   I can only imagine the shame I would feel each time I saw them after they had me naked and bent over their knees for a spanking.  They would always picture me bare, with a bright red, well spanked bottom each and every time they saw me, just like I did when I watched my friends get spanked.   My friends knew I had never been spanked like they were and often told me that the one thing they really wanted to see was ME get a spanking.   That desire of theirs has stuck with me over the years, and is a key element of many of my spanking fantasies. For all the times I grinned and smirked watching my friends get spanked bare, and jacked off with the memories of their spankings burned into my mind, I certainly deserve to experience that same humiliation of a naked public spanking myself.  With each post I make in my blog, the chances of someone recognizing me and finding out about my spanking fetish becomes greater and greater.  Not only is my body exposed in photos and videos, but my thoughts and fantasies are also exposed in my blog.   The only question is what will happen when someone I know does find it?   Perhaps deep down I'm hoping a group of my friends will thoroughly enjoy stripping me buck ass naked, grabbing me by the ear, pulling me over their knees and giving me the humiliating spanking we both know I deserve.   And there will certainly be enough content in my blog to tell them exactly how to make the spankings as humiliating as possible for me! I didn't have any old naked face pictures of myself from back when these selfies were taken, but I found an "almost naked"  regular photo of myself from around the same time frame.   So if any of my friends recognize me from the old days and still want to give me that humiliating spanking they always wanted to give me, they should just contact me and order me to report to them and bring some spanking paddles with me.   Then when I get there, they should strip me buck ass naked, grab me by the ear and pull me over their knees and spank my ass until it's good and red.   If they stay in touch with any of our other old friends, they should invite them over for old times sake.  I'm sure they'd enjoy being in on the fun.   Perhaps they'll all want to spank me on a regular basis to make up for all the times I never got spanked when I should have!  Maybe to add even more to my humiliation, they will want to shave me like in the photos above!   I used to fantasize about my friends spanking me,  as much as they fantasized about giving me a spanking.  I was just too chicken to let them because I knew they'd find out it made my dick hard!   Here's that old photo of me back in the mid 1990's.    All I had on in that photo was that pair of shorts and briefs underneath.   It wouldn't have taken much for my friends to strip me naked and leave me stranded bare!   Perhaps my friends should have stripped me, spanked me and made me ride my bike naked with my red spanked bottom on display like I'm  doing in the more recent photo below!  They all would have got a good laugh out of that!          

This was the 2nd time I'd met with this spanker and one of the few spankings I got that wasn't video recorded.   I'd always been intrigued with the idea of being spanked in bondage, helpless to resist what I had coming, but without knowing this spanker very well, I was a litte afraid to get tied up and worked out this scenario that I thought would be the next best thing.    On arrival, the spanker held a cardboard box in front of me and ordered me to strip and place all of my clothes in the box.    Everything went into the box, even my car keys!   He took the box into another room closing the door behind him, leaving me where I was, buck ass naked.   I had no idea where he put the box, but one thing was certain.   I was naked and I was staying that way until my spanking was over and he decided to give me my clothes back!   While I guess that I was free to leave at any time, I'd have to do so naked, with a red spanked ass!   We were in a small rural community with a population of 1500 people and were in the back room of his business.  It was on a U.S. Highway that was on the main street going through town!   There was no way I was going to leave naked and let everyone in that little town see that me a grown man, had been spanked like a bad little boy!   If I left, I'd have to walk down the main street of that town,  bare, with my bright red, freshly spanked bottom exposed and I was 20 miles from home!   In that small town, I couldn't help but think if the police picked me up, that they would either bring me back there and watch him spank me some more or bring me to the police station and keep me naked and give me another spanking themselves!  Or if someone else picked me up my fate could be even worse than what awaited me here!   So while I wasn't actually in bondage, it was just the same, I knew I'd have to take whatever spanking he decided to give me or suffer the humiliation of leaving naked and face the consequences that might be in store for me!   He laid a piece of countertop across two sawhorses, and the spanking started with me laying over a rolled up blanket with a towel over it.  He told me to masturbate right there in front of him and said he was going spank me with a belt until I came. That way there wouldn't be any sexual arousal for me during the rest of the spanking and it would be pure punishment for me.   