I will never ever allow this site to become an arena for bigots', Bully's or worse. We are a community, and I know the site admins and vast majority of members support me on this.

I was very late in acting on my nearly lifelong fascination, largely because my husband has no interest in spanking. It was 10 years ago next month that I went to the Folsom St Fair in San Francisco and checked out the famous charity spanking booth. After excitedly watching a series of other guys get spanked, I finally summoned my courage and walked up with a $20 bill. The spanker asked what I would choose for my 20 swats. With a sense of going big or going home I said I'd take the wood paddle. It was intense and thrilling and I knew I wanted to be involved in more of this. The guys at the booth gave me a card for the monthly men's spank parties, and I went to the very next one and was well on my way to making up for a lot of lost time. And here is the pic I still have of checking out in the mirror the next day the results of my first real spanking.

James.... May I suggest that you at least ALLOW members to contribute to a fund to reimburse you for the self-funding of the server upgrade? I suspect that more could be raised to relieve you of that burden than you might imagine. David