I will never ever allow this site to become an arena for bigots', Bully's or worse. We are a community, and I know the site admins and vast majority of members support me on this.

No shame in asking! I'm glad to contribute to a site that contributes to my happiness on a daily basis! ;)

James.... May I suggest that you at least ALLOW members to contribute to a fund to reimburse you for the self-funding of the server upgrade? I suspect that more could be raised to relieve you of that burden than you might imagine. David