I masturbate in a very humiliating way by humping pilows thinking about being ass up over a strict man's knees being spanked.   So I began the embarrassing task of humping the rolled up blanket, right in front of him, as he took the belt to my upthrust ass! It probably wouldn't have been so humiliating if I masturbated the traditional way.    My dick was pulled back between my legs so he could see when I ejaculated.  As my ass thrust up and down his belt came down over and over again!  My bucking, squirming bottom must have made an inticing target for him and his belt!  Once I ejaculated, I had the rest of my spanking waiting for me!  A spanking always hurts more after you c. u. m. !     Now the real spanking was about to start.  But first he let me lay there for a while as he went up front to take care of real business.  I started to wonder what I got myself into.  I looked around the room looking for a way out in case I had to escape. There was an overhead door that must have gone to an alley and the door didn't close all the way to the floor. There was about a 6 inch gap on the bottom.   That in itself was making me even more nervous as I kept thinking that someone walking down the alley would hear my spanking and watch through the gap under the door! There was also a walk door but I didn't know if it was locked or open.  There were also a few windows, that were up high, that I figured I could climb out of if I had to.  But who was I kidding, I had no clothes and my ass was spanked red!  I wasn't going anywhere!     He came back in and eagerly started spanking me a lot harder with the belt.  I had just shot my load  so I didn't want a spanking anymore, but I was getting spanked anyway!   Spanked until he was satisfied! . Yes I was free to leave at any time, but if I did, I'd have to do so naked, and suffer the humiliation of letting everyone in that little town know I'd been spanked at my age! Each time he came back in he'd take some photographs of me and my red ass! After several minutes he walked up front again, leaving me there to think about my situation again.    I heard the UPS truck pull up and he was talking to the driver.  I wondered if the driver knew I was in the back room naked, getting a spanking.   I wondered if they'd both walk through the door so the driver could see me naked and watch me get spanked.  There was also a guy mowing some grass right outside the overhead door.  I could swear he could hear me getting spanked!    My thoughts were interrupted when he came back in and spanked me again.  This time with a paddle.   I couldn't help but think how the overhead door wasn't closed all the way and while I knew the guy mowing couldn't really  hear over the noise of the mower,  I couldn't help think that somehow he knew I was in there getting a spanking!   After spanking me for a while he walked out again, leaving me laying there naked, with a bright red, throbbing hot bottom.   Or what if someone was walking down that alley and heard the paddle smacking my ass and looked under the door?   I looked around the room again wondering if I'd ever get my clothes back.   At this point the spanking was getting intense and I started to think what a bad Idea it was to be in this situation.  Yeah I was naked and pretty much at the mercy of this spanker!   If my clothes were there in the room with me, I could get dressed and leave, but I was naked and had no way of getting dressed.   And he had my car keys too.   All the time I spent alone, thoughts went through my mind wondering what was going to happen to me.  It was as bad as the spanking itself!   After leaving me there for another 10 minutes thinking the worst,  he came back in and took the belt to my ass again.   He was belting me hard!   He stopped just as I thought I couldn't take any more and he walked out again. Then about 15 minutes later he came back and spanked me again.    I wondered how much longer this was going to go on.  My butt was really sore.   That's when he told me he'd be back to give me the OTHER HALF of my spanking, and walked out again!   He came back in again carrying the box of my clothes and told me I could have them back after one more spanking.    I was definitely sore when he finished that last spanking, and after I got dressed we both went up front.  I found out the front door to the business was unlocked and anyone could have walked in while he was spanking me!  I couldn't believe he didn't even lock the front door!  It was pretty intense.  I'd have to say it was the closest thing to being tied down for a spanking without actually being in bondage.  While I could have left at any time, if I did, I would have totally humiliated myself!   I always kept my identity a secret when I met with spankers.  But I found out when I went back out to my car, that one of those times he left me alone in the back room,  that he must have taken my car keys out of my pocket and went through my car and found where I put my driver's license.  He knew who I was now and where I lived!    My driver's license was sticking out from where I had hid it in the car!  He never did or said anything about it.   He actually had more to lose than I did  with public exposure.   He was involved in politics in that little town.    He did actually put me in real bondage and spank me during a later meeting, but that's another story.      

