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Got this from a reader and thought we'd share with y'all.  We think Rules should be easy to follow and clear. Reading what this adult boy is required to do in The Corner, we think we'd never get out of there! What do you think about making Rules for your boys? Do you find them a helpful tool for further punishment? Do you find they are a deterrent? When they are this complex, do you find they work? We'd love to know your thoughts about incorporating Rules into your Domestic Discipline routine. Share what you know works!   Please comment below or email us with your ideas aok4otk@aol.com or cornertimeconf@gmail.com ______________________________________ Follow Cornertime Confidential Wherever You Are: Tumblr  ∙  SouthSpanking ∙  Twitter  ∙  WordPress

These are some pictures of me during a self spanking near age 39.   At the time I hadn't been spanked for real yet,  so I self spanked to try to see what a spanking might feel like.  If only I'd been spanked growing up I might not be so curious to feel the sting of a spanking.  I would look a photos in spanking magazines and simulate the scenarios in the pictorials.  I guess there was a series of photos about guys spanked in jockstraps.   In these photos, I'm in the actual jockstrap I wore in school in school in grades 6 through 12. It's old and yellowed now, but hey, it's 50 years old.  I'm surprised it's not falling apart!   I remember when I first got it.  My mother handed it to me along with the rest of the new "gym uniform".  It would be the same gym uniform we took with us to high school.  Nothing more was said about it, and I guess we were supposed to figure out how to put it on.   It was so embarassing thinking about wearing it in school!    It was also the first time we had to change in a locker room and take showers after class.  Yeah we had to all get naked after class and get into a big group shower with each other!   We were all kind of freaked out about it, but we had no choice.   If we tried skipping the shower we got paddled and sent in to shower with our bare red asses on display for everyone to tease us about!   I was shy about getting undressed in front of my friends but we all had to do it. After we saw what happened to a few guys that tried to avoid it, the rest of us learned quickly to do as we were told!   Most of us were a little nervous, but I was more nervous than others because of how easily I got a boner.  Thinking about spanking or even thinking about being naked in front of others made my dick hard, even back then!    However none of us could figure out the reason we had to wear that rediculous looking jockstrap!  They told us it was to protect our genitals and keep them from flopping around and getting injured. But it didn't make any sense. What turned me on so much about the jockstraps is they left my friends asses all exposed!   The same asses that got spanked so often. Not just exposed but it was like the jockstraps framed their asses, presenting them for view!   Or for the paddle!    Random jock inspections were done by the PE teacher.   Everyone had to stand in a line and pull down the waistband of their gym shorts to prove that they had a jockstrap on.     It was a required piece of the school gym uniform and failure to wear one resulted in a paddling in front of the class!  I was thankful to have the jockstrap on during gym class as it helped conceal my boner when I watched a classmate get paddled. While I prefer the complete and total exposure of a naked spanking, the jock strap does frame a guy's ass nicely, making a target for the paddle.   I do like when the jock is removed after a spanking and a couple white lines of skin show where the elastic straps covered the skin during a spanking. However,  I really don't believe a guy should be afforded the modesty of wearing a jock strap during a spanking.   A spanking is much more effective when he's buck ass naked and his dick and balls are exposed adding to his shame and humiliation.  As shown in the photos above the dick and balls can even be pulled out of the pouch to make the jockstrap look more rediculous!   It really emphasizes what little use it really is! I had never been spanked at that time and I was so desparate for a spanking that I shamefully admit I even spanked myself.   In fact I went as far as simulating a spanker's lap by taking a pair of my jeans and stuffing the legs with blankets to make them firm like another's guy's legs were in them.   I tied a board to a chair to support the stuffed leg of the pants and then laid over the stuffed pants to make it feel like I was bent over someone's knees while I reached back and paddled myself.   The legs of the pants were firm, just like a real person's legs might be, and I rubbed my boner against the stuffed jeans as I spanked myself, humping the legs I often imagined myself rubbing the leg of the spanker with my boner as I was bucking and squirming from the sting of the spanking.  Just imagine the shame I would have endured if I had a real spanking and ejculated while I was being spanked!   That would have been the ultimate humiliation!  I often fantasize about doing just that if I ever got spanked for real.  Especially if one of my own friends were spanking me!  I'm sure I would have never heard the end of it!  Eventually I imagine the spanking would continue without the jockstrap on - buck ass naked! I often imagined the humiliation I would have felt if one of my friends caught me paddling my own ass!    I'm sure they would have offered to give me a real spanking.   But I didn't get one until about eight years later!  Yes I still have that jockstrap I wore in high school in 1972!  Perhaps someday, someone will give me a spanking in it!

Please feel free to comment or add to this discussion.  Also, obviously corner time does not appeal to all dads/top’s boys/subs, it is very subjective.  I personally do not enjoy it, but then I am not supposed to either as it is a punishment for me.   Discipline:   It is a method of discipline that can be used with a spanking or on its own merit.     The humbling Effect   It makes a naughty boy feel very humbled.     More Spanking   It can be used simply as a break for the boy and his dad before back over the knee he goes.     Forcing to reflect   It can be a time for the naughty boy to reflect on his behavior.     Checking the spanking redness   It can be a time for dad to study his handy-work as it were.

This spanking in the pillory happened just a few days before my birthday so at the end I was told I was going to get a birthday spanking.   I had never actually had a real birthday spanking before.   The spanker had just bought an antique school teacher's chair.   We both wondered how many teens in the 1950's got bent over their teacher's knees and got spanked in that chair in front of the entire class.   So he decided that he was going to take a seat on that very chair and pull me over his knees in my birthday suit for a birthday spanking and spank me with my birthday spanking paddle!   I had crafted quite a few paddles by that time but here's the story about the making of the Birthday Spanking Paddle.   The birthday spanking paddle that I crafted one night in the company workshop.   Made from a piece of solid maple 1x4, this paddle really stings more than you can imagine!  Maple is an excellent wood to use for a spanking paddle.  It's dense and really stings a guy's ass!   This paddle is not too short and not too long so it can be used standing,  bent over an object, or for a childish over the knee spanking.           The Making of a Spanking Paddle Starting out with a plain Maple 1"x4" board.    Running the board through a planer to reduce the thickness down to 9/16th's of an inch.  If it's too thick it will bruise.  If it's too thin it won't hurt enough.    Cutting the shape out.  Now it's starting to look like a spanking paddle!    Sanding down the edges. My ass is starting to twitch thinking about how it's going to be used on me!     It's ready to be stained and varnished to a polished finish.     Nude in the company workshop testing it out on my bare bottom!  How would I have explained it if a coworker walked in on me and caught me spanking my own naked ass?     The Birthday Spanking Paddle Complete.  Ready to dish out Birthday Spanking or blister a naughy boy's bottom for any other reason!   It really does sting something fierce!   This is really one of the best/worst paddles I made depending on whose point of view you're looking at it from!    I was completely naked in the company workshop that night making a spanking paddle. The building was along a county highway. I wondered if anyone was looking in at me through the windows.    My coworkers were not likely to come by but they could have.  If they did, it would have been really embarrassing to have them catch me naked making a spanking paddle! Especially if they saw me trying it out on myself!  Even I admit, if I got caught I deserved whatever spanking anyone decided to give me!  Maybe I was trying subconscously trying to get caught hoping someone would put that paddle to good use - good use on me!  I made this paddle around the time of my birthday and named it the Birthday Spanking Paddle.  I made it for a birthday self spanking I was about to do online.   I had several other paddles and paddled myself with one of the other paddles the number of birthday swats and then this paddle the same number of swats. Then I spanked myself with one of my other paddles and then the birthday paddle and so on until I ran out of paddles, comparing the sting of the "birthday paddle" to each of the other paddles.    Now it was going to be put to use giving me a real birthday spanking!        The antique School Teacher's Chair I was going to get spanked on.   The spanker and I talked about that chair many times before the spanking and I knew I was supposed to get a birthday spanking on that chair.   I couldn't help but think about all the times I should have been spanked in school when I was a teen!   I knew he bought the chair specifically to sit on and put a boy like me over his knees and give him a spanking.  I definitely deserved a spanking back when I was in school and my friends really wanted to see me get one but somehow I always managed to weasle my way out of spankings and never actually got one!     It was time!  The spanker sat down in that antique school teacher's chair and pulled me over his knees. He was wearing shorts so I was embarrassed as my smooth shaved crotch rubbed against his bare leg.   I didn't get to think about it long though, as that paddle really stung my bare smooth bottom.     He used the birthday spanking paddle to give me my first real birthday spanking.   The other guy was right there encouraging the entire thing and taking photos.   I finally got a real birthday spanking like so many of my friends had experienced,   and wanted to give me.  It was long overdue!    After the birthday spanking was over he grabbed a bathbrush and gave me another spanking!   Just for the fun of it!  I was already sore from being spanked in the pillory and from the brithday spanking, but I got another spanking just because he wanted to give me one.       Watch for a couple short video clips once they get uploaded and approved.  The spanker didn't let me bring a video camera with but the other guy being spanked used the video function of my still camera to get a few short video clips of me getting spanked.  It was a pleasant surprise when I got home and was going through the photos and found them!   One in the pillory and one of the birthday spanking.   Link to the previous part in this series: https://southspanking.com/groups/adblog/863/a-shaving-and-spanking-in-bondage-part-2-spanked-in-a-pillory/ Link to my other blog posts: https://southspanking.com/groups/need2botk/adblog/

Locked in the Pillory: A totally naked spanking completely restrained and out of my control!  I looked at it in the distance, so ominous and yet at the same time it turned me on! The pillory waiting to hold my neck, wrists and ankles, completely immobilizing me, for the punishment spanking that awaited me!    Also pulled out was a spanking bench that the spanker designed from a piece of spanking artwork by Copper.   (Part 1 of this episode can be found here:) https://southspanking.com/groups/adblog/862/a-shaving-spanking-in-bondage-part-1-losing-my-man-hair/ It was both exciting and terrifying thinking about being restrained for a spanking, completely at the mercy of the spanker, unable to get up or move my bottom out of the way of his paddle or strap!   There's just something incredibly arousing, knowing i'm going to be spanked and I will be completely helpless to avoid any part of the spanking I have coming.   The pillory I was about to be locked down in, totally naked with my crotch and bottom shaved bald to complete my shame and humiliation.  It was ominously standing there waiting for my naked ass!  The spanking bench designed from the Copper drawing on the left had pillory like ankle and wrist restraints and leather straps to bind the thighs and back to the bench to prevent any movement or squirming.  Like the pillory, once restrained on the bench you were at the complete mercy of the spanker.   A drawing of a young man being switched at the end of the cart's tail.   In colonial times a young man was sometimes punished naked at the end of the cart's tail and strapped or switched as the cart was slowly drawn through the streets of the town for everyone to see!   Tied to the cart and spanked on the bare bottom like a naughty little boy front of everyone for maximum humiliation!  Public humiliation and naked display was a major part of the punishment in days gone by. Me getting spanked now in the pillory was a similar humiliation.  True there was only one other guy there, but it was still humiliating being spanked in front of someone else.   I had been spanked once before along with this spanker but this was the first time I was spanked in bondage, and there was someone else was there to see it happen!  Considering all the times I enjoyed watching my friends get spanked, I definitely deserved to have someone else watch me get this spanking!  And not just watch it but enjoy it!   I had always been turned on by the idea of naked public spanking and the pillory made me think about punishments in colonial times where a person was locked in stocks or a pillory for public ridicule and punishment.   While I read that usually a man or woman was usually restrained with their shirt off for a whipping on their back, I also read that young adults could be secured naked to a pillory for a public spanking!   Yes a young adult could be spanked like a naughty little boy, just to humiliate him,  and it could happen in public! Similarly I read that a young man could also be tied naked to end of the "cart's tail" and slowly pulled through town being spanked with a strap or switch being made a spectacle of for the entire town's amusement!   Stories like that always made my dick hard just thinking about the total humiliation of being publicly spanked in front of your friends, neighbors and even your enemies.   All of them thoroughly enjoying your humiliation!  I always enjoyed visitng colonial towns and seeing the pillories standing in the town square.  I would imagine what it might be like to be locked in a pillory naked, completely exposed and then spanked for everyone in town to see!   I often imagined myself in such a situation and here I was!  Totally naked and about to be secured into a pillory myself for a spanking!    I didn't get to daydream too long before the wrist and ankle restraints were being separated and I was ordered to step into them.   It felt very weird!   Scary but exciting at the same time.   After I got locked into the pillory, the other guy was restrained to the spanking bench.  At first it was just my wrists and ankles put into the restraints and then the spanking started.   The feeling of helplessness was pretty incredible.  I was more willing to be restrained for the spanking knowing the other guy was there getting spanked too, but I didn't know he was also going to be restrained at the same time and would be unable to help me if things went wrong!   But it was too late, we were both naked, in bondage and at the complete mercy of this spanker! With my head not locked down, I was able to look at my freshly shaved crotch and realized how much the spanker must have enjoyed the fact that he personally removed all my "man hair" making a grown adult look like a hairless little boy for his spanking.   I thought about the view he had of my baby smooth bottom too, and how easily it was going to turn bright red before his eyes without the forest of hairs obscuring his view!  A couple of times I felt my dick starting to get hard thinking about the situation I was in!  It's truly humiliating when your dick is shaved bald!    Everyone's attention is drawn to your hairless crotch - especially when the rest of you is so hairy!   It's more than obvious that my "man hair" was removed as part of my punishment.   You act like a boy - you get made to look like a boy - and you get spanked like a boy!   Even if no one else was thinking that, it didn't matter.   I thought they did and it put me in the mindset of being punished like a naughty boy! Me in the pillory, the other guy on the spanking bench.   We could see each other's faces and he could see my shaved crotch but we couldn't see how red each other's bottoms were getting. That changed though a little later,  as he got released and got to spank me himself!    It's always embarrassing when a spanker slaps, grabs, squeezes and feels your bare bottom with his hand during a spanking.   The wrist section of the pillory was opened up again and I was instructed to put my neck in the large opening.    It was closed up again causing me to bend over a bit more.    What would have really made his pillory a lot more effective is if the wrist and neck boards could be height adjusted for different body heights to make a shorter person like me bend at the waist more and make my bottom stick out more for the spanking.   Likewise a wider leg stance would have made it more exposing.   The odd part about the whole thing is that he didn't even conceal the pillory.  It was in plain view in his business.   He was involved with a municipal Halloween event and they used the pillory as a photo op for the event.  He probably made it and stored it so no one in town thought twice about it.  When customers or business associates asked about it I'm sure that's what he told them and they never thought anything more about it!   Little did they know men like me were being restrained in it naked and were being spanked right there under everyone's noses!    My neck also restrained in the pillory.  Now I'm even helpless to look behind me.  While restrained like this I couldn't help but think about my fantasy/nightmare of being given a public spanking in a pillory in a town square!   Naked, completely exposed and totally helpless!   Everyone having a clear view of my shaved crotch, my face and my red spanked bottom.  Everyone laughing as my bottom was lit on fire with a paddle or strap and encouraging whoever was punishing me to spank me longer and harder!   In a public setting, after the spanking I would be left on display like this for everyone to walk up and touch and tease me and give my sore red bottom some additional smacks.   Just like in my fantasies of the townspeople being able to come up and spank me, the other guy that was being spanked, was released from the spanking bench and is allowed to spank me himself!  There was absolutely nothing that I could have done to stop him.   I was naked and helpless!    Continued in Part 3:   Let Out of the Pillory & Given an Over the Knee Birthday Spanking https://southspanking.com/groups/adblog/864/a-shaving-and-spanking-in-bondage-part-3-after-the-pillory-i-get-an-otk-bir/ See all my blogs here: https://southspanking.com/groups/need2botk/adblog/