I rarely watched Wagon Train until yesterday when I saw the spanking scene I posted about.   It was funny that it was mentioned that Denny Miller (Duke) spanked character Charlie in a later episode because as soon as I saw Duke walk out onto the set yesterday I couldn't help but think about him spanking me!  Or wonder if he got spanked.  Denny Miller also played Tarzan in the 1959 film.   First I've always been turned on by role reversal spankings where I'm spanked by a much younger guy and he just seemed like he had that attitude of a guy that might spank me.   Second, next to a firm little butt, the thing that turns me on most about a guy is a defined set of pecs and abs.   Dukes lanky appearance just made me think he had these features.  At the end of the spanking scene, the camera faded into Duke and Bill sitting with Duke shirtless.   Duke certainly had those features along with a thick leather belt around his waist that turned me on even more!   The V-shaped waist defined pecs and that wide leather belt around Dukes waist along with a firm little butt caused a stiring in my groin!   Then when I saw him sitting on this rock I couldn't help but think about him stripping me naked and pulling me over his knees like Bill did to Charlie.  Those arms holding me down tight as I bucked and squirmed from the spanking he gave me.   My boner rubbing against those firm thin thighs of his!   I'm sure he'd take off that belt and whip me with it when he was done spanking me too!  Some More Pictures of Denny Miller "Duke" Shirtless In That Same Episode of Wagon Train Yeah thinking about Duke spanking me definitely gave me a boner!

I was watching an old episode of Wagon Train on MeTV today and at the end of Season 4 Episode 30 there was a spanking scene.   Assistant Wagon Master Bill Hawkes (played by actor Terry Wilson) gives wagon train cook Charlie Wooster (played by actor Frank Mc Grath) an over the spanking.   What makes this sceen so unusual is that in this scene Bill is about 38 years old and Charlie the one being spanked is 58 years old!    I guess Bill figures if Charlie is going to act like a little kid he's going to spank him like a little kid!     The story line is that Charlie runs off from the wagon train with another guy looking for a gold mine and Bill and the other guy's grandson have to go looking for them.    Bill is tired, sore and worn out when they find him and Bill tells him that he ran off pouting like a little kid so he's going to treat him like any other little kid that runs off pounting by blistering him!   Before Charlie knows it, he's draped over Bill's knees getting a spanking!   Bill tells him the corny line about how this is going to hurt me a lot more than it's going to hurt him.   I guess that line's been around for a long long time!    Before long Charlie is yelling and telling Bill to stop it before someone sees them!     This took place in 1961 when spanking was commonplace and was actually encouraged by society.   In the 1970's, spanking while still popular,  became a little more discrete and television still spoke about it but didn't actually show the spankings anymore.  They prepared for the spanking and then the camera faded away.   But here the spanking was actually shown!   Charlies worst fear did happen.  Young 26 year old actor Denny Miller walked up and saw Charlie getting a humiliating spanking over the Assistant Wagon Master's knees.. I find in incredibly hot that the writer of the script had the older man getting spanked by the younger actor and then witnessed by an even younger actor.   I wonder how many times they had to do a re-take of this scene!   And I wonder how much actor Frank McGrath (Charlie) got teased by his fellow actors about the spanking he took during that scene?   I wonder if he had a "stunt butt" for the spanking scene?   In those days probably not! 

I described the photo manipulations my buddy Jeff in Florida made depicting my fantasies of court ordered judicial spankings in my last blog post.   https://southspanking.com/groups/adblog/852/a-woodshed-style-strapping/ The Woodshed Style Strapping video I posted of the real ass strapping I took to get the photo Jeff used to make one of those photos, could be looked at like a judicial kind of strapping. It had many of the elements of a judical punishment.  I was bound and helpless to resist the spanking.  I was naked. The strapping was fairly hard.  It went on until the spanker thought I had learned my lesson!   The only thing missing was the audience.  The public element!    I did have the spanker's friend there to watch and help strap me but it wasn't truly a "public" audience.  I've always fantasized about the judicial system giving the option of a humiliating public spanking in lieu of jail time or a fine for minor offences such as traffic violations or minor thefts.   In my fantasies, the offender is stripped naked either right there in court or at a designated time in the town square and spanked in public for everyone to see.  The festivities might be televised on the local cable station so those that can't watch in person can still view the spankings and perhaps there might even be an online archive of the spankings available to memorialize the spankee's shame!  The local newpaper would send a photograper there to capture the event for a newspaper story too!    Yes a judicial spanking would be a big event especially in a smaller community!   Except for a few of us, the public humiliation would most likely curtail future crime. Once a few people are spanked in public other's might not be so eager to break the law  While I'm not sure I would opt for such a humiliating punishment unless the circumstances were right, the thought of it is quite intriguing!  Perhaps something like the risk of a repeat traffic violation on my driving record that could result in the loss of a drivers license or an increase in insurance rates, might motivate me to choose being spanked rather than have the ticket go on my record.  Even for a spanko like me, if the punishment is public enough and humiliating enough it could discourage me from future inappropriate behavior.  But if the alternative penalty is harsh enough and involves more than just money, it could make me opt for a humiliating public spanking rather than simply paying the fine.  My fantasies about this topic were peaked again when I was watching an old episode of "The Practice" on Amazon Prime last week.  While not quite a judicial spanking, it was close!   In this episode of the old courtroom drama, a defendant was a building superintendant and got caught hiding a video recorder in a bathroom air vent in a tenant's apartment.  He posted the naked videos he took of her online.   The judge, recently having sensitive photos of herself posted online, told him he just got the wrong judge and ordered him to stand up and drop his pants and underwear to his ankles right there in court!   Then the judge tells him he hasn't got much to show up front, so he should turn around and let everyone in the gallery see what little he has to show down there!   To exacerbate his humiliation, she orders a continuance and when he starts to pull up his pants she tells him to leave them right where they are - around his ankles - and tells the bailiff to escort him out of the courtroom bare ass, right through the gallery and out into the hallway and back to jail bare!    The only thing that would have been better in my eyes, was if the bailiff was ordered to spank him and then walked him out of the courtroom with an exposed red blistered bottom!    My friend that did the photoshop pictures of me in the Woodshed Style Strapping blog post made another series of judicial spanking photos.  Those scenes depicted an actual courtroom spanking.  He's also interested in judicial corporal punishment themes.   The guys in these photoshop artwork pictures are stripped naked in court and had to wait for the previous defendant to get strapped or birched while they watched and waited their turn.  In my case, I would have got a humilation boner standing there watching!  I'm sure sentences like that would invoke a lot of public involvement in the court procedings, and the humiliation of the scenario might curtail a lot of crime.  It's certainly not manly for a grown adult to get spanked like a naughty little boy in public!  Here's a couple of the Photoshop artwork pieces my friend created.  Yes the theme of public spankings really does turn me on so I created a couple of my own photo manipulations with some pictures of me getting some court ordered discipline.  I'm not nearly as good at it as my friend Jeff but Jeff stopped creating these photos and I had to make some of my own.   One is a rear view and one is a full frontal view.  I'm fully exposed in both.   This first one "artwork" photo is of me given a public enema prior to a court ordered spanking in the town square. I started out with a photo of me bent over the hood of my car and added in the background and the other people. The first photo below is the original picture of me that I started with.  Yes, I got naked outside at home, in my driveway with a red spanked ass, where some neighbors could have seen me!  The second one is the resulting photo manipulation.  In this scenario, the streets around the town square are blocked off for the big event so the offender (me) is bent over the hood of my car in the middle of the street. A young citizen that I know is chosen to give me the enema to make it even more humiliating.  This is especially effective for older offenders like me. The young shirtless guys were chosen by the court, and could be subordinates from my workplace to witness my naked humiliation up close and personal and really drive the shame home!    That would make the punishment worse and make me reluctant to repeat the offense.   There's nothing more satisfying, for the college age guys that work for me, than to see their boss naked and give him an enema and a humiliating spanking! The newspaper photographer is there taking pictures of the punishment as well as the local cable station filming it for those that want to watch at home!   I've always believed that the humiliation of a spanking is as important as the spanking itself.  Things that expose the person being spanked to the view of others and increase his shame make the spanking remembered long after the sting fades away.  For instance, with something like corner time, there's no reason to put someone in a corner if no one is going to see him there!   Anything that adds additional embarrassment to a spanking makes it more effective.  For me, being given an enema during a spanking would be a horribly humiliating experience. Not only is there the anal penetration of the enema nozzle, but even worse is expelling the solution in front of someone!     I'm very shy about going to the bathroom where others are around to hear the sounds and smell the odors!  I'm even shy about using a urinal in public!   I can only imagine the horror of being given an enema and being told to hold it while being spanked, knowing the inevitable release is going to happen.  The spanker knows it's coming too and prolongs the spanking so I can't help but make a public spectacle of such a personal and private moment!  