The Electric Clippers: I previously told the story about how I found a couple male shaving videos and shaved my own pubes and ass.   https://southspanking.com/groups/adblog/861/my-first-naked-selfies/ Well I shaved myself a couple times actually  and I hadn't had a real spanking yet at that time.  About 12 years had gone by since that first shaving after I found the Shaving videos in the adult store.   I had several spankings but what I also didn't realize yet, was just how eager spankers were to shave me.   I also told everyone here the story about my "Near Bondage Experience" where a spanker took all my clothes and car keys and hid them until after my spanking was over. .  It was like being in bondage without actually being restrained.     https://southspanking.com/groups/adblog/857/a-near-bondage-experience/ Well the next time I met with that spanker, he did spank me in bondage and shaved my pubes and hairy bottom first.   Adding to my humiliation, there was another guy there getting spanked along with me and he used my camera to take pictures while I was getting shaved and during part of my spanking.     A photo taken of me right before I lost my pubes!   Another one of those face pictures, buck ass naked, head to toe, like my online buddy Jordan wanted me to post on my profile!    I have to admit it gives me a boner thinking about being exposed like this online!   If someone I know sees this and recognizes me, they should strip me and give me the naked spankings I deserve.  And I hope they really enjoy turning my ass raw red!   Let the punishment fit the crime.  Naked pictures posted equals naked punishment.  In fact I deserve to be spanked on webcam for everyone to see!   We were both ordered to strip.  Everything off!   Buck ass naked!  The other guy getting spanked was about half my age (in his twenties) and already had a smooth shaven crotch.  I had never seen anyone shaved like that before in person.   While it's common for young guys to shave themselves today, for someone like me, it's a humiliating thing to lose your pubic hair.   I'm sure both of them were thinking how satisfying it was going to be to reduce this old man to the status of a hairless little boy and then spank him like one too! ​ I was ordered to lay on a table and an electric clipper was run through my pubes quickly leaving a pile of my curly hairs laying on the table.  Adding even more to my shame, my dick was starting to get hard!   I was even more humiliated when he grabbed my dick to hold it out of the way to shave my balls!    ​A pile of my pubes laying on the table!   ​ I was quickly looking like more and more like a prepubescent boy and I was soon going to get spanked like one too!   ​ After the trimmer reduced my pubes to a stubble, I was flipped over and the trimmer was run across my hairy ass.   ​  I was even more embarrassed as he spread my crack apart and ran the trimmer between my cheeks.  Yeah every part of me was exposed and available to their view and touch!     ​  Before long, the hair on my bottom and back of my balls were also reduced to that of a stubble.     ​LATHERED UP AND MADE BABY SMOOTH: While I was bottom up on the table, I was lathered up with shaving cream and a Norelco Body Groomer was used to remove the stubble.   I felt so vulnerable as he rubbed the slippery shaving cream all over my bottom and deep into my butt crack!       I was ordered to spread my knees and stick my bottom up in the air so the stubble in my crack, around my hole, and on the back of my balls could be removed with the electric shaver.   I could only think of the view they had of me and how much they were enjoying reducing me to the state of a hairless little boy.   Even my butt hole was exposed!    All hairless and smooth, just waiting to be wiped down.   My bottom, smooth as a baby's behind!   All wiped down.   It's time to flip me over and lather up the other side!     It was so embarrassing having him grab my dick and balls and rub the silky shaving cream all over my crotch   The shaver is run over my dick, my balls and all around my crotch. I couldn't help it, I was starting to get a boner!   My face was turning as red as was ass was going to be!     ​I was totally humiliated!   Yeah I was getting a boner!   My dick wasn't lying - it was telling them I was turned on by being shaved and thinking about the spanking I was going to get!          I was told to pull my legs back so they could get a look at my hairless hole!   After looking at the pictures, I noticed just how much more obvious a guy's boner and hole are when they are shaved.   Below are a couple pictures of me with hair and without.   Attention is drawn directly to the dick and the hole when they are shaved.      Just out of curiosity, I recently asked a couple of spankers why they like shaving someone so much.   It basically comes down to the fact that a grown adult is being reduced to the state of a prepubescent boy.  Act like a boy, be made to look like a boy and get spanked like a boy! The spankers also realize the shaving makes the punishment last for weeks and they hope that someone else sees you in that embarrassing hairless state adding even more to your shame and humiliation.   From my own perspective, it also puts me in the mindset of a boy.  A boy that gets spanked when he misbehaves!  It's also humiliating to have someone else decide to take away a symbol of my masculinity and add to my punishment by making me look and feel like a mere boy.   It's especially humiliating if other men see me like that, and makes me feel even more self conscious when using the urinals in a public bathroom after I've been shaved.  Also as stated in the two picture sets above, whenever I see a guy shaved, my eyes keep getting drawn back to his smooth dick and balls  and to his butt hole.  It makes both areas so much more obvious and calls attention to the fact of just how naked and exposed he is!  You hardly even notice a guy's hole in a forest of hair, but when his crack is shaved, it just makes his hole jump out!    And add a red bottom to that and the humiliation just goes up tenfold!  For me, it also acknowledges the fact that I'm submitting to the spanker's authority and have no say so in how I get punished.   I'm actually agreeing that even though I'm a grown man, I deserve to look, feel and get spanked like a naughty little boy!     I admit the silky smooth feeling is great for about a day or two, but as the hairs grow back, the stiff short hairs are itchy and prickly.   The first time I shaved myself I worked at a desk job and it didn't bother me that much.   This time I did a lot of walking at work, and the itching and chaffing were a punishment in itself.  It did remind me of the consequences of my behavior for 6 weeks, long after the sting of the spanking was gone.    After a couple of days the hairs around my dick started growing back, then a couple weeks later when they were long enough to stop scratching, the hairs on my ass started growing back.   That new discomfort lasted a couple more weeks, and then the hairs in my crack started growing again.   Each different area started a new itching and chaffing ordeal.   For me the itching and chaffing was a punishment much worse than the spanking.   After a spanking my bottom is feeling somewhat normal after a few hours and the discomfort when I sit is gone in a few days, but the itching and chaffing start when the sting subsides and reminds me of the fact that I got spanked, for weeks!   Check out this link to a satirical article about shaving your ass hair.   When I first read this I thought it was someone trying to be funny, but from personal experience I now know everything he says is true!   Like when he talks about being unable to fart silently because your butt cheeks are stuck together without the hair in your crack!  Like the article is titled, "Don't Shave That Hair!"   ​https://www.craigslist.org/about/best/lax/35274458.html​​​   Continued in Part 2 - Locked in a Pillory and Spanked https://southspanking.com/groups/adblog/863/a-shaving-and-spanking-in-bondage-part-2-spanked-in-a-pillory/   See all my blogs here: https://southspanking.com/groups/need2botk/adblog/

From the 1990's - My First Naked Selfies I ran across scans of my first naked selfies the other day. These were taken before the phrase selfies and before the era of digital cameras.  There were two choices back then, (1) take the pictures and if you didn't have your own darkroom, send the film in to be developed. The lab might censor your pics and not print them.Whether they printed them or not you risked the chance the lab technician would have your name and address along with copies of your naked photos.  Or (2) use a Polaroid camera.     I had an old Polaroid Camera (no self timer) with black and white film, so I set up some mirrors and took these pictures.   Me with a homemade spanking paddle.   With the Polaroid camera, you snapped the picture, and pulled the print out of the camera.  The print went between some rollers that squeezed developer out onto the photo paper.   You counted to 30 seconds and then peeled the print away from the developer.    And there you had an instant photograph!   It was great for things like naked photos that you didn't want to send to the photo lab.  What inspired these photos was a trip where I found some videos in an adult store. Whenever I traveled, I looked for stores that might carry male spanking videos and magazines.   I came home with 3 or 4 videos that trip.   One video was called Razor's Edge 2.   It was about an employer that punished a shipping clerk by shaving his ass and pubes and then spanking him. The guy in the video wasn't really wasn't all that hairy, not as hairy as I was anyway, but the idea of someone shaving my dick and ass bald to make me look and feel like a little kid and then spanking me like one to humiliate me, really turned me on!     Scenes From the Video  "Razor's Edge 2"   I often fantasized about enduring the humiliation of my own boss spanking me bare in front of all my coworkers, but now after seeing this video, thinking about being shaved before the spanking made it even more humiliating!    I never really thought about shaving as a punishment before, but there was something totally humiliating about having your "man hair" forcibly removed! As a teen a guy was always so proud of that hair as it grew in, and thinking about someone reducing me to the state of a hairless little boy again just seemed like a horrible punishment. Adding to the humiliation of the forced hair removal were stories I heard in college of sports team initiations where a guy was grabbed and had Nair smeared all over his crotch before being thrown in the showers to watch his precious hair wash down the drain. What also came to mind was the hazing scene in the movie "Youngblood" where Rob Lowe is shaved during a hazing scene on a hockey team. Yeah it was definitely humiliating to have someone else forcibly remove your "man hair"! However I think the biggest humiliation is seeing the grins and smirks on the faces of the guys inflicting the humiliation and realizing just how much they're enjoying your shame! Hazing Scene From the Movie "Youngblood"  The team is definitely enjoying shaving Rob Lowe's pubes just like I'm sure my friends would have enjoyed stripping, shaving and spanking me!  A close up from one of the photos above.    The grins on his teammates faces just makes the humilation both complete and sweet as Rob Lowe loses his pubes! I was out of town on a business trip when I found the shaving/spanking videos.   There was no VCR in the hotel room so I looked at the boxes and fantasied about what it would be like if someone shaved me before giving me a spanking!  It definitely made my dick hard thinking about it!  I decided I was going to shave my own pubes and ass when I got home to see what it felt like to have a bald dick.   The anticipation was pretty intense!   When I got home, I watched the first video Razor's Edge where the young man gets shaved and spanked by his boss, and have to admit I got rock hard thinking about my own boss spanking me and shaving me to add to my humiliation!   Only in my fantasies I imagined my boss shaving and spanking me in front of all my coworkers to make it even more humiliating!   After I watched that video and the other one titled "Shave Your Booty", I definitely had to try shaving my own dick and booty until they were as bald as a baby's bottom! I  admit, it felt pretty incredible, especially how smooth it felt when I jacked off!     Yeah it would have been so embarrassing if someone saw me without any hair down there!  These are some photos from the first time my pubes were shaved.   A shaved crotch really does call much more attention to a guy's dick.     Especially if you have a boner, a hairless crotch just calls attention to it and makes your boner even more noticeable!     My bare hairless heinie just begging for a spanking!   Several years later when I started to get real spankings, I can't tell you how many spankers wanted to shave me during a spanking!  They often said that if I was going to act like a little boy and need to be spanked like a little boy, that I should look like a little boy too!  The idea of losing my hair, and being exposed like that in front of an audience,  definitely adds to the humiliation and shame of a spanking, and for me, that in itself is the biggest turnon to a spanking. No matter what the reason, I also have to admit that having a smooth shaved crotch and bottom, also puts me in the mindset of being nothing more than a naughty little boy.  And naughty little boys get spanked!               I've always been turned on by the thought of a friend finding my spanking and bondage toys and putting them to good use.  Perhaps that's why even back in the 1990's I wrote on some of these Polaroid pictures describing a couple of my fantasies, perhaps secretly hoping a friend would find the pictures and force me to endure the fantasies I described.   Similarly I think I created this blog secretly hoping that someone that knows me will see it now, and give me the humiliating spankings I've always fantasized about!   While one part of me wants to keep my fantasies a secret, another part of me gets incredibly turned on at the thought that someone will find out.  And if they do, I hope they will strip me naked and make some of the scenarios depicted in the posts in my blog a reality.    Below are a couple of the fantasies that I wrote out on those pictures 30 years ago with a Sharpie marker.   This was before digital scanners and digital photographs so creating these photos wasn't to post them online!   I had to  be hoping some friends would find the actual humiliating photos of myself and in a way that friends bully one another, make my diciplinary fantasies come true! And to fulfill their lifelong quest to see to it that I finally get a spanking!  Part of this writing was on the back of the photo.  Here's what all of it said: "You arrive at my house early for a party and find me naked shaving my crotch and see male spanking magazines and a spanking paddle laying next to me. Imagine my shock when I didn't hear you come in and see the smirk spread across your face and realize that my naked ass is yours to punish as you wish! You tell me that public punishment and humiliation are in order. You lead me naked to the basement where you tie me standing spread eagle in the middle of the room. You paddle my smooth naked ass, then leave the paddle sitting next to me. As guests arrive, you send them to the basement to find me, naked, shaved and spanked with my boner sticking straight out in front of me! That same smirk spreads across each one of their faces. It doesn't take them long to pick up the paddle and enjoy turning my bare naked bottom an even brighter shade of red! It's going to be a long and painful day!"    I've always felt that the most humiliating spanking would be one that was given to me by my own friends.   I can only imagine the shame I would feel each time I saw them after they had me naked and bent over their knees for a spanking.  They would always picture me bare, with a bright red, well spanked bottom each and every time they saw me, just like I did when I watched my friends get spanked.   My friends knew I had never been spanked like they were and often told me that the one thing they really wanted to see was ME get a spanking.   That desire of theirs has stuck with me over the years, and is a key element of many of my spanking fantasies. For all the times I grinned and smirked watching my friends get spanked bare, and jacked off with the memories of their spankings burned into my mind, I certainly deserve to experience that same humiliation of a naked public spanking myself.  With each post I make in my blog, the chances of someone recognizing me and finding out about my spanking fetish becomes greater and greater.  Not only is my body exposed in photos and videos, but my thoughts and fantasies are also exposed in my blog.   The only question is what will happen when someone I know does find it?   Perhaps deep down I'm hoping a group of my friends will thoroughly enjoy stripping me buck ass naked, grabbing me by the ear, pulling me over their knees and giving me the humiliating spanking we both know I deserve.   And there will certainly be enough content in my blog to tell them exactly how to make the spankings as humiliating as possible for me! I didn't have any old naked face pictures of myself from back when these selfies were taken, but I found an "almost naked"  regular photo of myself from around the same time frame.   So if any of my friends recognize me from the old days and still want to give me that humiliating spanking they always wanted to give me, they should just contact me and order me to report to them and bring some spanking paddles with me.   Then when I get there, they should strip me buck ass naked, grab me by the ear and pull me over their knees and spank my ass until it's good and red.   If they stay in touch with any of our other old friends, they should invite them over for old times sake.  I'm sure they'd enjoy being in on the fun.   Perhaps they'll all want to spank me on a regular basis to make up for all the times I never got spanked when I should have!  Maybe to add even more to my humiliation, they will want to shave me like in the photos above!   I used to fantasize about my friends spanking me,  as much as they fantasized about giving me a spanking.  I was just too chicken to let them because I knew they'd find out it made my dick hard!   Here's that old photo of me back in the mid 1990's.    All I had on in that photo was that pair of shorts and briefs underneath.   It wouldn't have taken much for my friends to strip me naked and leave me stranded bare!   Perhaps my friends should have stripped me, spanked me and made me ride my bike naked with my red spanked bottom on display like I'm  doing in the more recent photo below!  They all would have got a good laugh out of that!          

This was the 2nd time I'd met with this spanker and one of the few spankings I got that wasn't video recorded.   I'd always been intrigued with the idea of being spanked in bondage, helpless to resist what I had coming, but without knowing this spanker very well, I was a litte afraid to get tied up and worked out this scenario that I thought would be the next best thing.    On arrival, the spanker held a cardboard box in front of me and ordered me to strip and place all of my clothes in the box.    Everything went into the box, even my car keys!   He took the box into another room closing the door behind him, leaving me where I was, buck ass naked.   I had no idea where he put the box, but one thing was certain.   I was naked and I was staying that way until my spanking was over and he decided to give me my clothes back!   While I guess that I was free to leave at any time, I'd have to do so naked, with a red spanked ass!   We were in a small rural community with a population of 1500 people and were in the back room of his business.  It was on a U.S. Highway that was on the main street going through town!   There was no way I was going to leave naked and let everyone in that little town see that me a grown man, had been spanked like a bad little boy!   If I left, I'd have to walk down the main street of that town,  bare, with my bright red, freshly spanked bottom exposed and I was 20 miles from home!   In that small town, I couldn't help but think if the police picked me up, that they would either bring me back there and watch him spank me some more or bring me to the police station and keep me naked and give me another spanking themselves!  Or if someone else picked me up my fate could be even worse than what awaited me here!   So while I wasn't actually in bondage, it was just the same, I knew I'd have to take whatever spanking he decided to give me or suffer the humiliation of leaving naked and face the consequences that might be in store for me!   He laid a piece of countertop across two sawhorses, and the spanking started with me laying over a rolled up blanket with a towel over it.  He told me to masturbate right there in front of him and said he was going spank me with a belt until I came. That way there wouldn't be any sexual arousal for me during the rest of the spanking and it would be pure punishment for me.   I masturbate in a very humiliating way by humping pilows thinking about being ass up over a strict man's knees being spanked.   So I began the embarrassing task of humping the rolled up blanket, right in front of him, as he took the belt to my upthrust ass! It probably wouldn't have been so humiliating if I masturbated the traditional way.    My dick was pulled back between my legs so he could see when I ejaculated.  As my ass thrust up and down his belt came down over and over again!  My bucking, squirming bottom must have made an inticing target for him and his belt!  Once I ejaculated, I had the rest of my spanking waiting for me!  A spanking always hurts more after you c. u. m. !     Now the real spanking was about to start.  But first he let me lay there for a while as he went up front to take care of real business.  I started to wonder what I got myself into.  I looked around the room looking for a way out in case I had to escape. There was an overhead door that must have gone to an alley and the door didn't close all the way to the floor. There was about a 6 inch gap on the bottom.   That in itself was making me even more nervous as I kept thinking that someone walking down the alley would hear my spanking and watch through the gap under the door! There was also a walk door but I didn't know if it was locked or open.  There were also a few windows, that were up high, that I figured I could climb out of if I had to.  But who was I kidding, I had no clothes and my ass was spanked red!  I wasn't going anywhere!     He came back in and eagerly started spanking me a lot harder with the belt.  I had just shot my load  so I didn't want a spanking anymore, but I was getting spanked anyway!   Spanked until he was satisfied! . Yes I was free to leave at any time, but if I did, I'd have to do so naked, and suffer the humiliation of letting everyone in that little town know I'd been spanked at my age! Each time he came back in he'd take some photographs of me and my red ass! After several minutes he walked up front again, leaving me there to think about my situation again.    I heard the UPS truck pull up and he was talking to the driver.  I wondered if the driver knew I was in the back room naked, getting a spanking.   I wondered if they'd both walk through the door so the driver could see me naked and watch me get spanked.  There was also a guy mowing some grass right outside the overhead door.  I could swear he could hear me getting spanked!    My thoughts were interrupted when he came back in and spanked me again.  This time with a paddle.   I couldn't help but think how the overhead door wasn't closed all the way and while I knew the guy mowing couldn't really  hear over the noise of the mower,  I couldn't help think that somehow he knew I was in there getting a spanking!   After spanking me for a while he walked out again, leaving me laying there naked, with a bright red, throbbing hot bottom.   Or what if someone was walking down that alley and heard the paddle smacking my ass and looked under the door?   I looked around the room again wondering if I'd ever get my clothes back.   At this point the spanking was getting intense and I started to think what a bad Idea it was to be in this situation.  Yeah I was naked and pretty much at the mercy of this spanker!   If my clothes were there in the room with me, I could get dressed and leave, but I was naked and had no way of getting dressed.   And he had my car keys too.   All the time I spent alone, thoughts went through my mind wondering what was going to happen to me.  It was as bad as the spanking itself!   After leaving me there for another 10 minutes thinking the worst,  he came back in and took the belt to my ass again.   He was belting me hard!   He stopped just as I thought I couldn't take any more and he walked out again. Then about 15 minutes later he came back and spanked me again.    I wondered how much longer this was going to go on.  My butt was really sore.   That's when he told me he'd be back to give me the OTHER HALF of my spanking, and walked out again!   He came back in again carrying the box of my clothes and told me I could have them back after one more spanking.    I was definitely sore when he finished that last spanking, and after I got dressed we both went up front.  I found out the front door to the business was unlocked and anyone could have walked in while he was spanking me!  I couldn't believe he didn't even lock the front door!  It was pretty intense.  I'd have to say it was the closest thing to being tied down for a spanking without actually being in bondage.  While I could have left at any time, if I did, I would have totally humiliated myself!   I always kept my identity a secret when I met with spankers.  But I found out when I went back out to my car, that one of those times he left me alone in the back room,  that he must have taken my car keys out of my pocket and went through my car and found where I put my driver's license.  He knew who I was now and where I lived!    My driver's license was sticking out from where I had hid it in the car!  He never did or said anything about it.   He actually had more to lose than I did  with public exposure.   He was involved in politics in that little town.    He did actually put me in real bondage and spank me during a later meeting, but that's another story.      

I rarely watched Wagon Train until yesterday when I saw the spanking scene I posted about.   It was funny that it was mentioned that Denny Miller (Duke) spanked character Charlie in a later episode because as soon as I saw Duke walk out onto the set yesterday I couldn't help but think about him spanking me!  Or wonder if he got spanked.  Denny Miller also played Tarzan in the 1959 film.   First I've always been turned on by role reversal spankings where I'm spanked by a much younger guy and he just seemed like he had that attitude of a guy that might spank me.   Second, next to a firm little butt, the thing that turns me on most about a guy is a defined set of pecs and abs.   Dukes lanky appearance just made me think he had these features.  At the end of the spanking scene, the camera faded into Duke and Bill sitting with Duke shirtless.   Duke certainly had those features along with a thick leather belt around his waist that turned me on even more!   The V-shaped waist defined pecs and that wide leather belt around Dukes waist along with a firm little butt caused a stiring in my groin!   Then when I saw him sitting on this rock I couldn't help but think about him stripping me naked and pulling me over his knees like Bill did to Charlie.  Those arms holding me down tight as I bucked and squirmed from the spanking he gave me.   My boner rubbing against those firm thin thighs of his!   I'm sure he'd take off that belt and whip me with it when he was done spanking me too!  Some More Pictures of Denny Miller "Duke" Shirtless In That Same Episode of Wagon Train Yeah thinking about Duke spanking me definitely gave me a boner!

I was watching an old episode of Wagon Train on MeTV today and at the end of Season 4 Episode 30 there was a spanking scene.   Assistant Wagon Master Bill Hawkes (played by actor Terry Wilson) gives wagon train cook Charlie Wooster (played by actor Frank Mc Grath) an over the spanking.   What makes this sceen so unusual is that in this scene Bill is about 38 years old and Charlie the one being spanked is 58 years old!    I guess Bill figures if Charlie is going to act like a little kid he's going to spank him like a little kid!     The story line is that Charlie runs off from the wagon train with another guy looking for a gold mine and Bill and the other guy's grandson have to go looking for them.    Bill is tired, sore and worn out when they find him and Bill tells him that he ran off pouting like a little kid so he's going to treat him like any other little kid that runs off pounting by blistering him!   Before Charlie knows it, he's draped over Bill's knees getting a spanking!   Bill tells him the corny line about how this is going to hurt me a lot more than it's going to hurt him.   I guess that line's been around for a long long time!    Before long Charlie is yelling and telling Bill to stop it before someone sees them!     This took place in 1961 when spanking was commonplace and was actually encouraged by society.   In the 1970's, spanking while still popular,  became a little more discrete and television still spoke about it but didn't actually show the spankings anymore.  They prepared for the spanking and then the camera faded away.   But here the spanking was actually shown!   Charlies worst fear did happen.  Young 26 year old actor Denny Miller walked up and saw Charlie getting a humiliating spanking over the Assistant Wagon Master's knees.. I find in incredibly hot that the writer of the script had the older man getting spanked by the younger actor and then witnessed by an even younger actor.   I wonder how many times they had to do a re-take of this scene!   And I wonder how much actor Frank McGrath (Charlie) got teased by his fellow actors about the spanking he took during that scene?   I wonder if he had a "stunt butt" for the spanking scene?   In those days probably not! 

I described the photo manipulations my buddy Jeff in Florida made depicting my fantasies of court ordered judicial spankings in my last blog post.   https://southspanking.com/groups/adblog/852/a-woodshed-style-strapping/ The Woodshed Style Strapping video I posted of the real ass strapping I took to get the photo Jeff used to make one of those photos, could be looked at like a judicial kind of strapping. It had many of the elements of a judical punishment.  I was bound and helpless to resist the spanking.  I was naked. The strapping was fairly hard.  It went on until the spanker thought I had learned my lesson!   The only thing missing was the audience.  The public element!    I did have the spanker's friend there to watch and help strap me but it wasn't truly a "public" audience.  I've always fantasized about the judicial system giving the option of a humiliating public spanking in lieu of jail time or a fine for minor offences such as traffic violations or minor thefts.   In my fantasies, the offender is stripped naked either right there in court or at a designated time in the town square and spanked in public for everyone to see.  The festivities might be televised on the local cable station so those that can't watch in person can still view the spankings and perhaps there might even be an online archive of the spankings available to memorialize the spankee's shame!  The local newpaper would send a photograper there to capture the event for a newspaper story too!    Yes a judicial spanking would be a big event especially in a smaller community!   Except for a few of us, the public humiliation would most likely curtail future crime. Once a few people are spanked in public other's might not be so eager to break the law  While I'm not sure I would opt for such a humiliating punishment unless the circumstances were right, the thought of it is quite intriguing!  Perhaps something like the risk of a repeat traffic violation on my driving record that could result in the loss of a drivers license or an increase in insurance rates, might motivate me to choose being spanked rather than have the ticket go on my record.  Even for a spanko like me, if the punishment is public enough and humiliating enough it could discourage me from future inappropriate behavior.  But if the alternative penalty is harsh enough and involves more than just money, it could make me opt for a humiliating public spanking rather than simply paying the fine.  My fantasies about this topic were peaked again when I was watching an old episode of "The Practice" on Amazon Prime last week.  While not quite a judicial spanking, it was close!   In this episode of the old courtroom drama, a defendant was a building superintendant and got caught hiding a video recorder in a bathroom air vent in a tenant's apartment.  He posted the naked videos he took of her online.   The judge, recently having sensitive photos of herself posted online, told him he just got the wrong judge and ordered him to stand up and drop his pants and underwear to his ankles right there in court!   Then the judge tells him he hasn't got much to show up front, so he should turn around and let everyone in the gallery see what little he has to show down there!   To exacerbate his humiliation, she orders a continuance and when he starts to pull up his pants she tells him to leave them right where they are - around his ankles - and tells the bailiff to escort him out of the courtroom bare ass, right through the gallery and out into the hallway and back to jail bare!    The only thing that would have been better in my eyes, was if the bailiff was ordered to spank him and then walked him out of the courtroom with an exposed red blistered bottom!    My friend that did the photoshop pictures of me in the Woodshed Style Strapping blog post made another series of judicial spanking photos.  Those scenes depicted an actual courtroom spanking.  He's also interested in judicial corporal punishment themes.   The guys in these photoshop artwork pictures are stripped naked in court and had to wait for the previous defendant to get strapped or birched while they watched and waited their turn.  In my case, I would have got a humilation boner standing there watching!  I'm sure sentences like that would invoke a lot of public involvement in the court procedings, and the humiliation of the scenario might curtail a lot of crime.  It's certainly not manly for a grown adult to get spanked like a naughty little boy in public!  Here's a couple of the Photoshop artwork pieces my friend created.  Yes the theme of public spankings really does turn me on so I created a couple of my own photo manipulations with some pictures of me getting some court ordered discipline.  I'm not nearly as good at it as my friend Jeff but Jeff stopped creating these photos and I had to make some of my own.   One is a rear view and one is a full frontal view.  I'm fully exposed in both.   This first one "artwork" photo is of me given a public enema prior to a court ordered spanking in the town square. I started out with a photo of me bent over the hood of my car and added in the background and the other people. The first photo below is the original picture of me that I started with.  Yes, I got naked outside at home, in my driveway with a red spanked ass, where some neighbors could have seen me!  The second one is the resulting photo manipulation.  In this scenario, the streets around the town square are blocked off for the big event so the offender (me) is bent over the hood of my car in the middle of the street. A young citizen that I know is chosen to give me the enema to make it even more humiliating.  This is especially effective for older offenders like me. The young shirtless guys were chosen by the court, and could be subordinates from my workplace to witness my naked humiliation up close and personal and really drive the shame home!    That would make the punishment worse and make me reluctant to repeat the offense.   There's nothing more satisfying, for the college age guys that work for me, than to see their boss naked and give him an enema and a humiliating spanking! The newspaper photographer is there taking pictures of the punishment as well as the local cable station filming it for those that want to watch at home!   I've always believed that the humiliation of a spanking is as important as the spanking itself.  Things that expose the person being spanked to the view of others and increase his shame make the spanking remembered long after the sting fades away.  For instance, with something like corner time, there's no reason to put someone in a corner if no one is going to see him there!   Anything that adds additional embarrassment to a spanking makes it more effective.  For me, being given an enema during a spanking would be a horribly humiliating experience. Not only is there the anal penetration of the enema nozzle, but even worse is expelling the solution in front of someone!     I'm very shy about going to the bathroom where others are around to hear the sounds and smell the odors!  I'm even shy about using a urinal in public!   I can only imagine the horror of being given an enema and being told to hold it while being spanked, knowing the inevitable release is going to happen.  The spanker knows it's coming too and prolongs the spanking so I can't help but make a public spectacle of such a personal and private moment!  The humiliation and shame will be part of my punishment and my humiliation.  The next photo manipulation is another one I made of myself being inspected prior to being locked in a pillory for a public strapping in the town square.  It's one of those photos I spoke about similar to the ones that my friend Jordan wanted me to post online.  A recent fully exposed picture, naked head to toe with my face showing!   I'll be posting a lot of face pictures in my blog.   It's both scary and exciting.  Perhaps I'm hoping someone I know from vanilla life will see them and recognize me.  If they do I hope they will insist on giving me the humiliating naked spankings I deserve!  Being spanked by someone I know and have to face on a daily basis would be the ultimate spanking humiliation!  If some friends saw my photos and approached me I wouldn't resist and would strip and accept any spankings they wanted to give me!   In this fantasy picture, I'm in the town square and a pillory is set up to carry out the punishment.   But before the belt whipping starts, my genitals are fondled to induce an embarrassing erection!   Kind of like pre game entertainment! The local cable station is filming again and the shirtless guys were chosen again from my place of employment.   They are more than willing to take their belts to their boss's bare ass!     Any attempt at retaliation will result in another public belt spanking at work, right in fornt of all my coworkers.   The young employees are encouraged to take photos and video and tease me when we get back to work. I'm sure they will post it on social media too!  My naked humiliation is a big part of my punishment.   After I've get a good hard boner for everyone to see, I'll be secured in the pillory and all four men will take turns blistering my bottom with their belts. By the time they start the crowds will have gathered and the town square will be filled with spectators to watch my spanking and cheer on the men wielding the belts..   A public spanking is definitely what I deserve.   I often saw others get spanked bare or naked in a public setting and thoroughly ENJOYED their shame and humiliation!      I would get rock throbbing hard watching my buddies asses turn bright red and I always had an ear to ear smirk on my face watching them get spanked.   I felt bad for them, but at the same time, I enjoyed their shame and humiliation. It was that humiliation of being spanked right in front of my smirking face that turned me on the most!   They wanted to see me endure the same fate, but never got the chance to see it. I always wondered how they felt being exposed and spanked right in front of me!    It's that shame and humiliation of a public naked spanking that I have always craved the most.   To this day, it's the  humiliation of being stripped, exposed and reduced to the state of a naughty boy getting a spanking, at my age that still turns me on the most!   For all the times I watched others endure that shame and then went home and jerked off thinking about it, I deserve to be on the receiving end of  a very humiliating public spanking myself.      View my other blog stories here: https://southspanking.com/groups/need2botk/adblog/