The humiliation and shame will be part of my punishment and my humiliation.  The next photo manipulation is another one I made of myself being inspected prior to being locked in a pillory for a public strapping in the town square.  It's one of those photos I spoke about similar to the ones that my friend Jordan wanted me to post online.  A recent fully exposed picture, naked head to toe with my face showing!   I'll be posting a lot of face pictures in my blog.   It's both scary and exciting.  Perhaps I'm hoping someone I know from vanilla life will see them and recognize me.  If they do I hope they will insist on giving me the humiliating naked spankings I deserve!  Being spanked by someone I know and have to face on a daily basis would be the ultimate spanking humiliation!  If some friends saw my photos and approached me I wouldn't resist and would strip and accept any spankings they wanted to give me!   In this fantasy picture, I'm in the town square and a pillory is set up to carry out the punishment.   But before the belt whipping starts, my genitals are fondled to induce an embarrassing erection!   Kind of like pre game entertainment! The local cable station is filming again and the shirtless guys were chosen again from my place of employment.   They are more than willing to take their belts to their boss's bare ass!     Any attempt at retaliation will result in another public belt spanking at work, right in fornt of all my coworkers.   The young employees are encouraged to take photos and video and tease me when we get back to work. I'm sure they will post it on social media too!  My naked humiliation is a big part of my punishment.   After I've get a good hard boner for everyone to see, I'll be secured in the pillory and all four men will take turns blistering my bottom with their belts. By the time they start the crowds will have gathered and the town square will be filled with spectators to watch my spanking and cheer on the men wielding the belts..   A public spanking is definitely what I deserve.   I often saw others get spanked bare or naked in a public setting and thoroughly ENJOYED their shame and humiliation!      I would get rock throbbing hard watching my buddies asses turn bright red and I always had an ear to ear smirk on my face watching them get spanked.   I felt bad for them, but at the same time, I enjoyed their shame and humiliation. It was that humiliation of being spanked right in front of my smirking face that turned me on the most!   They wanted to see me endure the same fate, but never got the chance to see it. I always wondered how they felt being exposed and spanked right in front of me!    It's that shame and humiliation of a public naked spanking that I have always craved the most.   To this day, it's the  humiliation of being stripped, exposed and reduced to the state of a naughty boy getting a spanking, at my age that still turns me on the most!   For all the times I watched others endure that shame and then went home and jerked off thinking about it, I deserve to be on the receiving end of  a very humiliating public spanking myself.      View my other blog stories here: https://southspanking.com/groups/need2botk/adblog/

(Video Link At End) Here's the story behind some photoshop artwork pictures of me that have been floating around the web,  and the real ass strapping I got in the quest to make the pictures. It wasn't in a woodshed but it was as close as I ever got to a woodshed type strapping. This story goes off in a couple different directions, but bear with me because it's all related. I'm sure you've seen a couple of these pictures before, but probably never realized that real spankings were what motivated the artwork. This was another spanking I got at Bill's Basement in Hammond, IN. Bill usually gives a much less intense spanking but I was trying to find out what a real punishment spanking was like. I was never spanked as a kid and didn't get my first real spanking until I was 47 years old. My spankings had always been more of the erotic kind and they always left me feeling like something was missing. I finally realized my spankings were not like the ones I got to watch in my younger years. Those spankings never started with a "warmup" over jeans or briefs or with a hand spanking. They got spanked bare, hard and fast, right from the start with a paddle or belt. So I asked Bill to give me an authentic punishment spanking, staying within the limits of doing no damage. Above is a photo manipulation I made.  Yes that's my naked red spanked ass hanging out of the car window.   I added in the guy with the belt.   I've always been fascinated with belt spankings.   Most of my friends got spanked with a belt, so the belt always intrigued me.    Before I got my first real spanking, I paddled myself just to see what a spanking might feel like but I couldn't effectively spank myself with a belt, so the belt always remained elusive and fearful to me.  When I heard the crack of a belt on bare ass, it just sounded so wicked!  I got a small taste of a belt spanking a couple times, but I have yet to get a serious belt whipping.  It's on my list of things to experience!   