(Video Link At End) Here's the story behind some photoshop artwork pictures of me that have been floating around the web,  and the real ass strapping I got in the quest to make the pictures. It wasn't in a woodshed but it was as close as I ever got to a woodshed type strapping. This story goes off in a couple different directions, but bear with me because it's all related. I'm sure you've seen a couple of these pictures before, but probably never realized that real spankings were what motivated the artwork. This was another spanking I got at Bill's Basement in Hammond, IN. Bill usually gives a much less intense spanking but I was trying to find out what a real punishment spanking was like. I was never spanked as a kid and didn't get my first real spanking until I was 47 years old. My spankings had always been more of the erotic kind and they always left me feeling like something was missing. I finally realized my spankings were not like the ones I got to watch in my younger years. Those spankings never started with a "warmup" over jeans or briefs or with a hand spanking. They got spanked bare, hard and fast, right from the start with a paddle or belt. So I asked Bill to give me an authentic punishment spanking, staying within the limits of doing no damage. Above is a photo manipulation I made.  Yes that's my naked red spanked ass hanging out of the car window.   I added in the guy with the belt.   I've always been fascinated with belt spankings.   Most of my friends got spanked with a belt, so the belt always intrigued me.    Before I got my first real spanking, I paddled myself just to see what a spanking might feel like but I couldn't effectively spank myself with a belt, so the belt always remained elusive and fearful to me.  When I heard the crack of a belt on bare ass, it just sounded so wicked!  I got a small taste of a belt spanking a couple times, but I have yet to get a serious belt whipping.  It's on my list of things to experience!   This "woodshed strapping" all started with a discussion I had with a spankthishookups friend named Jeff from Florida. He does photoshop artwork where he takes a photo of someone and adds in a spanking background to the photo. Both of us are interested in Woodshed strappings. Or should I say we're both fascinated with woodshed strappings! We both like all the nuances related to a strapping like that. The naked walk of shame being marched from the house, outside to the shed, the dreaded sawhorse sitting out in the shed or barn taking front stage reminding a boy what's in store for him if he misbehaves, the old worn strap hanging over the sawhorse, and on a farm or ranch, the ranch-hands or farmhands standing out in the yard smirking as you're being marched bare out to the shed - knowing from personal experience what's about to happen to your naked ass. Yeah all those elements make a woodshed strapping very hot for both of us. We are also both also intrigued with judicial spankings. One where a court might order a grown man or young adult to get spanked in public as punishment for some offense. Both of these spanking scenarios I described have the element of public exposure and humiliation!   Well my friend Jeff offered to make a few of these photos, with me in them and that required some naked pictures of myself for him to start with. We began with the judicial spanking scene. Let me back up a minute and tell you about a dare that my online friend Jordan had me do. I've mentioned Jordan in some of my other blog posts and he has this amazing ability to get me to do all kinds of spanking related things that I should have better sense not to do! Jordan dared me about 10 years prior, to spank my own ass and then go outside wearing only a t-shirt and gym shoes and take a few photos of myself. Yeah I did that dare. That first dare I did at 3am so there weren't many people around. But it was so exhilarating to get naked in a public place where someone might catch me. You might say that's not so daring, but the thing is I lived at my job so I did the dares at work!  Well about 10 years had gone by and Jordan had forgotten about the dare until I posted the photos, recently on my spanking profile. These pictures made him ask me if I'd been spanked lately. I hadn't been so he challenged me to the second dare. This time he challenged me to spank my ass inside my residence again and then walk 1500 feet away wearing only a sweater and boots. It was December in Chicago. I had family staying with me at the time so I couldn't spank myself at home, but I still wanted to do Jordan's dare. I thought for a while asking myself where I could do this and decided to just do all the spanking outside. Not only that, but I decided to strip naked before I started the walk, go further than the 1500 feet and do it in broad daylight!  I was actually outside at work, buck ass naked with a red spanked ass for almost an hour and walked around the business property about a mile in distance. I'll share the details of Jordan's dares in some future blog posts.    Above is a photo of me doing Jordan's naked self spanking dare at work!  Completely exposed for almost an hour wearing only a pair of boots, carrying a Jokari paddle, and a sign around my neck saying to give me the real spanking I deserve so there would be no doubt in anyone's mind what they should do to me if they caught me!   But back to my friend Jeff's Photoshop pictures and the real ass strapping I got in the making of those pictures.   Well this judicial punishment scenario my photoshop friend was doing, was a scenario that we pretended was a court ordered public spanking if I had been caught doing the naked self spanking dare that Jordan challenged me to do. (No I didn't actually get caught doing that dare, but I probably was seen by passing cars!) But this was a what if I got caught scenario and a court decided to give me a suitable punishment for spanking myself naked outside by ordering a naked spanking in the town square. We talked about a scenario where an offender was marched naked or driven naked being spanked along the way to a stage set up in the town square. Once there, he's brought up on stage and paddled and strapped for the amusement of everyone there. The spanking would be well announced ahead of time in the media so the offenders' friends and enemies could come by to watch. The public nature of such a punishment is similar to the public corporal punishment law breakers received in days gone by to maximize their humiliation!  The first photoshop artwork he did, depicted me naked on a platform on the back of a tractor being spanked and slowly driven through town as the spanking was announced on a speaker, calling members of the public, to meet us at the town square to watch and help spank my ass.  Above is the artwork my friend Jeff created from a photo I took of me standing naked on the back of a tractor.   He used Photoshop to add in the background of the town, the guy standing next to me giving me the spanking, and all the people in the street with belts, paddles and straps following us to the town square to watch and help give me my public spanking. Below a close up of me on the tractor. A little side story, one of the other pictures we took involved handcuffing myself in one of the equipment buildings at work. I remember Jeff warning me to be careful. The building has a gravel floor and I cuffed myself naked, with my hands in front of me. I left the key in the cuffs and unknown to me it fell out somewhere while I was setting things up for the photos. So there I was buck ass naked in a building at work with my hands in handcuffs and I couldn't find where I dropped the key in the loose gravel floor!   It was like looking for a needle in a haystack! At first panic set in, then I remembered years ago getting the cuffs open with a paperclip and pliers. I looked all over for both items. I found a pair of pliers but I couldn't find a paperclip. Hey it was a workshop not an office! I did find some thin wire, but it was too soft and it bent when I tried using it. Then after about 30 minutes of walking around naked with my hands cuffed in front of me, I found a paperclip. It was much harder to reach things holding the paperclip in one hand and the pliers in the other, while in cuffs and bend it to use as a key. I finally managed to get out of the cuffs and get the photos Jeff needed. I was so glad one of my college age employees didn't come in and find me like that helpless to resist, with my ass spanked red and paddles laying around!  They certainly could have had some fun with their boss's naked ass making it a lot redder!  The next day we took the pictures for the woodshed strapping scene. I was self spanking as we were doing all of this to make it more fun. I knew Jeff could add the red to my ass very easily with Photoshop but I decided to spank myself to make it more realistic. We had to retake several of the photos to get the pose just right. My ass was raw red by the time we finished as I had to redo the photos and also the spankings several times to get the pose right. Sometimes I think Jeff had me do it over just so I'd paddle myself again! Below is a picture depicting a naked walk of shame out to a woodshed for a strapping.  Both of us are really turned on by this type of spanking scenario.  Like I mentioned before, it has all the essential elements that make that walk of shame so embarrassing!   The big strong disciplinarian with strap in hand,  the naked spankee feeling so small and helpless, the observers standing in the background about to enjoy the show!  It would be so humiliating for the one about to get spanked!  Jeff decided to make a picture of me taking a naked walk of shame out to the barn for an ass strapping.  I was instructed to send him some naked pictures of myself,  walking away from the camera with my head down in shame and my hands behind my back.   The photo below is the end result of Jeff's artwork.  Jeff used a photo of me walking with my head down in shame and my hands behind my back and added in the background of the porch and barn/shed in the background, representing me taking the naked walk of shame out to the shed for my "woodshed strapping".  I love the way he added in all the little details like my briefs hanging prominently by the door letting everyone else in the house know someone is out in the shed getting an ass whoopin’  and the reflection of me in the mirror letting people in other rooms  get a glimpse of me walking out to the barn. The next couple photos Jeff made of me were pictures depicting me the boss, getting a strapping in front of my college age employees at work.   Those guys often made comments to me during some spanking conversations we had insinuating that they would have enjoyed spanking my ass themselves. I've always been turned on by role reversal spankings where someone like me that's usually in charge gets spanked by someone I'm usually in charge of.  The added humiliation just makes the spanking so much more effective!    I often fantasized about them doing just that. Spanking me.   Or getting to watch me get spanked.   For the next photo, Jeff instructed me to take a photo of myself with a boner, and my head hung down in shame again with my hands behind my back to prevent me from covering my boner in front of the young farmhands.   A boner I have because my ass is about to get strapped, adding even more to my humiliation.   The young hot shirtless "farmhands" represented my college age workers who would have loved to see the boss get stripped naked for a spanking.    We were working on the final picture for him to use of me bent over the sawhorse actually getting strapped and we couldn't get the pose just right. That's when I had the idea of calling Bill and asking him to give me a real strapping and my plan was to use stills from the video as the photos for Jeff to work with. I told Bill I wanted him to tie me down to a sawhorse, buck ass naked, and strap my ass good and hard. I said I wanted him to strap me the way a strict farm dad of the 1950's would have strapped his deliberately disobedient 18 year old son out in the barn or woodshed. While I set limits of no broken skin and no major bruising, I did want a realistic punishment strapping. At least harder than I've had so far. It was all set up and I called Bill to say I was on the way. He caught me by surprise when he said, "We're waiting for you!" Who was the we? Who else was going to be there when I got strapped? I was tense the rest of the 75 minute drive. I do enjoy the added humiliation of getting spanked in front of others, but I had no idea who was there, and this was going to be a serious ass spanking for me. When I arrived he introduced me to his friend John. I always worry that I'm going to run into someone I know from "vanilla life" at Bills. Someone that doesn't realize I'm into getting my ass spanked! It turns out his friend John used to live only 5 minutes away from me! We both kept looking at each other like we knew one another, but we couldn't place where! I set up my video cameras then stripped, and bent over the sawhorse and the two of them took some rope and bound my hands and feet to the legs of the horse. The feeling of being tied down to the sawhorse, totally helpless, naked with my ass sticking out, about to get the ass strapping of my life was pretty incredible! Then the strapping began. They took turns, at first one lashing my ass ten or so times and then the other. Then one guy gave me one lash and then the other gave me one. One right after the other, from each side. The lashes were hard and kept getting harder. I was yelling out, and gasping for air. My ass cheeks were just quivering from the sting! Eventually Bill stopped and came next to my ear and said, "You wanted it hard didn't you" I said I thought that was hard, but Bill laid into my naked ass again, even harder than before. I think he used every strap he had on my ass. When he untied me, and I looked at my ass in the mirror, my ass had a bluish tint to it. I thought for sure it was going to turn into a mass of bruises, but it didn't. It was sore for 4 days though. I got my first taste of what I would consider a serious ass strapping. This was the third session in my recent quest for a realistic punishment spanking. Above is the actual screencap photo from the video that Jeff used for his artwork photo.   The picture below is the artwork Jeff created.   The final artwork photo that I “took” the real strapping for.  The image of myself taken from the photo above and a background added with bystanders.  My arms and legs bound to the horse so I can’t get away.  The hot shirtless young guys grinning from ear to ear, eager to see me, their boss,  buck ass naked getting his ass strapped!  I'm not spanked in private, but publicly positioned outside in the yard in front of my subordinates, forced to face them and make eye contact.  My naked ass strapping is their entertainment for the day!   Every time we see each other in the days to come, that grin will spread across their faces again, reminding me just how much they enjoyed watching me get spanked!  Yes, we’ll both remember in vivid detail,  just how much I bucked, squirmed and yelled out as the punishment strap lit my bottom on fire!  There’s the  big heavy strap and big burly strapper that can really put some muscle into an ass strapping.  His artwork is very much like a Norman Rockwell drawing with all the nuances and details carefully chosen to tell the complete story.  Below is  a link to a video of that ass strapping! Bill posted the video on spankingtube and a few other places, but this is the hi resolution version of it. This was my first attempt at using two video cameras for two angles of view. Hope you enjoy it. https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B0svmfWrnjyPZWoxLXdQemNMRms/view?usp=share_link&resourcekey=0-IuC9MprSUcvRrDApsOPBbA

  The groove spanking is a very effective spanking method.   It's a spanking right in a naughty boy's butt crack - his groove!   The area between the cheeks is very tender indeed.   The inner cheeks that form the sides of the butt crack, the area between a guy's balls and hole and the bullseye!   The butt hole itself.  While extreme caution has to be used not to do any damage in this area, a light spanking here can be horribly painful.    The best way to position a boy for a groove spanking is in the diaper position, laying on his back with his legs pulled back over his head and spread wide.  It's best to tie the legs in this position so the spanker doesn't have to hold them, or even more embarrassing letting others who are there to witness the spanking hold them for you.   As an alternative, making the boy participate in his own punishment, you can make him spread and hold his own butt cheeks wide apart for the spanking.   It will take quite a bit of self control to keep the cheeks spread wide apart during the groove spanking!   As I mentioned in previous posts, the diaper position is very humiliating because eye contact can be made between the person being spanked and the spanker and audience.   It's also very embarrassing because his butt hole is a guy's most private and vulnerable area and to have it exposed for punishment is downright humiliating!    One of my first experiences with a groove spanking was when I was in my mid 50's and a young 23 year old college student named Freddie spanked me.  What made this spanking especially embarrassing is that Freddie spanked me in his campus apartment.  The building was full of college students that had to hear me getting paddled and belted!   They probably knew from personal experience exactly what that sound was.   Freddie just loved to spread my butt cheeks wide apart and hand spank, paddle and belt me right in my groove!  The paddle is harder to use in this area, but a narrow belt is a perfect implement for a groove spanking.    I swear Freddie was aiming the tip of his belt right for the bullseye - my butt hole!  A spanking right on the hole stings something horrible!   Especially the lash of a thin belt!    Freddie exposing and checking out the target!   It was truly embarrassing feeling his hands grasp my butt cheeks, pulling them wide apart, exposing my most private place, knowing he was going to spank it!  ​ Freddie using one hand to spread my crack open as he uses the edge of a paddle to spank the outer edges of my groove.  The groove spanking is humiliating because you know how exposed you are. You know the spanker is looking right at your butt hole and it's painful too because this area is very tender. Freddie checking things out and finding my groove is starting to turn red. The next day there were some bruises where the tip of Freddie's belt landed in the center of my wide spread groove!   Some other Groove Spankings I got:        There's no doubt about it.   A groove spanking makes for a very embarrassing and very memorable spanking.   It's best to have the miscreant buck ass naked for a groove spanking.  Ideally the groove spanking should be given in front of an audience.   Embarrassment and humiliation are  key elements of any spanking.  They are as important a part of a spanking as the spanking itself!  A groove spanking accomplishes all of this!   Link to my last blog post about Mouthsoaping: https://southspanking.com/groups/adblog/853/mouthsoaping-just-turns-me-on/   Link to all my blog posts: https://southspanking.com/groups/need2botk/adblog/

  Although I never got a spanking until I was 47 years old, I did get to witness many spankings and I always had an ear to ear smirk on my face whenever I watched someone get one.   I often wondered what it would be like to be in their place, getting spanked myself with them enjoying the show and me being the one enduring the humiliation!   They all knew I had never been spanked before, and often told me that the one thing they really wanted to see was me get a spanking. They even tried arranging it a few times but somehow I always escaped getting the spankings they thought I deserved!   For all the times I enjoyed watching my friends getting spanked, I think it would be "just punishment" for someone I know to see me get a humiliating spanking and enjoy my humiliation the way I used to enjoy seeing their spankings!   Whether it be watching an online video of me getting spanked or even better yet, seeing it in person!  It would be especially humiliating to me if it were people watching that I didn't realize were into the same kinks.While I've had many guys into spanking see me get spanked, I've never been spanked in front of an "ordinary friend"!   I really wonder how many people have had someone they know, recognize a spanking photo or video of them online? It's the humiliation aspect of spanking that turns me on the most, so I have to admit I do get very turned on thinking about the humiliation of someone I know in ordinary life, finding out I get stripped naked and spanked like a naughty boy at my age!   I'm pretty sure that most of those friends I saw getting spanked years ago, would still enjoy seeing me get a spanking, even today! I have a spanking friend named Jordan.  Jordan and I have never met in person yet, but I think of him as a devious little brother! . He got the most humiliating spankings from his own dad well into college, so he has first hand experience about the effectiveness of spanking humiliation.  Jordan is about 30 years younger than me and has tried to get me to post face pictures on some of my spanking profiles.  I used to own a business where having those pictures discovered, could have been detrimental to the business, so I was always very cautious to block out my face from the photos I posted online.   About 5 years ago I sold that business and retired.   I told Jordan a few months before the sale, that I would post a couple face pics on my profile when the business was sold.   As soon as the sale was complete, Jordan kept bugging me to post the pictures, saying I have nothing to lose now except my pride and dignity.  He also said that some real humiliation is just what I need. I am pretty sure Jordan was hoping someone I know from "vanilla" life would see the photos and recognize me and realize I get spankings now!  And honestly I think I'm secretly hoping to endure that humiliation too!  So I told him okay I'll post a face pic.  I showed him one to get his approval and he says, "Oh no, not that kind of face pic, you have to post a buck ass naked face pic!   Not one with clothes on! Naked head to toe with your face showing "   Now when I agreed to post a face pic, I never even thought about one fully naked!  It was bad enough posting a face picture of myself with all my clothes on, knowing there were other naked pictures out there along with it!    But as I'll mention in many of my blog posts, Jordan has this amazing ability to get me to do some very risky things related to naked exposure and spanking!    I had a lot of photos on my profiles with my face blocked out, so he told me to go back and find the original pictures and update one of those, reposting it unedited!   It was scary, but I have to admit it made my dick hard!  It was also thrilling and exciting knowing I was going to be naked and fully exposed online with my face showing!   Then after I found one, I couldn't help myself, I had to look for another one.  So I went back and found one of those photos that I thought would be particularly embarrassing.  One of me naked with a bar of soap in my mouth!   I've always had a fascination with mouthsoapings.  That picture will be shown a little futher below.  While I didn't get spanked growing up, I did get my mouth washed out with soap as punishment.  I truly hated mouthsoapings back then, and still do, but for some reason the thought of having my mouth soaped along with getting my bottom spanked, just excites me now.  My interest really peaked after a 19 year old "kid" from work told me about the awful mouthsoapings and bare bottom belt spankings he got from his dad.  The kid told me how his dad put the soap in his mouth and set a kitchen timer for 30 minutes.  He didn't tell me specifics about the soaping but he did make sure to tell me he got the belt bare ass!  In fact he made sure to tell me several times that he got the belt bare,  so I'm assuming his pants were still down or off when the bar of soap went into his mouth!   He told me how really awful it was, standing there (I'm assuming with his bare belt spanked butt on display), listening to the tick-tock of the timer,  waiting for it to ding!   He said he stood there drooling soap suds saying how awful it was and described how sometimes he'd try to hold the soap with his teeth to get it off his tongue, but said that just made things worse.  He said soap would be all soft and gooey by then and he said it would just get caked in his teeth and made it that much harder to rinse out after the timer rang!  I definitely got a boner as he told me about his spankings and mouthsoapings and pictured that sweet little heinie of his whipped red with a belt and him standing there with his mouth drooling soap suds!   From the way he was talking it sounded like this happened very recently!  That's a real photo of him above.   I definitely got turned on at work looking at that firm little butt of his and thinking about how he got spanked with a belt!    In fact there were a few times I would have enjoyed spanking him myself.   I'll tell in another blog story, he had the same thoughts about spanking me, his boss!   We had a few conversations at work about the topic of spanking, and he made some comments about how he wanted to turn the tables and take his belt to my ass!   If he only knew it gave me a boner thinking about him whipping my ass with his belt.  Or maybe he did know! Maybe the thought of it gave him a boner too! After "the kid" told me about his mouthsoapings and belt spankings, I had to try soaping my own mouth again.  I soaked the bar of soap in a bowl of hot water for an hour to make it all soft and gooey like he described and set a timer for 30 minutes.    I didn't make it to 30 minutes like he had to during his punishments, but the photo below show the mouthful of gooey soap I had trying to replicate his mouth soapings.   Below are some pictures of me from about 25 years ago of me around age 40, doing a self soaping that someone ordered me to do online.  This was about 5 years before I got that first real spanking I posted about earlier. It's one of a a series of pictures I took that same day carrying out the instructions I was given by my online spanker.  I belonged to a Yahoo Group called "Self Spanking" and people would make up spanking "assignments" for each other to do/  These are the photos I took to show proof that I completed the tasks.  (Unfortunately I deleted a lot of the original older photos of myself that I cropped my face out of.) These are photos from the Self Soaping/Self Spanking assignment I did in 2000 . I just can't help it,  standing there buck ass naked, and seeing the bar of soap being soaked to wash out my mouth and seeing the paddle sitting there waiting to spank my bottom with just gives me an incredible boner! ​ Getting the soap out of the sink remembering how awful this was as a boy. A bar of Ivory soap is an awful thing for someone about to get a mouthsoaping to see and smell!    I really can't believe I posted the photo below as one of my debut face pics on an adult "social media" site!   Yes,  I'm secretly hoping that someone who knows me WILL recognize me, and confront me demanding that I strip naked and bend over their knees for the humiliating spanking I deserve!  The first mouthsoaping I had since I was a boy being disciplined by my parents.   The mouthsoapings I got growing up were never combined with a spanking!  It's even more humiliating to get a mouthsoaping and spanking at this age!     Laying on the couch thinking about the spanking I still have coming.  I have quite the boner thinking about the spanking I have to give myself.    And finally spanked.  And yes, even at this age you can see the tighty whities that I wore laying on the floor!  Up until 10 years ago those were the only underwear I owned!   I wear color briefs today, but I still have plain white briefs that I wear whenever I get a spanking!  I guess wearing tighty-whities puts me in the mindset that I'm just a boy that needs his bare bottom spanked! ​ Some recent mouthsoaping photos of me that weren't included in my original blog post.   :Having to do corner time in front of a window with it dark outside and all the lights on in the room makes for some very humiliating corner time.   Above the view from outside. Above the view from inside.  ha Below is one final mouthsoaping picture of me.   This is from a future blog post that was dedicated to a fantasy I had about that young man from work that got the belt spankings and mouthsoapings at home, making good on his comments about wanting to spank me, his boss.   It would have been so humiliating if he spanked me in front of all his co-workers.  I wouldn't doubt that he would wash the boss's mouth out with soap while he was spanking me too!   Right in front of everyone!   I've discussed mouthsoaping with many spankers and most of them just aren't into it.  I can't belive how difficult it is to get someone to give me a mouthsoaping during a spaanking. So many spankers don't realize how effective a little humiliation can be during a spanking.   Hopefully some day I'll find a spanker that's into mouthsoaping and will not only wash my mouth out with soap, but will spank me and have me do naked cornertime with the soap still in my mouth.  Right in front of an audience of smirking observers .  Mouthsoaping like cornertime is best served in front of an audience!   So in this blog post, there's old pics for those who may have known me in years gone by and new pics for those who might know me now!   If someone does recognize me don't hesitate to tell me it's time for my spanking and that I'd better start stripping because spankings are given buck ass naked!  And if I get sassy or disrepectful during the spanking don't hesitate to wash my mouth out with a bar of soap ! See my other blog entries here: https://southspanking.com/groups/need2botk/adblog/    

After I got my first punishment spanking I knew that was the kind of spanking I needed from that day on.  Hard and fast right from the start without a warmup.   Like the spankings I enjoyed seeing my friends get growing up.   This spanking was also courtesy of Bill's Basement in Hammond, Indiana.  It started out like the first punishment spanking.  I was stripped BUCK ASS NAKED and bent over Bill's knees and spanked like a naughty boy! Only this time Bill arranged for a couple other guys to be there to watch and help spank me.   As that brush did it's work, I was yelping and gasping for breath in no time, not only looking like a naughty boy over Bill's knees, but sounding and feeling like one too!  The two guys watching were enjoying the sights and sounds as the spanking progressed.   Bill had me stand up, stick my butt out and put my hands on my knees.   He handed them the hairbrush and a belt and told them they could spank me themselves!  The guy in the leather vest seemed new at giving spankings.   He wasn't sure how hard to hit me.  But the other guy had spanked me before and spanked much harder.    The diaper position has got to be the most humiliating position to be spanked in - especially for someone my age!    I mean, not only does it give the spanker the opportunity to make eye contact with me and see my facial expressions as I'm being spanked, but it lets me see just how much he's enjoying giving me the spanking!   Yeah, I can see the smirk of satisfaction on his face as he turns my ass bright red and makes me howl!  And with the two guys grabbing and holding my legs back and wide apart, everything is in view.   My face, my dick, my balls, and even my butt hole!  How humiliating!  Below, you can see how I even get spanked right on my heinie hole!   The most sensitive place on a bottom to get spanked!  And the guys are definitely enjoying exposing my hole and spanking me right on the bullseye!     For this next part of the spanking I'm tied down to a spanking bench and completely immobilized for a hand spanking, strapping and paddling. While the hand spanking isn't that painful, it is certainly humiliating, having another guy slap, squeeze  and fondle your bare backside, knowing you're helpless to do anything to avoid it!  It also gives him the opportunity to spread apart my butt cheeks and expose my heinie hole adding even more to the shame of my punishment!  I didn't realize it at the time but these pictures show my exposed boy hole!  They also show just how turned on I became being bound and helpless as I got the spanking I deserved.   My dick was leaking precum from knowing my dick and balls were pulled back between my legs and exposed to everyone's view as my bottom got spanked red hot!   I'm not sure why, but being tied down to the spanking bench like that, always makes my dick leak like that!   I guess it just shows how much I deserve to be spanked!    While I was on the spanking bench the other two guys got in a little spanking play of their own, but when they were done, one of them wanted me over his knees for another hand spanking.  He pulled my dick and balls back and let them rub against his bare thigh as he spanked my bottom red again.   It's definitely embarrassing for a grown man to be naked and bent over another man's knees getting spanked like a naughty little boy!        Then Bill gave both of us one final spanking.   You can see my bottom ended up much redder than his. It's also more embarrassing being the only one buck ass naked! Watch two videos of me getting that spanking: 2nd Punishment Spanking Part 1 OTK and Belt 2nd Punishment Spanking Part 2 Diaper Position and Spanking Bench   See my previous blog entries here: https://southspanking.com/groups/need2botk/adblog/      

A spanking is much more effective if the person being spanked is embarrassed and humiliated during the spanking.   My spanking friend Jordan once told me that the pain of a spanking is temporary but the shame of a spanking lasts forever.   Jordan's dad knew this and so did the teachers where I went to high school.   The embarrassment and humiliation of a spanking lasts long after the sting of the spanking fades away.   That's why Jordan's dad spanked him naked in the living room in front of his younger brothers and even his own friends, and that's why the teachers in school paddled a guy in front of the entire class.   In fact the gym teachers often waited to paddle a guy until he was buck ass naked in the showers.   Jordan told me how embarrassed he was when he got a boner before his spanking and it ended up pulled back between his legs for his brothers or friends to see as he bucked and squirmed over his dad's knees.   As he kicked and squirmed, even his butt hole was on display.   Likewise when a guy in school had to bend over, grab his ankles, and spread his legs wide apart for a paddling in the locker room, his dick, balls and his hole were in full view of the entire class.   Those teachers always made a show out of paddling a guy's ass.     The photo above from the web shows the way a guy had to "assume the position" for a paddling in the high school locker room if he got paddled in the showers!    There were four classes of 25 students taking gym and showering at the same time, everyone naked, all watching the show the teacher was putting on spanking the guy!   You could see his dick and balls dangling down between his legs, his face looking back and even his butt hole exposed!   Everyone watching was excited.  The paddled guy's humiliation was a major part of his punishment!   Then he had to go back and finish his shower with his red paddled ass on display for everyone to tease him about!   Yes it was all about public humiliation!     The spanking chair helps expose a "boy" being spanked, making a show out of his spanking, adding to his shame and humiliation. That in turn makes him remember the spanking long after the pain of the spanking goes away.   The shame of the spanking will be remembered every time he sees his friends or siblings knowing they saw him spanked in such a humiliating way.  Every time they see him, a smirk will spead across their faces and they will think about his red spanked bottom, and how exposed he was.   That image of him will be burned into their minds forever, and they'll always remember how he was stripped naked and spanked.  He'll remember just how humiliating it was and they'll remember just how hilarious it was!     A guy can be spanked in the spanking chair, or it can be used to completely expose him during corner time.        Here I am kneeling on the spanking chair prior to a spanking.  I'm totally aware my bottom is sticking out just begging to be spanked.      ​   Another humiliating use of the Spanking Chair is to have me spread my cheeks  for a "groove spanking"!   A wooden spoon or a thin lightweight belt would be an effective implement for a spanking in this most tender area!   Any audience will be highly entertained listening to me howl and watching me squirm as I'm warned not to let go and keep my cheeks spread wide apart. Making me participate in my own punishment and humiliation makes the spanking that much more effective for me and makes it that much more amusing for anyone watching!   If I fail to keep myself fully exposed, the "groove spanking" will start over again!  You can also make me stand on the Spanking Chair calling even more attention to my humiliating predicament.  This puts my exposure right at an audience's eye level.   If my friend's were there they would never let me forget the view they had of my dangling balls and my butt hole!   ​  ​​ Kneeling on the spanking chair with a red bottom knowing the spanking is far from over. What I really deserve is to be buck ass naked on the Spanking Chair in front of several of my own friends who are grinning from ear to ear and  enjoying the show.   From that day on they'll know exactly how I GET SPANKED!  I haven't spent time on the "Spanking Chair" in front of a grinning and smirking audience yet, but perhaps someday I will.   For all the times in my youth, I enjoyed watching my friends get spanked  knowing my own bottom was relatively safe from a spanking, It would be poetic justice to find out exactly what that humiliation feels like!   I certainly deserve to spend some quality time, kneeling and standing on the Spanking Chair!   Buck ass naked and totally exposed for everyone to see! Check out my other blog entries here: https://southspanking.com/groups/need2botk/adblog/

My First Punishment Type Spanking I had been getting spankings for about 8 years, but I always felt something was missing. Those spankings started out with a hand spanking warmup and then progressed to leather implements and then sometimes to wooden paddles. They lacked the serious intent like the spankings I watched my friends get growing up. My friend's spankings never had a warmup and they never started over clothes.  They got their pants and underwear pulled down and they got spanked hard and fast, on a bare ass, right from the start.  This was one of my first few spankings at Bill's Basement.  Bill usually gave a much less intense spanking, but I told Bill that I wanted this spanking to be a real punishment type spanking. I told him I needed to be spanked the way a strict dad of the 1950's would punish his teenage son. I said I wanted to be spanked hard and fast right from the start. I also mentioned that I heard a hairbrush was a horrible implement to be spanked with, so I said I wanted my spanking with a brush! Yes I couldn't believe I was actually asking for a hairbrush spanking after all I heard about one.  I asked Bill to strip me naked, bend me over his knees and spank me hard and fast with that brush like a naughty boy!   That's exactly what he did. I had previously always been very stoic during a spanking, hardly uttering a sound. Those hand spanking warmups always got the endorphins flowing and "numbed up" my butt before any serious spanking started. This spanking was entirely different. I never felt my bottom burn so much! I was yelping and gasping for breath in no time. In fact I thought I was going to hyperventilate. I stayed in position for the most part, but to give you an idea of how much my bottom stung, I pushed the bench that Bill was sitting on right out of the view of his camera with just my toes pushing against the floor! Luckily I had my own video camera running too with a wider angle of view that captured the spanking.  My change in reaction must have worried Bill because he stopped the spanking a bit too soon, but I got my first taste of what I'd call a real spanking!              Here's a link to a video of the spanking: https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B0svmfWrnjyPQ0FMQnFkQWY4amc/view?usp=share_link&resourcekey=0-Mujj-c0csbOE9jaSYDiRVA  