This "woodshed strapping" all started with a discussion I had with a spankthishookups friend named Jeff from Florida. He does photoshop artwork where he takes a photo of someone and adds in a spanking background to the photo. Both of us are interested in Woodshed strappings. Or should I say we're both fascinated with woodshed strappings! We both like all the nuances related to a strapping like that. The naked walk of shame being marched from the house, outside to the shed, the dreaded sawhorse sitting out in the shed or barn taking front stage reminding a boy what's in store for him if he misbehaves, the old worn strap hanging over the sawhorse, and on a farm or ranch, the ranch-hands or farmhands standing out in the yard smirking as you're being marched bare out to the shed - knowing from personal experience what's about to happen to your naked ass. Yeah all those elements make a woodshed strapping very hot for both of us. We are also both also intrigued with judicial spankings. One where a court might order a grown man or young adult to get spanked in public as punishment for some offense. Both of these spanking scenarios I described have the element of public exposure and humiliation!   Well my friend Jeff offered to make a few of these photos, with me in them and that required some naked pictures of myself for him to start with. We began with the judicial spanking scene. Let me back up a minute and tell you about a dare that my online friend Jordan had me do. I've mentioned Jordan in some of my other blog posts and he has this amazing ability to get me to do all kinds of spanking related things that I should have better sense not to do! Jordan dared me about 10 years prior, to spank my own ass and then go outside wearing only a t-shirt and gym shoes and take a few photos of myself. Yeah I did that dare. That first dare I did at 3am so there weren't many people around. But it was so exhilarating to get naked in a public place where someone might catch me. You might say that's not so daring, but the thing is I lived at my job so I did the dares at work!  Well about 10 years had gone by and Jordan had forgotten about the dare until I posted the photos, recently on my spanking profile. These pictures made him ask me if I'd been spanked lately. I hadn't been so he challenged me to the second dare. This time he challenged me to spank my ass inside my residence again and then walk 1500 feet away wearing only a sweater and boots. It was December in Chicago. I had family staying with me at the time so I couldn't spank myself at home, but I still wanted to do Jordan's dare. I thought for a while asking myself where I could do this and decided to just do all the spanking outside. Not only that, but I decided to strip naked before I started the walk, go further than the 1500 feet and do it in broad daylight!  I was actually outside at work, buck ass naked with a red spanked ass for almost an hour and walked around the business property about a mile in distance. I'll share the details of Jordan's dares in some future blog posts.    Above is a photo of me doing Jordan's naked self spanking dare at work!  Completely exposed for almost an hour wearing only a pair of boots, carrying a Jokari paddle, and a sign around my neck saying to give me the real spanking I deserve so there would be no doubt in anyone's mind what they should do to me if they caught me!   But back to my friend Jeff's Photoshop pictures and the real ass strapping I got in the making of those pictures.   Well this judicial punishment scenario my photoshop friend was doing, was a scenario that we pretended was a court ordered public spanking if I had been caught doing the naked self spanking dare that Jordan challenged me to do. (No I didn't actually get caught doing that dare, but I probably was seen by passing cars!) But this was a what if I got caught scenario and a court decided to give me a suitable punishment for spanking myself naked outside by ordering a naked spanking in the town square. We talked about a scenario where an offender was marched naked or driven naked being spanked along the way to a stage set up in the town square. Once there, he's brought up on stage and paddled and strapped for the amusement of everyone there. The spanking would be well announced ahead of time in the media so the offenders' friends and enemies could come by to watch. The public nature of such a punishment is similar to the public corporal punishment law breakers received in days gone by to maximize their humiliation!  The first photoshop artwork he did, depicted me naked on a platform on the back of a tractor being spanked and slowly driven through town as the spanking was announced on a speaker, calling members of the public, to meet us at the town square to watch and help spank my ass.  Above is the artwork my friend Jeff created from a photo I took of me standing naked on the back of a tractor.   He used Photoshop to add in the background of the town, the guy standing next to me giving me the spanking, and all the people in the street with belts, paddles and straps following us to the town square to watch and help give me my public spanking. Below a close up of me on the tractor. A little side story, one of the other pictures we took involved handcuffing myself in one of the equipment buildings at work. I remember Jeff warning me to be careful. The building has a gravel floor and I cuffed myself naked, with my hands in front of me. I left the key in the cuffs and unknown to me it fell out somewhere while I was setting things up for the photos. So there I was buck ass naked in a building at work with my hands in handcuffs and I couldn't find where I dropped the key in the loose gravel floor!   It was like looking for a needle in a haystack! At first panic set in, then I remembered years ago getting the cuffs open with a paperclip and pliers. I looked all over for both items. I found a pair of pliers but I couldn't find a paperclip. Hey it was a workshop not an office! I did find some thin wire, but it was too soft and it bent when I tried using it. Then after about 30 minutes of walking around naked with my hands cuffed in front of me, I found a paperclip. It was much harder to reach things holding the paperclip in one hand and the pliers in the other, while in cuffs and bend it to use as a key. I finally managed to get out of the cuffs and get the photos Jeff needed. I was so glad one of my college age employees didn't come in and find me like that helpless to resist, with my ass spanked red and paddles laying around!  