©2023 Need2botk It was a very memorable day, the day I got my ass spanked for the very first time and I have to admit it, that spanking was more than 30 years overdue.  Although I was threatened with spankings all the time growing up, I never actually got one!  However, I was fascinated with spanking as long as I can remember.  I loved watching my buddies get spanked when I was a teen.   In fact I've been jerking off to the thought of getting spanked, or thinking about the spankings I’ve witnessed since I was 11 years old.  The one thing that has really turned me on is is thinking about the added shame of a much younger guy spanking me! Then one day I got an online message that said "I'm young and I spank!"  It was from a 23 year old guy that we'll call Matthew and he was offering to give me the real spanking I'd been fantasizing about for so many years!   He was really excited about the prospect of stripping a 47 year old man buck ass naked and putting him just where he belonged, ass up over his knees, for a good sound bare bottom spanking.  He said he likes spanking older men, with nice meaty butts, and from the pictures I sent him, he said I had the “perfect target“.   We missed several attempts at meeting but finally connected that Thursday afternoon.  I was extremely nervous about being spanked,  but Matthew tried to make me feel comfortable.  At least as comfortable as possible for my first time, but to be blunt, I was scared shitless!  This was the first time someone was going to strip me!  Yep, I was going to get spanked naked!  I had no idea what to expect.  I had spanked my own ass many times before, just to see what a spanking might feel like, but this was different.  This was the real thing. I wasn't in control this time.  I was worried he was going to whack my ass a few times and I would change my mind. I didn't want to look like a wimp and was hoping I'd be able to take a hard enough spanking to satisfy this young man.   I figured I had to do this, and since I told him previously that this might be a good day to meet, I just got in my truck and headed toward Matthew's house, figuring I'd call him in route.  I got to his house and was still unable to contact him by phone.  I couldn't believe this!  I had actually worked up the courage to meet up with a guy to give me my first real spanking and he wasn’t home!   I had chatted with a lot of guys that wanted to spank me but I never followed through and actually scheduled a time to meet before.   I wanted to get spanked so bad!  I needed a spanking!  I deserved to have my ass spanked red hot!  After a couple more attempts to call him,  I headed to a store, about 15 minutes from his house to waste some time.  My dick was semi hard the entire time I was in the store and my balls ached just thinking about the spanking I might be in for.  I aimlessly roamed around the store for an hour, the excitement in my crotch and balls, building as I waited.  I tried calling again, my stomach churning and my dick throbbing at the prospect of him answering the phone.  Still no answer!     I wanted to be stripped naked and bent over his knees and spanked so bad!  I had left the store and was headed back toward his house when he finally answered the phone.  I told him I was nearby and asked if he still wanted to to this.  It was like music to my ears when I heard him say "definitely!"  He had previously sent me some photos of himself, but I figured they were pictures of someone else because he looked like a model.  He looked so hot I figured he couldn't possibly be interested in spanking an older guy like me, but when I saw him standing in the driveway waiting for me I realized the pictures he sent were real!  I couldn’t believe my eyes.  I found out later he actually was a model and had done some spanking porn before!  I grabbed the bag out of the truck with my paddles, a video camera and the butt plug he told me to bring with. As soon as we got inside, he got right down to the task at hand and said lets go upstairs.  He just came home from work and was dressed in black dress pants and a white long sleeve shirt.  He took off his shoes and rolled up his shirtsleeves as I set up the video camera to record my first ass spanking. Unlike me - he was so calm and knew exactly what he was doing.  He had me stand in front of him as he pulled my shirt out of my jeans shorts and then up over my head, setting it down on the dresser.  Then I felt his fingertips starting to unfasten my belt buckle, unbutton my shorts and lower the zipper.  Before I knew it, I was stepping out of my jeans shorts, and they were put on the dresser with my shirt.   I was starting to get hard, just like I hoped I would.  Matthew sat down on the bed and me pulled over one knee.  He rubbed my brief clad butt and started to hand spank me.  They were easy smacks, but I think he spent more time feeling the shape and curves of my butt cheeks through my tighty whities.  I wanted to just start humping his leg, but modesty got the best of me and I restrained myself and just laid there submissively.  My legs were shaking uncontrollably and I remember him telling me to relax that I was in good hands. How could I possibly relax?  I just let a guy I never met before strip me down to my briefs,  and I was bent over his knees getting a spanking.  I had never let anyone strip me before and I had never been spanked before.  There was no way I could relax!   The slow soft hand spanks turned into harder faster spanks.  I can remember how nervous I was but at the same time it felt so good laying over this young man's knees, letting him give me that spanking I only dreamed about before. After about 50 hand spanks on my tighty whities, he told me to get up again.  As I obediently stood before him,  I felt his fingertips slip under the elastic waistband of my briefs.  It felt so weird as I sensed his fingertips slide down my flanks as he lowered my briefs and told me to step out of them.   Except for the socks which I forgot about, I was buck ass naked!  Totally bare!   Completely exposed!  There was no being modest anymore, I was naked and under the control of a guy half my age. And I was getting spanked!   He didn’t bother to turn me around to look at how red my ass was.  Nope.  Matthew just pulled me back over his knee, buck ass naked for another spanking.   As humiliating as it was, I wanted to be right where Matthew had me, my naked butt sticking up just begging to be spanked.   I had dreamed of this day so many times, I couldn‘t believe it was actually happening!   The whole thing was so surreal. He hand smacked my bare butt about another 50 times and then I felt him reach underneath me to fondle my dick and balls.  No one had ever touched my dick or balls before!   Usually I am rock hard when it comes to spanking but I was so nervous meeting someone in person to give me my very first real spanking my dick had gone limp with fear.  Between my thoughts of how great this feels,  I wondered if he’d be some sort of nut case.  I wondered if I was going to be safe.   I wondered a lot of things, but most of all I kept wondering if I'd be able to take the kind of spanking I deserved.  A spanking that would leave my butt sore for days.  A real spanking.  He picked up my first paddle, a small pine board drilled with smaller holes.  It was one of the first paddles I made.  I thought back to the time I was in my wood shop, as stood naked, cutting, shaping and sanding that paddle, testing it out on my own backside as it progressed.  I was thinking about how hard my dick was as I carefully drilled each and every hole in that pine board hoping they would help that paddle sizzle my ass. Matthew gave me a couple swats with that pine paddle and rubbed my ball sac again with his hand.  He did what I often do when spanking myself and he rubbed the edge of the paddle through my butt crack.  I must have shuddered and my legs were shaking cause he told me again,  to "just relax"  and pulled both my legs up onto his lap.  I was now laying over both knees with my feet and head on the bed.   God, the feeling was incredible, here I was at last, just like I fantasized about, bare ass naked, over a young mans knees, my naughty butt sticking up in the air just begging him to spank me harder.  Begging him to spank me more, armed with a wooden paddle I personally made for someone like him to blister my ass with.  I kept thinking back to how he told me his own dad used to paddle his ass when he was a kid, and here I was, buck naked, over his knees with my ass just begging for a spanking.  I wondered how he felt having my ass over his lap, turning red, turning hot.  I wondered how he felt having me under his complete control, having a guy old enough to be his own dad laying submissively over his knees so that he could spank me like a naughty little boy.   I gently humped his leg sticking my ass up offering it to him to discipline.  I needed to be spanked, I deserved to be spanked,  I wanted to be spanked.  I hope he got some additional satisfaction knowing he was giving me what I craved. Knowing he was the first one to ever spank my ass! Fifty-four bare ass paddle swats later he switched to another one of my homemade paddles. I made several paddles hoping that a guy like him would put them to use spanking my butt.   A narrow maple paddle without holes.  Some of the paddle companies call it a ruler paddle.  This paddle tends to bruise my butt since it's relatively heavy and it concentrates the sting in a narrow band.  Matthew was using it on my butt, practically  right from the start.  I knew I was going to be sore.  After the first few swats I said how much that paddle stung.  Watching the video afterwards, I noticed he started to set the paddle down, but I knew I needed it, and said "that’s okay - keep going".  He eagerly picked the paddle back up and re-applied it to my heinie.  Some rapid fire, hard swats ensued as he clenched his arm firmly around my waist and held on tight.  He gave me 56 swats with that narrow maple paddle.  God did he ever know how to spank!   I was ordered to stand up again and lean against the bed bent at the waist.  He grabbed my legs and spread them, making my cock and balls visible as he proceeded to give me forty three good hard swats with a cherry frat style paddle drilled with holes.   He was swinging that paddle so hard and fast, I could hear the air whistling through it as the swats approached that target - my naked butt. Each swat set my butt cheeks jiggling making him want to spank me even more.  I can only imagine the incredible view he had as the paddle flattened my cheeks on impact,  and made them bounce back into shape for another swat.  I can only imagine how good he felt knowing he was burning my butt, making it redder and hotter with each swat of the paddle.  Giving me the spanking I needed.  Giving me the spanking I deserved.  I'm sure that seeing my butt bounce like that, knowing it had never been spanked before, seeing my it turn red like that, and hearing my grunts and groans made him want to paddle me even more, paddle me harder, paddle me faster.  He continued to rub my bottom with his hand, feeling the heat, feeling the burn.  Once again I felt the edge of that paddle slide between my red hot butt cheeks, right through my crack.  I stuck my butt out to open up my crack for him, making myself feel so vulnerable as he slid that paddle over my boy hole, but I needed to feel the humiliation of being so exposed.  He must have known from personal experience just what that felt like. The feelings were so incredible, as he alternated between rubbing my butt cheeks with his hand, rubbing my crack with the edge of the paddle, fondling my dangling balls and still limp dick and of course spanking me.  This was the first time I was ever touched there by another guy.  The physical contact forced me to think about just how exposed I was and what a sight I must have been standing there bent over, naked with my butt thrust out, just begging for that spanking! Matthew stopped spanking me for a moment.  Just long enough to unbutton his own shirt and slip it off.   I had to get a look since the sight of another guy's abs and pecs turns me on almost as much as looking at his butt.   He went back to hand spanking me in that same position, bent over the bed.   He stopped spanking me again and walked in front of me so I could see him pulling his belt out of the belt loops on his pants.   I got butterflies in my stomach thinking he was going to give me an old fashioned belt licking, just like my dad often threatened to give me when I was a kid, but he put the belt down as he had other ideas in mind.  He slipped down those black dress pants to reveal a pair of light blue bikini briefs.    The briefs fit him nicely, clinging to his own backside, accentuating the firmness of his own youthful posterior.  The thin material stretched deep into his crack, and the pouch in front was filled out nicely.  It was exciting watching him.  I was buck ass naked getting spanked and my spanker was stripping down too.  He walked back over to where I was leaning against the bed and told me to lay on the bed on my back.  I noticed a darker wet spot on the front of his briefs. The boy was leaking precum!   Paddling my ass was really turning him on!  I was worried he wasn't having a good time since I was just laying there not saying much.  I wanted to squirm and howl, but I didn't want to fake it.  I wanted my responses to be real, and I knew that soon enough he'd be spanking me faster and harder and real reactions would come out.  He looked so hot standing there in his briefs, wet with precum.   He stood there for about a minute letting me size him up, before he slipped down those briefs and took them off, leaving himself bare too.   His backside was small and firm, just the way I like,  and his cock bigger than mine, hanging down with a hefty set of balls beneath it.  I was intrigued, to say the least, as I looked at that perfect specimen of a backside, and thought about his descriptions of how his dad paddled his bare bottom when he misbehaved.     I had never been bare with another guy where I was able to openly stare at his nakedness.  The only time I’d been naked with another guy was in a locker room situation where a quick glance was all that was acceptable.  I was really enjoying the view in front of me.  I would have liked to see it spanked red, but it wasn’t his bottom that was getting spanked.  It was mine.  I didn't get to stare too long as he got up on the bed next to me, facing my feet and swung one leg over my torso.  This was awesome! I was staring right at that sweet butt of his!   I had told him in my emails, that one time when I was in college, a friend of mine who still got spanked by his dad, was changing to go swimming with me.  This guy had the most spankable little butt I ever saw, and when he bent over to slip on his swimsuit, his butt crack must have spread open and I caught a whiff of his ripe little heinie!  When I got home that night, I took a kleenex and wiped my own butt crack with it so I could sniff it while I jerked off imagining that sweet butt of his getting spanked.  I thought about how the aroma of his crack might fill the air as he was over his dad's knees, with his legs spread wide and a paddle fanning his musky little butt hole.  Ever since that day, I would sniff my own dirty briefs or something I wiped through my own butt crack as I jerked off thinking about spankings I've witnessed.  God how I loved the smell of butt crack!  That sweet aroma always made me think of naked butts, and naked butts always made me think about spanking.  A few times when I was camping with this guy, I'd wait until he left the tent to shower, and I'd find his dirty briefs or boxers.  They always smelled so incredible, so ripe and musky.  I'd jerk off humping my pillows imagining him coming back into the tent, catching me naked, playing with myself, sniffing his dirty undies and then punish me with a good hard spanking.  He knew I never got spanked before, and often made comments about how he’d like to whip my ass. He'd say things like "Keep it up mister, and you're gonna get it", or "Just wait until we get home", or "Don't make me beat your ass in front of all these people". He really wanted to spank me so bad!    These must have been things his own dad had said to him before.  I'd think about him saying this stuff to me as I laid naked in the tent, masturbating with the scent of his butt crack filling my senses. I told Matthew how I fantasized about being punished for rummaging through my friend’s dirty laundry and sniffing their ripe briefs and boxers. I told him an appropriate punishment would be to have him straddle my torso, pull my legs up into the diaper position and have him rub his bare naked butt crack up and down my nose, telling me that since I like the smell of butt crack so much, he's going to make me sniff his while he spanks me.   I couldn’t believe he was actually acting out this fantasy.   I felt like I was in heaven!  I got a glimpse of his cock and balls hanging down before I felt them on my stomach and chest as he slid that awesome backside of his closer to my face.  I was loving every second of this.  I noticed his ball sac again as he got closer to me but most of all I noticed his ass crack was spread wide open and I had a clear view of his sweet pucker!  His butt was relatively smooth but he had a light coating of man hair in his crack.  I saw the wrinkles of his rosebud as he pressed it up against my nose and he ground it into my face!   God, that boy's ass smelled good! My first real sniff of another guy's butt crack and it was just like I always imagined it would be.  Not a dirty shitty smell but just the ripe, sweaty,  musky smell of pure athletic male backside.  It's hard to describe, but anyone else turned on by that aroma would know exactly what I'm talking about, and his butt crack was a prime specimen!  He picked up my legs and hooked them under his arms just like I described in my email, so my own crack and hole were completely exposed too!  He picked up the small oak paddle drilled with 5/8" holes and started to paddle my ass as he ground his ripe juicy crack up and down my face, rubbing his butt juice all over me, marking me with the scent of his ass!  As he swatted my bad boy ass, he rubbed the paddle around my cheeks and ran his hand up and down my crack over my hole.  I felt my own dick start to harden as Matthew’s musky hole was grinding up and down my nose and I was eagerly sniffing it, savoring the sweet aroma.  I couldn’t help but think about the view he had of my butt, upended, spanked bright red and offered to him, to touch and spank however he wanted.       Then he said it would be a good time to take out that butt plug that I brought with!  I had never had another guy insert a butt plug or anything else up my ass but I wanted to experience as much humiliation as possible.   Hell, another guy had never even seen my butt hole before!  He kept rubbing my crack and hole with his hand as his own pelvis rocked back and forth over my face.  He hand spanked me as he humped my face with his boy hole.  He slapped my ass and said it was time for my hole to get plugged up.  When he got off of me his own dick was rock hard and sticking straight out!  He loved sticking his ass in my face as much as I loved having it there!  He returned to the bed with my butt plug and a tube of KY jelly. I submissively pulled my legs overhead to offer my most private place, my hole, for him to plug.  He lubed up my hole and then the plug, and it didn't take long for my sphincter to suck the plug up and clamp down tight on it. He straddled my chest again with his sweet bare ass in my face so I could savor more of his ass scent as he spanked me some more with that short oak paddle.   He then got off of me and stood along side of me pulling my legs back closer to my face. putting me in the traditional diaper changing position,  upending my butt even more so he could paddle me another 20 times even harder. Before long I was back over Matthew's knees for 85 more swats with my homemade oak frat paddle drilled with holes.   This time he was naked too!   My limp dick tried to get hard a couple of times, barely long enough for him to notice it, but it didn't stay that way for long with the pain from the paddling.  My dick was pressing right up against his bare leg, and he teased me for a while wiggling and twisting the butt plug and fondling my cock and balls.  Then he grabbed the walnut frat paddle drilled with large holes and he paddled my butt some more, and fondled me as he wished.  I let go of my inhibitions and slowly humped his lap sticking my backside up, offering it to him to spank even more, my crack opening up as I stuck my butt up in the air for him to paddle. I knew I needed a good hard spanking and I wanted him to spank me with that paddle.   He grabbed me tight around the waist again and paddled my ass with hard rapid fire swats until I was gasping for air.  It was really hot watching the video afterwards, hearing the paddle echo off my bare bottom with a resounding smack, and watching my butt cheeks giggle as the paddle impacted. He grabbed me tight one more time, squeezing my backside so it stuck up even more and gave me a fast and furious volley of swats with the frat paddle.   I could feel his hard cock throbbing against my stomach letting me know he thoroughly enjoyed paddling my naked boy butt!  Every time he lit into my bare ass with a hard fast volley of paddle swats, his own dick was sticking straight out hard as a rock.  I was really glad that taking the paddle to my ass excited him so much. Still over his knees he picked up the Jokari paddle, a real butt burner,  and gave me another 75 swats.   Some were slow steady swats and others were fast and furious swats.  I  asked him how my butt was and he eagerly replied "nice and hot!"   Then I was ordered to kneel on the bed with my naked butt in the air, my knees spread wide and my face down on the blanket for another 20 swats with a real fraternity souvenir paddle followed by more hand spanks. He enjoyed twisting and wiggling my butt plug and stroking my limp dick trying to make it hard.   I guess I got a little hard, but not nearly as hard as I would have liked to have been. I was definitely enjoying my spanking, even though my ass was red hot and really sore.  I don't know why my dick stayed limp cause whenever I spank myself it's throbbing hard.  I guess it was just the fact that this was a first time experience and I didn't know what to expect.  No, it was because I was still scared shitless!  I still kept wondering if I would be able to take the spanking Matthew wanted to give me! Plus I was still on edge meeting someone for a spanking for the first time, but I couldn't ask for a better spanker!  He was patient and understanding and I think he really liked having me naked and at his mercy! Still kneeling on the bed, I got another 42 hard fast swats with the holey walnut frat paddle.  He stroked his own hard cock as he spanked me and rubbed my hanging ball sack with the paddle.    These swats were so hard, I could hear the air whistle through the holes in the paddle each time he swung it.  Each hard swat flattened my butt cheeks and made them giggle again as they bounced back into shape.  I was gasping and grunting out in pain as he increased the speed and intensity of the paddling. Once again those rapid fire swats that made me grunt and groan, made my disciplinarian's own dick stand at attention again.  He stroked his own boner as he rubbed my butt cheeks feeling the fire he burned into my boy bottom. Next I was ordered to assume the position with my legs spread wide and my hands on my knees while a paddleball paddle I recently found was used to spank my butt.  The butt plug was still up my ass and he sometimes paddled me right on the plug. He reached around my waist and pulled me up tight to himself, grabbing my cock from the front, and I could feel the firm tone of his own naked body up against me.  I was still bent over with my hands on my knees and I wasn't going anywhere!  He leaned into me whacking my deserving red hot butt with the hardest and fastest set of paddle swats yet.  I was grunting out "oh's and aw's" as he whacked my ass ruthlessly with the big paddle an additional 45 times He noticed some abrasions on my butt that were starting to draw blood so he stopped the spanking.  It wasn't anything serious just abrasions from the hole drilled paddles giving my deserving ass the punishment it needed.  I wanted to be spanked more, but knew it was better if I waited until another time. That spanking occurred on a Thursday and my butt was burning Sunday afternoon. Every time I sat down or leaned my butt against something I was reminded what happens to naughty boys.  They get their butts spanked and spanked hard.  I thought for sure, that I would have black and blue marks all over my butt but Matthew was an expert paddler, and knew exactly how to spank a boy's butt.  I was just really sore for 4 days, but there was no bruising or serious damage. After the spanking we both jerked off.  That was the first time I jerked off in front of anyone and also the first time I saw someone else jerk off in person..  Ever since grade school, I jerked off by humping pillows while envisioning the paddlings I'd witnessed that day in school and thinking about someone spanking me like that. So here I was about to jerk off like that in front of the younger guy that just gave me my first real ass paddling.  It was so embarrassing, but I shamelessly grabbed my clothes, wadded them up into a ball and humped them for all I was worth. He stood over me stroking his own hard cock, while he watched my cherry red butt, that he just spanked that way,  hump up and down.  It was so humiliating having him watch my red ass thrust up and down in a feverish rhythm with that plug still up my hole.  I only wish his sweet boy crack was right there in front of my face so I could sniff it some more as I masturbated.  I did scrunch the area between my lip and nostrils up so I could smell the butt juice he marked my face with while he was paddling me earlier. I'm sure he enjoyed making me sniff his ass as he was definitely boned while he ground his ripe stinky butt hole up and down my nose! This spanking was filled with many first time experiences for me.  It was the first time my butt was spanked for real. It was also the first time anyone put a butt plug up my ass.  The first time I was stripped by someone else and the first time I laid over another man's knees for a spanking. This was the first time someone else saw or touched my butt hole, or ran his fingers through my ass crack.  It was the first time anyone grabbed my cock and stroked it or grabbed my ball sack and it was the first time I got to sniff another guy’s butt crack.   Yes like I said, this was a very memorable day indeed! 

Often, when there is spanking done, it's even called "play", often referring to roleplay (though between two people like my son and myself, there's really no acting involved; he Is my son and I Am his dad).   But I was musing on spanking with my son (and in general).  There is much akin between a good spanking, with a good spanker, and playing a complex bit of music. The audience can be an actual audience, or just you and your son. The instruments are the implements.  Anyone can pick up a paddle and use it, just as anyone can pick up a guitar and strum it.  But for both to make music, the player must be skilled in using the instrument. A spanker may be skilled in one or several instruments.  And generally an experienced spanker has one or two of his favorite instruments; like I used to be very fond of my uncle's big old Gibson acustic; an old mellow guitar where  you don't have to Press the strings on the frets, but just Lay your fingers there.  It made sweet mellow music under the hands of the expert. I have similar implements I'm fond of in the same way.  The soft leather billet strap may be my favorite in similarity. But first, our equalivent to the vōx hūmāna is the open Hand.  This may be often overlooked, but has some definitely advantages over other instruments.  For one, it's always with you.  When a boy needs a spanking and you have no other instruments with you, your Hands are always there.  It's also possibly the most versatile of instruements, varying from a soft carress to a hard strike that for some can feel like a paddle.  It's also the most intimate of instruments; nothing closer than the feel of boy butt on hand.  It also seems in many (my son included) to be the absolute best at bringing the red out.  A long hand spanking makes a butt look red, often even when there's not been a great deal of pain inflicted.  It's also probably the least damaging of all implements.  You'll probably never cut or bring blood by using your open hand (though on rare occasions, you might leave some bruises). Then there is dad's belt.  Very few other items strike fear into the heart of a naughty boy as the sound of dad's belt being unbuckled and pulled through the belt loops of dad's pants.  I know people for whom that's the Most erotic thing; hearing dad's belt being taken off as a prelude to a whipping.  And when it comes to the whipping, The belt is another versatile instrument.  On a boy's bare butt, it can be used to effect a long, endorphin producing moderate strapping that lasts forever, or as punishment, it can be used with terrible force and efficiency; each stroke a leaving a hot searing wide streak of red pain on a boys bare buttocks.  A terrible instrument of dad's wrath indeed.  And unlike many other implements, a good belting can build on itself; bringing horrible pain long after a boy's butt may have just gone numb from repeated paddle strikes. Most of what I've said about the belt can be said of straps of various sizes, widths, lengths and thicknesses.  The two short billet straps I use are some of my favorite instruments.  The symphony I can play on my boy's posterior can be light sonnet, a long orchestral piece with highlights, highs & lows... or a devestating burning searing trumpet call of punishment, bringing a boy's punishment on rather quickly.  Like some belts, you as I may have a favorite, an instrument you've mastered over the years.  And some straps have their own personality, and require an expert to bring out there full sweetness.  Just as before, anyone can pick up a strap and use it; only the master of it can get it's full effect; it's subtle tones, it's ragged pain... Paddles are next in the list.  Probaly of all instruments, the easiest to play; even a novice can pick up most paddles and get a great effect, electing the sharp sound of paddle meeting flesh itself, combined wtih the grunts, groans, yells or even screams, that make the melody a spanker may be looking for.   (A little musing on my part...I need to stop to do other things now, but I could definitely add more to this and perhaps I will later).  

The best weekend of my life As all great things, there is a beginning an an end.  And our great time together came to an end.  But our sadness on parting is somewhat muffled by the promisie of more meetings to come (but not enough to prevent us both from openly weeping that final day before the airport). But thinking back on it, the greatest weekend of my life, a particular time came to my mind, a time in bed whie I watched you sleep. CODA I dare you Mike, look at your sleeping son, red bottom and tears still on his cheeks, but with contented expression, fast asleep with his head on your shoulder.  I dare you to look and not have tears yourself.  But cry quietly, so as to not wake your sleeping son, who you love so much. We share this feeling. this bond.  When I hold you, my crying son in my arms and telling you all is forgiven, and everything is going to be alright.  It's the best feeling in the world.  Son, maybe you know others that would make better dads than I.  And still you chose me somehow.    But you are the Only one I know that actually gets this; that understands this feeling and shared bond.  And that's not even counting the fact that I do love you dearly, like a dad loves his son.  I am the luckiest dad in the world.

Firstly thank you and hugs to everyone whom has made a donation, I know its a difficult time financially for everyone.   As I said in my last video message, I have listed a number of items on eBay, all money raised will go straight to funding our software delveopment on the the site, I am determined this is the year, we bring it all together.   There are no spanking items for sale, though I will be listing some later on that does not violate eBay's TOS regarding adult content.   My Alienware R7 Gaming Desktop is up for grabs, I have listed it at an over the top price.  The reason for this is to see if anyone here wants to buy it, of course at a deeply discounted price.  I will also throw in Office 2021 and a rather large collection of spanking videos on the hard drive.   I can for obvious reasons only ship within the US, my apologies about that, but its just too expensive to ship abroad.   Our eBay store can be fouind here:    https://www.ebay.com/sch/i.html?item=334759773027&rt=nc&_trksid=p2047675.m3561.l2562&_ssn=usjame-slaqiw        

Someone commented that they had struggled to understand what was going on in my profile picture and then responded "Haa-ha-ha" when they realised it was me ripping my pants and showing a bare backside. Well, there's a bit more to it than that and something that makes it very appropriate for this site. Here goes... I was around 20-years-old at the time, and that's more than 50 years ago, long before cell phones with cameras. So the picture is a fake! I have used photo editing to recreate a true event but I can confirm that the cheeky butt is all mine. Some of you will have worked in an all-male environment and know things can get a bit wild on Friday afternoon when the working week is winding down. Many a lad has found himself stripped naked and delivered red-faced to the lads in the factory down the road. In my case a short split in the back seam of my pants led to me being grabbed and the seam being ripped open, belt to bollocks naked as we say. "Might as well be properly ripped" was  the general concensus. That was bad enough but I found my hands bound together with cable ties before being hauled over a work bench for a spanking. All my work mates joined in slapping my bare cheeks until they were sore and throbbing. Everyone in the factory shed was howing with laughter as I was led round the factory to show off my well-spanked bare arse. Happy days.  

I want to know why you naughty minxy dad's and Tops do the following!   (1).  Our ears are not handles, so why do you insist on marching us boys to the spanking chair or corner by our ears, what the heck is that all about?   (2).  What is the point of corner time, either standing their with our poor red behind on display, or sitting in the corner, what the heck is that all about?   (3).  You do know us boys can take our own jeans and briefs down, we don't need you guys to do it for us, so what the heck is that all about?   (4).  We never lie or fib, we simply mis-remember so why do we get punished for it?  and what the heck is that all about?   (5).  Why do we get spanked for breaking rules or boundaries, because no boy actually ever understands them, so what the heck is that all about?   (6).  Your hand is not soothing when it is applied to our bottoms at high speed, so what the heck is that all about?   (7).  Why do you have to put us over your knees, I mean its really childish, so what the heck is that all about?   (8).  Why can't we spank you when you are naughty, and what the heck is that all about?   (9).  WHY do I have to wear white briefs all the time, and what the heck is that all about?   (10).  Which of you invented the wooden backed hairbrush, and why do you all cherish it so much, AND what the HECK is that all about?   YOU ALL NEED SPANKED!   James

I spent the weekend with my daddy in Charlotte North Carolina. It was just as amazing as I hoped it would be and I'm still reeling a bit from just how great it was.  We shared a hotel room at the same hotel many of our friends were staying at this weekend to attend a specific spanking party. I arrived Friday around 2:30pm and he picked me up and we grabbed some food. From there we checked into the hotel and the spankings began. First five with the frat paddle on my jeans and then I took a shower. After that I was giving a good hand spanking and then a hard short bathbrush spanking which brought me to tears.   Over the course of the weekend I'd be spanked, paddled and strapped many more times. Each one was expertly done by my daddy and quite a few of those spankings would bring me to tears from the emotions I felt just bursting out. I'd get a strapping at the party in front of everyone as well as 500+ licks from the belt when we got back to the hotel. The final day I got multiple spankings including two bathbrush spankings that brought me to tears. I have a special relationship with that brush and dad knows exactly what is going to happen when he applies it on my bare bottom. He's the only person I trust to do it.   It was a very emotional weekend filled with spanking and cuddling and lots of tears. I wouldn't trade it for the world and I love my daddy bear with all my heart even though he's the meanest daddy in the entire world.   Thank you for being my daddy and making me feel loved, safe and cared for.     

Daddy has had to set out new house rules for me because I got a really bad report card this week. Interested to know your thoughts please. Should any new rules / themes be added? Should any be rephrased?  Let me know by commenting beneath.   Theme: Behaviour & The 3 Ds 1. From this point forward, you will refer to me only as DADDY or SIR.  2. Perfect attendance at school is non negotiable.  3. Bad grades and poor performance in extra curricular activity will not be tolerated. You will recieve a minimum grade of B+ in all future exams. 4. No Disrespect. Always remember that daddy is in charge and you live under his care. You will be polite, respectful and properly behaved at all times. 5. No Disobedience. When daddy gives you a direct instruction you will do it. 6. No Dishonesty. Never lie, you should always be truthful, and forthcoming.  Theme: Chores 7. You are to make your bed, and keep your room visibly tidy, neat and in order at all time.  8. Additional chores will be posted on the fridge showing you your daily routine, which will consist of: chores, projects, homework, and studying. The list will be complete daily. Theme: Dress Code 9. Outside the home you will ensure that you are properly and smartly dressed in school uniform. You are not permitted to wear "casual" clothes at any time. Uniform includes school blazer, white shirt, grey shorts, belt, school tie, long grey socks, black leather shoes and white briefs. 10. At home and on weekends you will only be permitted to wear the following; white briefs, white cotton socks and white vest. 11. At bedtime you will wear standard blue pyjama top and bottoms only. Theme: Bedtime 12. You will report to me every night at 8pm to review the day. You will stand in the corner facing the wall, hands on head, until called. 13. You will be given a bath to ensure cleanliness is maintained. On occasion it may be necessary to wash your insides too by washing your mouth out with soap or given an enema. 14. You will be shaved smooth as a helpful reminder to who is in charge and to ensure good hygeine. 15. Bedtime and lights out is at 9pm sharp.  Theme: Privacy 16. Privacy is privilege, you will leave doors open at all times, even if you are using the toilet. 17. Until grades meet expected standard all electronics including phone, laptop and PlayStation are to be confiscated.  18. You are grounded until further notice. 

Year end wrap up: Attended MAL in January. The green lantern party is amazing and the BAW parties were a blast. Got pretty close with a couple guys there and made some new friends. Hot Seat in March was a blast and I spanked a ton of guys and spent a lot of quality time with Redbearspanker. He spanked me 15 times and I gave about 60 spankings at this event Claw in April was fun. Got to play with a couple people I never thought I’d get to play with and had a very long session with a friend I’d never gotten to meet in real life. Gave about 45 spankings at this one and got two. Went to visit my long time (17 years) Daddybear Redbearspanker in July and had an amazing time but then he had a stroke the day I left. Pretty traumatizing. He’s still alive and in rehab now but this definitely altered the rest of my year in a very specific way.  Went to Florida for work in August and got to spend a weekend with one of the BAW organizers. Gave me an amazing spanking and helped me deal with a lot of stuff just by being a good friend and taking my mind off of everything. Started chatting heavily with Mike Smith on here… pretty much every day and made plans for him to beat my ass at BAW. Also got spanked very severely twice by a close friend until I was bleeding and absolutely crying my eyes out. Easily the hardest spankings I’ve ever gotten in 22 years of doing this. Cried like a baby due to the emotions around Redbear building up. BAW was amazing and got two amazing spankings from Mike (both were two of the most emotional spankings I’ve ever gotten) and we got very very close (love you!) and I also got two great public strappings from Hhoncho who I’ve always wanted to meet. Also spanked my boy Junior to tears five times and gave about fifty spankings including a bathbrush demo and being part of the authors panel. Went to Los Angeles for Leather Getaway and gave some good spankings and attended the spanking party there. Pretty tame event compared to MAL and CLAW but that’s ok. Still fun. Spent a lot of time being kinky with my actual husband which is always a treat. I’ve also spanked 3-4 guys every weekend I’ve been home. If I had to guess, I gave close to 400 spankings this year. Very busy. Very fun. Looking forward to doing it again starting with MAL in just a couple weeks. Merry Xmas and Happy New Year, spankos. Be good!

There was a blog post that listed  instruments used by different types of Dads and Doms. I assume the post got lost in the crash so just speak from your experience.

Despite the retaking of Twitter by Elon, Twitter has developed into a lively community of adult boys and Daddys who are sharing ideas, swapping stories, conducting polls, providing Daddys advice on how to handle adult boys, and more. In today's post we wanted to share a few of the folks doing yeoman's work revitalising the community there and making it a leading space for the M/m Corporal Punishment Community on the internet.  Before we dive in, we do wanna emphasize the invaluable benefit SouthSpanking.com provides and not take away anything from their great work, and at the same time just provide y'all more resources so you have the 411, the intel to engage with folks with like minds. First, let us introduce @OurFamilyRules which is a Twitter handle dedicated to providing advice to Daddys and celebrating adult boys both red-rumped and otherwise. This @handle features Ace Daddy who covers a variety of key thrills that a wide array of boys and Daddys might find appealing. He covers the idea of withholding a boy's boxershorts and regressing him back into briefs if they misbehave. Basically, his message is, if a boy is going to act like a boy, then you as the Daddy should make him live as a boy. He likes to Spank boys in groups of two (or more). He does a great job with video, showing how this can be done. He scolds at length. For those Daddys out there who could use some tips and tricks on how to do this effectively, be sure to listen to Ace Daddy on the videos he tweets out.  Second, let's look at the words of Daddy-hood from @AmtrakDaddy. He posts random tweets of kindness, affection, warnings to boys, and advice on how to avoid getting into trouble. He tucks littles in with some of his words, he warms other boys' bottoms with other words of wisdom, and he always leaves the adult boys who read his @handle with a sense that there really are Daddys out there who will care for you, even when you do naughty things. Great advice.   Third, there's 'zander. Now we've covered @AlexanderZeeGreat in posts previously, but his @handle has been on fire this fall. 🔥🚒🧯Once Cornertime Confidential got booted from Twitter last summer, it was 'zander's posts that helped us reconnect. His drumbeat about being an adult boy fully embodies our boy ethos. He has been sharing more about his life as a boy who also gets Spankings too. So he's broadened what he covers and will appeal to Daddys worldwide.    There's a ton of other great tweeters out there, so begin your search for those you most connect with! Just wanted to provide you a peek at some of the most active tweeters and those with the deepest content in our space. Even if it's just online for now, connect with your CP Community    Please comment below or email us with your ideas aok4otk@aol.com or cornertimeconf@gmail.com ______________________________________ Follow Cornertime Confidential Wherever You Are:   Tumblr  ∙  SouthSpanking ∙  Twitter  ∙  WordPress

It's been a few weeks since BAW2022. I got Covid immediately afterwards and for a time didn't feel like doing much. Now I'm good and I’ve had some time to think about it. And finally in a place where have time and inclination to arrange my thoughts. I remember laying my hotel room Saturday night, dreading it ending. Out of nowhere (well somewhere from my subconscious), a song lyric came to mind, one I hadn’t heard in years. As I was going out to have the last supper Saturday evening, it fit. Put on a happy face but: “What if I’d been the one to say goodbye? Goodbye. Could you smile when inside you just wanna cry, wanna cry. What if I’d been the one to say goodbye? Goodbye. Could you smile when it hurts so deep inside? And it never fades away.”   (that's 38 Special btw) So I lay there, dreading the ending, very sad. Then with a mental snort I forced myself out of my funk. There are people in this world with real problems, not this pinning over the end of a great vacation/event. Granted, this one was different. This was my 5th BAW. I usually enjoy them (often, something happens thats annoying enough to make it less than perfect.  In that, this year was no exception.)  Last year’s was tough to leave. But this year the event itself was a minor thing; a footnote, a backdrop to a pair of perfect meetings. And saying goodbye to a boy I’d come to think of as son, even before our first meeting; yeah that was going to be fu**ng hard. We had been planning the first one for a couple months now. Working out details in our minds. He even wrote a story about our first meeting on MMSA before it happened. And (as he pointed out) we didn’t have to use it as a script, and we didn’t, but it was pretty close. The first one was perfect. So what do you do after you've given the perfect spanking?  I haven't figured that one out yet...hope to duplicate it I guess. :)  And hopefully we will (and I hope we don't have to wait a year for that to happen). To be continued?

When it comes to spanking sessions, we all have some great memories, some not so great, and sometimes horrible ones. In this blog, I will discuss what to do as a spankee after a spanking session that did not really go as you expected. We will review several possible issues ranging from lack of communication, casting errors, improvised session, unexperienced spanker, flat of nightmare, to down right abuse and rape. There is a gradation in the ways a spanking session could unfold in a way that you didn’t like. Sometimes simple communication with your spanker will solve the problem and your next spankings will be better and better : Like with sex, the first time with a new partner is rarely the best and it takes some time to adjust. Other cases are going to be a bit more complicated : you may have incompatible expectations, he may not be very experienced, or perhaps you did not discuss enough before the meeting. In this case, you may be able to find some common ground if your communication is good, but you may also consider that he isn’t and will never be your type of spanker. And finally, the last case: red flags such as abuse, breach of consent, disrespect for your limits, etc. In this case, flee this spanker and you should consider at least discussing your misadventure with other community members to avoid other going through the same situation, and even sometimes taking your case in front of a court of law. Below is a list of things in the 3 categories mentioned and that are in no particular order of gradation. Things that should be easy to fix if you discuss with your spanker before your next meeting The punishment did not include scenaristic elements or implements that you enjoy The spanking was too light/fast/short The spanking was a bit too hard, but there were no unwanted bruises. He went for an unrealistic roleplay that was not to your liking He did not talk much/enough, and you prefer a verbal spanker He used certain positions, side punishments or instruments that you don’t particularly enjoy He has bad breath and keeps talking very close to your face. He was too nosy about your private life. He faced slapped you without discussing it before Things that may or may not be fixed : He went off course with the scenario you agreed upon. He was insisting on having more than a spanking with you, despite you having clearly said no. You like sex with your spanking, he does not. He clearly did not know what he was doing / he had no experience: implements used too high and/or with weird intensities. The punishment made no sense at all. He kept you butt naked (or naked) way too long before/after/during your punishment and you were very uncomfortable with it. (e.g.: butt naked tea in the middle of your spanking, or a 2h break while talking about the current state of the world). It is not a fit when it comes to body stature. Him or his place were quite dirty and it grossed you out You had way more bruises than what you discussed Other people were here and he did not tell you before hand He lied on his age and/or physical shape. Things that you shouldn’t accept : don’t go back, and report him at least to other community members He filmed you without your consent or with a hidden camera (see my blog on taking pictures for other things that you shouldn’t accept). He got naked and it was clearly not part of what you agreed on. He touched you in ways you explicitly told him that you didn’t want. He ignored the safe word you agreed on, or when you did not consent. The spanking was bloody and it was not at all what you agreed on (and we are not talking about a scratched/ruptured pimple … this can happen) He was clearly drunk or under use when you came to his place He forced you to drink or to use any kind of drug before/during your session : if this happened and any of the other points in this category came up too, then you should consider legal action. He raped you : you must consider legal action. While this blog seems to focus on what the spanker can do wrong, please remember that communicating his desires anf limits is something that only the spankee can do. It would be unfair to blame a spanker for doing something wrong in points from categories 1 and 2 if you failed to communicate properly. With MM spanking falling in the grey area of "consented violence" between adults, communication before and after a meeting is extremely important to reduce de risk of misunderstanding and low quality to bad experience : You need to be two to have a conversation and communicate.