They certainly could have had some fun with their boss's naked ass making it a lot redder!  The next day we took the pictures for the woodshed strapping scene. I was self spanking as we were doing all of this to make it more fun. I knew Jeff could add the red to my ass very easily with Photoshop but I decided to spank myself to make it more realistic. We had to retake several of the photos to get the pose just right. My ass was raw red by the time we finished as I had to redo the photos and also the spankings several times to get the pose right. Sometimes I think Jeff had me do it over just so I'd paddle myself again! Below is a picture depicting a naked walk of shame out to a woodshed for a strapping.  Both of us are really turned on by this type of spanking scenario.  Like I mentioned before, it has all the essential elements that make that walk of shame so embarrassing!   The big strong disciplinarian with strap in hand,  the naked spankee feeling so small and helpless, the observers standing in the background about to enjoy the show!  It would be so humiliating for the one about to get spanked!  Jeff decided to make a picture of me taking a naked walk of shame out to the barn for an ass strapping.  I was instructed to send him some naked pictures of myself,  walking away from the camera with my head down in shame and my hands behind my back.   The photo below is the end result of Jeff's artwork.  Jeff used a photo of me walking with my head down in shame and my hands behind my back and added in the background of the porch and barn/shed in the background, representing me taking the naked walk of shame out to the shed for my "woodshed strapping".  I love the way he added in all the little details like my briefs hanging prominently by the door letting everyone else in the house know someone is out in the shed getting an ass whoopin’  and the reflection of me in the mirror letting people in other rooms  get a glimpse of me walking out to the barn. The next couple photos Jeff made of me were pictures depicting me the boss, getting a strapping in front of my college age employees at work.   Those guys often made comments to me during some spanking conversations we had insinuating that they would have enjoyed spanking my ass themselves. I've always been turned on by role reversal spankings where someone like me that's usually in charge gets spanked by someone I'm usually in charge of.  The added humiliation just makes the spanking so much more effective!    I often fantasized about them doing just that. Spanking me.   Or getting to watch me get spanked.   For the next photo, Jeff instructed me to take a photo of myself with a boner, and my head hung down in shame again with my hands behind my back to prevent me from covering my boner in front of the young farmhands.   A boner I have because my ass is about to get strapped, adding even more to my humiliation.   The young hot shirtless "farmhands" represented my college age workers who would have loved to see the boss get stripped naked for a spanking.    We were working on the final picture for him to use of me bent over the sawhorse actually getting strapped and we couldn't get the pose just right. That's when I had the idea of calling Bill and asking him to give me a real strapping and my plan was to use stills from the video as the photos for Jeff to work with. I told Bill I wanted him to tie me down to a sawhorse, buck ass naked, and strap my ass good and hard. I said I wanted him to strap me the way a strict farm dad of the 1950's would have strapped his deliberately disobedient 18 year old son out in the barn or woodshed. While I set limits of no broken skin and no major bruising, I did want a realistic punishment strapping. At least harder than I've had so far. It was all set up and I called Bill to say I was on the way. He caught me by surprise when he said, "We're waiting for you!" Who was the we? Who else was going to be there when I got strapped? I was tense the rest of the 75 minute drive. I do enjoy the added humiliation of getting spanked in front of others, but I had no idea who was there, and this was going to be a serious ass spanking for me. When I arrived he introduced me to his friend John. I always worry that I'm going to run into someone I know from "vanilla life" at Bills. Someone that doesn't realize I'm into getting my ass spanked! It turns out his friend John used to live only 5 minutes away from me! We both kept looking at each other like we knew one another, but we couldn't place where! I set up my video cameras then stripped, and bent over the sawhorse and the two of them took some rope and bound my hands and feet to the legs of the horse. The feeling of being tied down to the sawhorse, totally helpless, naked with my ass sticking out, about to get the ass strapping of my life was pretty incredible! Then the strapping began. They took turns, at first one lashing my ass ten or so times and then the other. Then one guy gave me one lash and then the other gave me one. One right after the other, from each side. The lashes were hard and kept getting harder. I was yelling out, and gasping for air. My ass cheeks were just quivering from the sting! Eventually Bill stopped and came next to my ear and said, "You wanted it hard didn't you" I said I thought that was hard, but Bill laid into my naked ass again, even harder than before. I think he used every strap he had on my ass. When he untied me, and I looked at my ass in the mirror, my ass had a bluish tint to it. I thought for sure it was going to turn into a mass of bruises, but it didn't. It was sore for 4 days though. I got my first taste of what I would consider a serious ass strapping. This was the third session in my recent quest for a realistic punishment spanking. Above is the actual screencap photo from the video that Jeff used for his artwork photo.   