A reader asked an interesting question recently, and we thought it might be a good time to revisit Punishment Spankings. Over the years, we have covered this topic by bringing in the voices of others living in  DD relationships.  Today we hear again from shilo on how it works in her relaionship. There's so much instructive advice here, we felt you just gotta read it. If you'd like tips on how to be a Top who administers a Punishment Spanking, here's a few blogposts that might be able to help: Punishment Spankings and How to Administer Them Here's an example of how my Daddy administered a Punishment Spanking for a real reason. Here's an idea about what to do AFTER the Punishment Spanking Here's a video of one way to deliver a Punishment Spanking What do you consider a Punishment Spanking to be?   Today’s guest blog post brings Cornertime Confidential readers one person’s viewpoint on how a Punishment Spanking should be administered. I’m not actually in agreement here with all the specifics that our guest blogger, shilo, spells out here. However, what this blogpost brings is a fresh perspective.  While that blog is about married couples implementing Domestic Discipline, I think there are still useful learnings here worth sharing. See what you think. And as always, Cornertime Confidential values your feedback, just click on the “comment” button at the bottom of the post to have your voice heard.   [The following is freely adapted to adult boys and the Men Who Spank them. This is not shilo's original post—nor could it be, given this blog is devoted to M/m Corporal Punishment—and you'll note a particular alteration in the use of pronouns. As a point of further clarification, I have made clarifying remarks throughout and added in a bit where thoughts were not completely fleshed out. In the final section, I have adjusted the content for adult boys entirely.]   __________________________ Punishment Spankings and How to Administer Them by shilo wace* I wanted to talk a bit about giving a Spanking. Not as a person who gives them myself, but one who receives them. Of course, I know there are many ways to administer physical punishment so as I speak about how a solid no-nonsense Spanking should be given, it’s of course through my personal experiences and beliefs on how it should be. In the end, it’s my duty to accept however the Punishment is given, but that does not stop me from having an opinion about it. Let’s start by discussing The Punishment Spanking (as opposed to a Maintenance Spanking or playful Spanking). Punishment Spankings are meant to be unpleasant.   Punishment Spankings are meant to be unpleasant. As the Disciplinarian, you will be punishing a behavior or action. To do that effectively, you’ll want to consider several key elements that will create a memorable experience your boy will not forget.   Selecting the Right Spanking Tool First, a tool should be selected, the disciplinarian needs to know exactly what implement he will be using to administer the Spanking. A Punishment Spanking requires the use of a Spanking Tool, not just your hand. HandSpankings should be reserved for lighter less serious offenses. HandSpankings are also more personal and even considered more loving, this too is not in accordance with a Punishment Spanking.   Select the Right Spanking Tool The disciplinarian should select which implement he will be using and then commit to that implement not deciding to change it just before a Spanking is given. Don't use multiple Spanking Tools. Having the Spanking stop so he can switch to a spoon, or strap, just to stop again switching to a different tool a few minutes later turns the act of correction into some type of game. Personally, I feel this switching up makes the disciplinarian look somewhat unprofessional and unprepared. Like a child in a candy store jumping from one treat to the next.   [Note From Cornertime Confidential: we completely disagree with shilo here. We think if Daddy is in the middle of paddling, and his hand is tired of using The Hairbrush, we don’t see why he can’t just have his boy get off his lap, and send the boy to go get The Spanking Stick or The Wooden Spoon or The Paddle. It gives Daddy a break (and the boy a break!) and helps extend the length of time required to finish punishing.]   "Spankings" require a rigid, hard item which can deliver a stinging blow   When choosing an implement you first must decide what type of physical correction is going to be administered: A Spanking means you’re going to choose a tool such as a wooden paddle, hairbrush, wooden spoon or some type of rigid, hard item which can deliver a stinging blow. A Whipping means you are going to choose something such as a switch, cane, strap, cord or some type of flexible lightweight rod which will deliver a sharp concentrated lash. Once you have chosen a tool you can decide if you will have it ready in the area where you plan to administer the Spanking, or if he will have to retrieve the implement and bring it to you. Either way can be very effective.  Being sent off to get whatever is going to be used on you can be very humbling Being sent off to get whatever is going to be used on you can be very humbling, and on the other hand coming into a room and seeing the tool that will be used can immediately send butterflies into a boy’s tummy and upper throat. Certain tools such as a switch is always better if he is sent out to cut and prepare it himself. This is part of a ritual and is more effective than if it is already trimmed and cleaned.   Now that you have the Spanking Tool selected, and you know how it’s going to be presented, next you need to know how and where you will be administering the Spanking.   The Spanking Ritual I am a big believer in rituals, so having a special location you consistently use I feel is always best. So when you say “okay young man, go to the Punishment Room and wait for me” or “it’s time we take a trip to The Woodhed” he knows exactly what is going to happen without you just blurting out “I’m going to beat your behind.”   “it’s time we take a trip to The Woodshed” [Note: having a set Punishment Spanking ritual should not be a rote memorized experience. You can always vary it based on the circumstances. However, having a central ritual helps establish the tone and helps your boy get in the right headspace.]   The room you choose should already be prepared beforehand with whatever Spanking Chairs or Tools you need—unless you intend for your boy to retrieve that Spanking Tool as mentioned above. The room/area should be clean and free of clutter and not full of toys or stuff more professional than playful. I completely understand that you cannot be prepared for all situations and ready to go.  There will be times that certain behaviors may require immediate correction and other times you may be traveling far from the Domestic Discipline environment you have set up.      However you should be prepared for both these events and have a plan if such actions are necessary. [note: you should have a plan between you for what is acceptable resolution for bad behavior while travelling or in public: administering hotel spankings, pulling over on the side of the road, having a signal for a time out when in a group setting that requires he stop and meet you outside for a talkin’-to, etc.]   Go To Your Room   When in the Domestic Discipline home, preparing a room beforehand is still the best policy, and postponing punishment until everything is in place is worth the time. You can certainly have him stand in The Corner or take a bath as you prepare. Having him prepare for a Spanking is part of a good punishment ritual is well. Having a special punishment outfit, boyish underpants, athletic shorts, pajamas, etc., he would have to put on before going to the designated room, or the knowledge that once in the room he has to remove all of his clothing and put them away neatly and out of sight will certainly get him ready both physically and mentally.   Now that you’re both in the room, and he is standing before you in his embarrassing punishment dress or as naked as a newborn, this is the time you need to have a serious and controlled discussion with him about the behavior for which he is being corrected. He needs to be told that this is not for play or his pleasure, but this is a serious punishment to take him down a peg or two.   Scolding Do not go easy on him. Scold him: Identify the Misbehavior. Explain in detail how his behavior has earned him this punishment. Identify what’s required of him to fix things. Explain what is expected out of him in the future what to do to avoid further punishment.  This is very important, disciplinarians that do not scold properly or just assume he knows exactly why he’s being punished are making a communications mistake.   Avoid Making a making a Communications Mistake.   A good scolding should have your boy remorseful or even in tears before the first swat ever lands. If you are unsure how to scold properly, take the time to do some research.   [Note From Cornertime Confidential: we find scolding technique is particularly well done by Magic Spanking Factory’s Daddy and SpankingCentral.com’s Clifton Meador. These are good places to start looking for tone, attitude, and delivery of the talkin’-to].   You can certainly have him stand in The Corner or take a bath as you prepare.   Scolding is not yelling, and not belittling. It is explaining exactly how he disappointed you. And for most adult boy’s disappointing someone they care about can be more punishment than any Spanking. Do not rush the scolding, take your time, and let each word sink in. This is not the time for him to argue with you or give his side of the story. He is only to listen and to answer any of your questions with yes or no or what many Daddys require, “Yes, Sir” or “No, Sir.” The time for his side of the story past as soon as he was ordered to get ready for punishment. As a disciplinarian if you allow him to continue to argue with you, backtalk you, or give you attitude and you have lost control of the situation.  You need to regain it quickly. It is not a game to punish adult boys, and he should not disrespect you. Managing Misbehaviour During The Spanking  Once everything that needed to be said had been said then it’s time to move to the penalty phase of the punishment, which in this case is to administer the Spanking or the Whipping. You should have him move into position quickly such as over your knee, across your lap, bending over a chair, touching his toes, etc. Telling him to touch his toes does not mean putting his hands on his knees or grabbing his ankles, it means putting his fingertips to his toes, or placing his fingers underneath his toes. If he is not physically capable of actually bending forward to touch his toes, then the directions should be something along the lines of “Place your hands on your knees.”  "...trying to block his bottom with his hands is not only disrespectful and shows lack of obedience, but also it can be dangerous." It is a form of disrespect if he only bends far enough to put his hands on his knees when you instructed him to touch his toes. Don’t let him get by with that. Once you have him in the proper position you can give him any further instructions necessary, even if he’s heard them before, such as “Keep still! No kicking! No rubbing  your bottom!” Reminding him that his only job is to stay in place and not to try to prevent his Spanking in any way helps to establish who is actually in charge here. Excessive moving, or trying to block his bottom with his hands is not only disrespectful and shows lack of obedience, but also it can be dangerous. His cooperation is for his own good, so say so clearly and distinctly. Yelping, crying, and screaming should be expected, but there is no reason for him to talk or ask or beg for anything. He should not say any words at all. Begging or pleading is an attempt to reduce his punishment and should be treated the same way as if he was trying to block your access to his bottom with his hands or move out of the way. Excessive noise should also be addressed as you see fit. Excessive noise should also be addressed as you see fit.   The first swat should come quickly and hard. It should sting quite a bit and make him yelp out in both shock and pain. He is being punished and there is no such thing as a warm up Spanking for adult boys who are being punished. The only reason you might want to use a warm up Spanking is to lower his sensitivity and make the Spanking last longer. That again should be up to you, and you should consider this in the larger scope of what you are trying to achieve here. If it’s behavior improvement, then you might want to apply just a short sharp shock. If, however, you want something out of this too, you will want to find ways of prolonging this severe discipline by varying the intensity, so you aren’t wasting your time.   The Spanking should continue had a hard steady pace and go for quite some time. A disciplinarian needs to remember that he has chosen to participate in this relationship, and he should not be timid about delivering a sound Spanking. Spank him with enough force to ensure a very sore, fairly bruised bottom. He is not made out of glass. You’re not punishing him to break him, but you are disciplining him to keep him in line. That cannot be achieved with an adult boy by a gentle warning.   There is no need to set the amount of strokes or a set time, either. This is your free time to discipline as you see fit, so naturally, you certainly can do this if you wish. It’s best to remember that your boy is being punished, and it may be better to continue the punishment until the disciplinarian feels that he has reached the level of remorse he is looking for. This could vary on any given day, so there’s no reason that the spontaneity you have in your regular Domestic Discipline relationship cannot be secured during different Punishment Spankings.   "...it’s the bond you create with your words and your deeds during these high-impact emotional and physical moments."    Aftercare and Reinforcement of the Message Even though this is a Punishment Spanking, it’s always okay to be tender and forgiving. He has taken his punishment, and  whatever his misdeed, it has been paid for. You can hold him as he cries or whimpers or stamps his feet, and/or let him know that it’s over. It will not be discussed again, so long as his behavior aligns with your expectations that you set down during the scolding and now after the Punishment Spanking. It helps to reinforce the message behind the Spanking, for example, “I don’t want to see you do that again. Look me in the eye, and tell me you heard what I just said.”  If he was good and remained still for his Spanking, you might consider praising him for his obedience. Adult boys are the most submissive right after a Punishment Spanking. Showing him tenderness and love is what he needs most at this point and will ensure his continued obedience to you. Yes, he’ll screw up again, and yes, you’ll have to administer future Punishment Spankings. But ultimately, it’s the bond you create with your words and your deeds during these high-impact emotional and physical moments that will bond you most effectively to one another as Daddy and boy.   __________________________ *From August 2015 Please comment below or email us with your ideas aok4otk@aol.com or cornertimeconf@gmail.com ______________________________________ Follow Cornertime Confidential Wherever You Are: Tumblr  ∙  SouthSpanking ∙   WordPress  ∙  Twitter  

  Home from Bad Ass Weekend. I’ve been to quite a few events now but they one is hard to top. So many good guys and so many butts to spank.I stopped officially counting when I hit 50 but it I had to guess I gave about 65 full spankings from Wednesday until today and that’s not counting the Hell Week paddling, my bathbrush demo or any of the random spankings I bent boys over when I was out and about. With all that I’d probably guess I was close to 100 this year. Lots of guys were repeats over the course of the weekend. It’s fun watching their butts go from white on Wednesday to black and blue by Sunday afternoon.I also got spanked over the knee twice by a nice special daddy bear (TNMike) and spent a lot of time taking the strap from an absolute master (Hhoncho) who I’ve heard about and admired for many, many years. Amazing time.I’ve got 17 or 18 videos up on my spankingtube from the event so please enjoy. My name there is Bearspanks https://www.spankingtube.com/user/bearspanks/videos  

Hello everyone,   I have been wading through our logs, figuring out the recent crash and I have other inportant information to update you with.  Firstly there was no security breech, it was a database crash.   Secondly our backup routine had failed, resulting in the loss of a few months of videos.   Also very importantly, our two year commitment contract with our hosting provider will expire on 28th October.Normally about this time, I look at finding a better spec server for a similar or lower price, however its not going to happen this time around.  Our prices will increase, but if I do another two year commitment before our contract expires, its only going up  by $20 a month, but that is still $240 per year.   I analyzed our traffic logs, we actually do not have to upgrade the server at all, we are consistantly below 350 Mpbs, actually usually way below that, given that our port speed can handle 500 Mpbs (incoming and out going), I see no need to upgrade  To put that into perspective the server can process 62.5 Megabytes of data every second.  That is more than enough for our site, and very likely will last us at least the next two years and probably longer.    Instead of looking at server upgrades, I am looking into upgrading our caching service, at the moment we use an open and free version of the software which has some restrictions and does impede performance.  I am looking at a license that will eliminate those restrictions, but as always there is a cost, which is currently $17 per month or $204 annually.  If we do that, our annual costs (including the server price increase) will increase by a total of $444 (an unusual number for sure).   It is substantial.   I do need to take this all into consideration when making my final decision on the best way forward.  The initial server work I am planning will involve the following:   Refresh the server. Refresh the database. Install the most recent version of the software script. Install a reliable opensource backup software with a GUI. Complete a security audit. Configure email server and reverse dns. Setup email registration. Allow password resets by email.   I will provide updates as I go along, and let you know my decisons.   James                

Hello everyone, I know there are still some issues, since the crash.  I will be free in a couple of days from now, to begin work, getting things back functioning correctly. Part of that work will be refreshing the server, updating the OS and setting up email verification and email password resets. There will be some downtime, but I think we can all agree it will be worth it. My thanks to everyone for their pateince, especially our admins, helping out at a very difficult time for me. I will update you when there will be downtime in advance and setup a seperate status page. Also do remember naughty boys get spanked .. especailly Jonny!   hugs   James  

Got this lovely email in my inbox and wanted to share with y'all. It's emails like this that really make us feel like the pandemic is really really  finally over. The Spanking Community is back and with the availability of the monkeypox vax, we're rarin' to go. Get out there and meet the boy of your dreams....or switch, or Daddy, or.... ________________________________________ "We want to let you know the dates for Camp Red Tails 2023 so you can put them on your personal calendars. Camp Red Tails will be Thursday, July 20 to Tuesday July 25, 2023, most campers arrive on the first day, Thursday.   "Camp Registration is NOT open yet!  However, we will surely send you another email as soon as Registration opens, sometime in November or December at the latest.   We hope you had a great summer, and we look forward to seeing you at our next Camp Red Tails!   John, John & Dan   Website:  www.campredtails.com         Please comment below or email us with your ideas.   ________________________________________ Follow Cornertime Confidential Wherever You Are:   Tumblr  ∙  Twitter  ∙  Blogger  ∙  WordPress    

Dear users, I am pleased to inform you that we have found a possible source for the problem that has been affecting our website since yesterday. If you are interested in technical details : - The video module apparently crashed during a video upload yesterday around 7:40pm EST. It has since been updated, rebooted and fixed. - The database had errors in at least one table that handle the feed. These errors which might have been caused by the video module (our best guess is that an index went out of bound after being crashed by a failed video upload), and have now been fixed.   What you should read if you are not interested in the technicalities : Videos upload are now authorized. However, since we are still not sure about what caused the crash, we kindly ask you not to upload more than 1 video per account and per day. Video upload is a heavy process for the website, and the last thing we want is another crash because you all decided to put your videos back online at the same time. It appears that we will not be able to recover the feed at the moment. However, your albums, pictures, blogs and groups are still here and can be found in your profile ! If you want your albums back on your wall feed, your best option is to re-upload 1 picture in each of them. However, like for the videos, we invite you to take things slow. Please do not flood the main feed and the server by all updating your albums at the same time ! I will keep you posted if there is anything new. But I doubt that much more will happen before James returns.   Cheers ! -- LordZasz