The picture below is the artwork Jeff created.   The final artwork photo that I “took” the real strapping for.  The image of myself taken from the photo above and a background added with bystanders.  My arms and legs bound to the horse so I can’t get away.  The hot shirtless young guys grinning from ear to ear, eager to see me, their boss,  buck ass naked getting his ass strapped!  I'm not spanked in private, but publicly positioned outside in the yard in front of my subordinates, forced to face them and make eye contact.  My naked ass strapping is their entertainment for the day!   Every time we see each other in the days to come, that grin will spread across their faces again, reminding me just how much they enjoyed watching me get spanked!  Yes, we’ll both remember in vivid detail,  just how much I bucked, squirmed and yelled out as the punishment strap lit my bottom on fire!  There’s the  big heavy strap and big burly strapper that can really put some muscle into an ass strapping.  His artwork is very much like a Norman Rockwell drawing with all the nuances and details carefully chosen to tell the complete story.  Below is  a link to a video of that ass strapping! Bill posted the video on spankingtube and a few other places, but this is the hi resolution version of it. This was my first attempt at using two video cameras for two angles of view. Hope you enjoy it. https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B0svmfWrnjyPZWoxLXdQemNMRms/view?usp=share_link&resourcekey=0-IuC9MprSUcvRrDApsOPBbA

  The groove spanking is a very effective spanking method.   It's a spanking right in a naughty boy's butt crack - his groove!   The area between the cheeks is very tender indeed.   The inner cheeks that form the sides of the butt crack, the area between a guy's balls and hole and the bullseye!   The butt hole itself.  While extreme caution has to be used not to do any damage in this area, a light spanking here can be horribly painful.    The best way to position a boy for a groove spanking is in the diaper position, laying on his back with his legs pulled back over his head and spread wide.  It's best to tie the legs in this position so the spanker doesn't have to hold them, or even more embarrassing letting others who are there to witness the spanking hold them for you.   As an alternative, making the boy participate in his own punishment, you can make him spread and hold his own butt cheeks wide apart for the spanking.   It will take quite a bit of self control to keep the cheeks spread wide apart during the groove spanking!   As I mentioned in previous posts, the diaper position is very humiliating because eye contact can be made between the person being spanked and the spanker and audience.   It's also very embarrassing because his butt hole is a guy's most private and vulnerable area and to have it exposed for punishment is downright humiliating!    One of my first experiences with a groove spanking was when I was in my mid 50's and a young 23 year old college student named Freddie spanked me.  What made this spanking especially embarrassing is that Freddie spanked me in his campus apartment.  The building was full of college students that had to hear me getting paddled and belted!   They probably knew from personal experience exactly what that sound was.   Freddie just loved to spread my butt cheeks wide apart and hand spank, paddle and belt me right in my groove!  The paddle is harder to use in this area, but a narrow belt is a perfect implement for a groove spanking.    I swear Freddie was aiming the tip of his belt right for the bullseye - my butt hole!  A spanking right on the hole stings something horrible!   Especially the lash of a thin belt!    Freddie exposing and checking out the target!   It was truly embarrassing feeling his hands grasp my butt cheeks, pulling them wide apart, exposing my most private place, knowing he was going to spank it!  ​ Freddie using one hand to spread my crack open as he uses the edge of a paddle to spank the outer edges of my groove.  The groove spanking is humiliating because you know how exposed you are. You know the spanker is looking right at your butt hole and it's painful too because this area is very tender. Freddie checking things out and finding my groove is starting to turn red. The next day there were some bruises where the tip of Freddie's belt landed in the center of my wide spread groove!   Some other Groove Spankings I got:        There's no doubt about it.   A groove spanking makes for a very embarrassing and very memorable spanking.   It's best to have the miscreant buck ass naked for a groove spanking.  Ideally the groove spanking should be given in front of an audience.   Embarrassment and humiliation are  key elements of any spanking.  They are as important a part of a spanking as the spanking itself!  A groove spanking accomplishes all of this!   Link to my last blog post about Mouthsoaping: https://southspanking.com/groups/adblog/853/mouthsoaping-just-turns-me-on/   Link to all my blog posts: https://southspanking.com/groups/need2botk/adblog/